Mustang87

I get that, but I'm a planner. Don't like leaving things to chance, and risk being disappointed.

I wouldn't start football until October. Why play in such warm weather? Besides, everyone knows it's still baseball season.

Yep. That was a good one.

There is no real incentive for guys to write reviews these days. Maybe if there was, guys would write more reviews. Here's an idea. We get these dots below out profile name that corresponds to how many post we've made on these forums. Members used to brag about getting their 7th, 8th, or 9th dot. Maybe if they added to the dot total for reviews as well? One new dot for every 10 reviews or 100 reviews? Would it make more guys write reviews? Just an idea.

I don't think he is talking about deposits here. I think he is talking about giving a lady some money up front, online, so she will agree to interact with you, and that might lead to a booking. Kind of like paying at the door to get into the strip club. Not clear if that money would be applied to the total total charged later or not, my guess is not. If that is what he is talking about, I personally would not do it. But I do see this as a tactic some ladies might use to cut through all the static and see who out there is worthy of her engaging with.

I once arrived at an appt and the lady was not ready. She invited me in to watch her get ready, shower, shave, brush teeth, etc. It was kind of hot, but it is not something I looked to book beyond that one time or something that I would call a kink. I do have a kink or two that I like to indulge from time to time in the hobby. In fact, I do have one in particular that is just evolving in my head that I plan to pursue with the right lady soon. Hope it is everything I think it might me.

I should be less judgemental. I've spent my share of time at the department of redundancy department.

Gotta be honest man, the redundancy you startedwith ("in my opinion" and "in my book") in the same sentence, is really triggering my OCD. But getting past that, yes, the public reviews on here really set this site apart. I believe it was spring of '18 when review content was taken away. It felt like the site might also go away shortly. I understand reviews might not be what I thought they were, as apparently some guys allow ladies to write their own, but I'll keep writing them and I'll keep reading them, at least for now.

That is my experience as well.

I understand where the OP is coming from, but good luck finding a lady interested in an hour straight of continuous intercourse. My back gets sore just thinking about it. Imagine how she feels. I think what he's asking about is edging. That is something I'm into as well. However, there are much better ways to get it than just pounding away on a YL for an hour. Talk to a lady, tell her what you are interested in, and see what suggestions she might have. It has worked wonders for me.

Yeah, I don't think anyone is saying that BJs aren't very, very good things. The OP was asking who are the best, implying that all BJs are not equal. I was playing off of that. I suggested the possibility that not all men would agree on who is the best, as some men, in my opinion, like things done differently than other men. You can disagree with the OP, or with me, if you'd like, but please don't represent what I wrote If it was not clear, I love all BJs, but I have enjoyed some more than others. Have a great weekend.

Put me down as a "No".

Before I found Backpage I booked a few ladies on Craigslist back in the day. They had adult listings that were very similar to BP. They took those listings down around the time BP started to get heat. I always wondered why the man came down on BP and left CR alone. Anybody else remember the adult listings on Craigslist?

Ironically I just got an email saying my Tryst account has been deleted. No major change in my day to day quality of life so far, but I'll keep an eye out and report back if things take a turn for the worse.

I don't think everyone likes the same thing in a BJ. What one thinks is great, someone else might think is just ok. (However, none are really bad IMO) For example, I understand a lot of guys like deap throat, I don't personally care for it. Also depends on the purpose of the BJ. Is it part of fore play along the way to other things, or is it a QV B and G where she is trying to break the land speed record getting you off? They will certainly be different experiences.