Posted May 26, 2022 Would love to hear your ideas of a perfect dream companion from physical form to attitude,personality,mentality & other distinct characteristics or details,Close your eyes an create your true provider from head to,Please do share….. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 26, 2022 15 hours ago, MulaniButterfly said: Would love to hear your ideas of a perfect dream companion from physical form to attitude,personality,mentality & other distinct characteristics or details,Close your eyes an create your true provider from head to,Please do share….. I think this could be answered in a lot of different ways: physical appearance, services offered, proximity, personality, reputation, rates etc. And certainly all of those, to differing degrees, are important to me. But the ladies I seem to find myself coming back to time and time again, are the ladies that seem to be enjoying themselves while they are with me. Do they reply enthusiastically when I reach out to book? Am I greeted by a big smile when I walk in the door? Do they seem to take an interest in me, ask how the drive was, how my day is going, etc.? Do they act like they enjoy the activities we engage in? Do they seem sad when it is time for me to get ready to leave, give me a big hug at the door and say they hope they get to see me again, tell me to drive safe? Send a text later thanking me for coming by? I know for the most part it is an allusion, and at the end of the day I'm just a wad of cash and maybe a good review to them, but I'll tell you, that is an allusion that I'm ready to buy into any day of the week. 12 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 27, 2022 3 hours ago, Mustang87 said: I think this could be answered in a lot of different ways: physical appearance, services offered, proximity, personality, reputation, rates etc. And certainly all of those, to differing degrees, are important to me. But the ladies I seem to find myself coming back to time and time again, are the ladies that seem to be enjoying themselves while they are with me. Do they reply enthusiastically when I reach out to book? Am I greeted by a big smile when I walk in the door? Do they seem to take an interest in me, ask how the drive was, how my day is going, etc.? Do they act like they enjoy the activities we engage in? Do they seem sad when it is time for me to get ready to leave, give me a big hug at the door and say they hope they get to see me again, tell me to drive safe? Send a text later thanking me for coming by? I know for the most part it is an allusion, and at the end of the day I'm just a wad of cash and maybe a good review to them, but I'll tell you, that is an allusion that I'm ready to buy into any day of the week. Attitude, enthusiasm, and professionalism are definitely a key factor I totally agree with you! 9 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 27, 2022 On 5/25/2022 at 11:23 PM, MulaniButterfly said: Would love to hear your ideas of a perfect dream companion from physical form to attitude,personality,mentality & other distinct characteristics or details,Close your eyes an create your true provider from head to,Please do share….. There is no such thing as perfect but I will get as close to it as I can. 1. Honest, truthful, straight forward and sincere in the way that they live/handle themselves when I am in their presence. Basically a GENUINE type of WOMAN is so fucking hot to me....................... 2. Physically check my TOB List that is pretty much what I like. I don't DISCRIMINATE, I simply APPRECIATE women PERIOD......................... 12 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 27, 2022 18 hours ago, Mustang87 said: I think this could be answered in a lot of different ways: physical appearance, services offered, proximity, personality, reputation, rates etc. And certainly all of those, to differing degrees, are important to me. But the ladies I seem to find myself coming back to time and time again, are the ladies that seem to be enjoying themselves while they are with me. Do they reply enthusiastically when I reach out to book? Am I greeted by a big smile when I walk in the door? Do they seem to take an interest in me, ask how the drive was, how my day is going, etc.? Do they act like they enjoy the activities we engage in? Do they seem sad when it is time for me to get ready to leave, give me a big hug at the door and say they hope they get to see me again, tell me to drive safe? Send a text later thanking me for coming by? I know for the most part it is an allusion, and at the end of the day I'm just a wad of cash and maybe a good review to them, but I'll tell you, that is an allusion that I'm ready to buy into any day of the week. Illusion, not allusion. Duh 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 27, 2022 Petite, stacked (natural), enthusiastic, creative, appreciative, responsive. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 29, 2022 I see who I expected to see when we meet and she makes me want to see her again. 10 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 29, 2022 The attitude, sweet caring and catering to your needs. 11 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 29, 2022 I can't come up with much regarding a "perfect provider", except I prefer a positive attitude, and a lady who seems to enjoy the fun and doesn't just go through the motions, a sweet smile, is genuinely friendly and is open to a variety of pleasures. I don't have a "type" and enjoy a variety of ladies of all types. It really depends on my mood at the time. But friendly, engaging, fun ladies are my favorites. Each are "perfect" in their own ways. That is why I enjoy this hobby. 12 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 31, 2022 I’ll just note: It’s def not just about “What’s physically provided” , for many of us… There is a level of emotional care and needs met, that truly matters, helps, many of us appreciate on so MANY levels. ❤️ 🙏 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 31, 2022 Pretty simple: 1. Answer the phone 2. Return calls within a reasonable time 3. Show up when you say you will be there 4. Cheerful friendly attitude. Haven't found her yet. Still looking but my experiences over the past several years have not given me much hope. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 31, 2022 The closest thing to perfect for me is slender, pretty, and personable. She excels at the art of seduction, foreplay and good conversation. She seems happy to see me again and never cancels on me the day of our scheduled meeting. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 31, 2022 Accurate pictures, warm and caring and most importantly, having the ability to make you feel like a million bucks (saying the right things, behaving like you are their long lost lover) even if thats not true. We are all here for the fantasy. 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 31, 2022 My idea of the perfect provider is………….. A lady that will accept my request for a second visit! Lol 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 15, 2022 young bubbly willing to please without too many ristrictions of course. treat me nice instead of just like a john needing a pop. most of the time the rendez vous is not just for the pop but for the relaxing touch creating a comfortable environement to relax via nice talk and stuff. Just like you were on your first visit to denver, I did not feel rushed or mistreated at all. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 16, 2022 I agree with most of these and I can’t really add much. My top four are: - When she’s reasonably prompt with communication - When she’s my height or shorter - When her actions and words are honest and empathetic - When the sight of her stirs me 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 16, 2022 Honestly I have seen many different ages, shapes, hair colors and sizes. A pleasant attitude goes a long way with me. Still I prefer a girl who is thin and short. Just because that is what I am. Natural breasts with no nipple piercings. Nice smile and tattoos kept to a bare minimum. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 16, 2022 When I started exploring this hobby, I was pretty fixated on physical appearance. While that's important to the extent that being attracted to the provider is essential to a good experience, I've found it's ultimately more of a secondary consideration for me now. Attraction exists on a spectrum, and the fact is I don't need to peg out the surface-level attraction meter in order to deeply enjoy being with a person. The most memorable experiences I've had have been with providers that foster a sense of freedom within the boundaries of the relationship. They help me to feel free to enjoy myself with them, in other words. This almost feels like an ephemeral quality because it's not a specific behavior but more of an attitude and mindset, but the best providers always seem to posses it to some degree. The other thing I value a great deal is a combination of strong skills and attentiveness as a lover. My favorite providers know how to make me feel things I've never felt before in my life, and they are paying attention to and learning from what I like. The combination of those 2 things is probably the sexiest thing on the planet to me. 9 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 21, 2022 On 6/15/2022 at 0:46 PM, skinnydud said: young bubbly willing to please without too many ristrictions of course. treat me nice instead of just like a john needing a pop. most of the time the rendez vous is not just for the pop but for the relaxing touch creating a comfortable environement to relax via nice talk and stuff. Just like you were on your first visit to denver, I did not feel rushed or mistreated at all. Thank sweetie ☺️ 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2022 I have met a few great providers over the years..But, dozens more that were gaud awful. (smells, rushed, mechanical) In no particular order the things I liked. 1) Girls squats on my and bounces up and down. 2)cleans me up and has warm wash cloth 3)no smell of smoke 4)works on the tip more than just bobbing up and down. 5)impeccably clean 6)not a clock watcher 7)Doesnt say stop or no( rules of engagement discussed well in advance of encounter) 8)Never says hurry up or are you done yet.( a big turn off and ruins moment) 9) Has supplies needed. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 3, 2022 Wet, great kisser, vocal, squirted…. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 4, 2022 I get back into this world because I'm not in a relationship. When I first started, I would find the gal I was most attracted to. One who would physically get me going! Bang it out for an hour and I was good. I seek and desire two things today. Passion and connection! I seek being with a lady that has passion. And I appreciate a lady that you can connect with on a deeper level. My experience today is way more than a mechanical one or getting one's rocks off. I'm also so into amazing kissers. And for the icing on the cake. One who is really into oral! Not only on me, but one that appreciates it back! I understand a lady has her do's and don'ts. I just seek the women that have the same desires as I do. I will admit. I am bummed that a lot of the new curvy ladies coming onto TOB are not into what I'm looking for. And that's ok. As I seek the ones who are GFE friendly......... 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 16, 2022 This feels like being asked beer I like... 1. free 2. cold 3. something new.... Providers with appropriate menu restrictions and price with a welcoming disposition is a good start. As for the physical god did a great job on you ladies and I can admire nearly every form. I might lean towards long hair or short with a big butt and modest bust but in no way is that a hard set limit for me. I think the extremes of both slim and thick can be bad, healthy-ish is my favorite body type. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 20, 2022 Looks like Courtney Cox, body like STPeach, sex like a porno star. Most importantly, amazing BJ skills that are tuned to way I like. Accommodating and sweet personality and happy to do it all.😂 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 7, 2022 I like all types of ladies, looks wise, not sure if I have a specific "type". I like ladies who are genuine, who seems to enjoy the fun and do not just go through the motions, so GFE is what I look for mostly. Variety is the spice of life I guess. Solid skill in foreplay and seduction do not hurt either! 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
