Ladies Help

(last updated May 2023)

Paying With Bitcoin:

The easiest way to purchase Bitcoin is with a verified CASH APP account. 

Do not make partial payments as your payment will not be processed.


Click Billing on TOB,
Select items to purchase
Once confirmed, click "PAY WITH BITCOIN"

You now have 30 minutes to complete the Bitcoin transfer. The easiest way to do this is to click "OPEN IN WALLET" to complete the transfer from your Wallet.

If the WALLET won't open Copy the bitcoin address in the TOB Bitcoin window and send the bitcoin directly to that address.

NOTE- If it expires you need to start over as a new payment address needs to be generated.
If you exit this window, you will need to start over. Please note that bitcoin is fluid and can change if you exit and come back to checkout.


Open "CASH APP", click the "HOME" button at the bottom left of the app > Bitcoin tile > "BUY" to purchase the amount of bitcoin you need. (Please note cash app will charge a 2% fee so if buying a $85 listing you should purchase $87 worth of bitcoin, $105/$108, $107/$110, $115/$118)
Once purchased go back to Home > Bitcoin tile > TRIANGLE to send the bitcoin. Enter the amount, paste the TOB address and send. Please do this within a few minutes of getting the TOB address. It can take an hour to post. Send at normal speed do not select the expedited or high speed as you will be charged a ridiculous miner fee and your payment will be short.

Payment Trouble Shooting;
When I click Pay With Bitcoin the next page does not load:
Try using a different browser Chrome and Firefox are the recommended browsers.

The wallet won't open:
Copy the bitcoin address in the TOB Bitcoin window and send the bitcoin directly to that address

How Long Before My Listing is Live?
Once you JOIN and are approved, simply upload your pictures, select the Post New Listing link, fill out the form and Post the Listing! Please note that some markets require a fee.

Posting A Listing:
To Post a Listing click the LOGIN link in the upper right hand corner and login using your email address and password. Once logged click your name (on mobile devices there is 3 horizontal lines, looks like a hamburger) in the upper right hand corner and select Post New Listing. Then, fill out the Title information and anything else you would like to appear in and be associated with the listing. Select the Gallery you would like attached to the listing, then enter the information in the body/ description area. There is no need to know HTML, just type in whatever you want to appear, then post the listing. 

Re-posting the listing is even easier, select My Listings button or link in the menu and select the listing you want to re-post. You can also do a quick Edit or copy the listing to create a modified version.

If this is your first time please add images to your Gallery. Once you have completed that, then select POST NEW LISTING and you will be taken to the Posting page, fill out the form and post:)

Adding Pictures to the Gallery:
#1 Click to Create New Gallery. You have the option to Rename that Gallery.

#2 Then click ADD TO GALLERY  This will open the Media Manager window. (If you added pictures previously, they will be in there)

You will then Click and Browse your Tablet, Phone or Computer and locate the pictures you want to upload.

#3 Once you have the pictures uploaded, please CLICK each picture you want to appear in that gallery then click the blue button ADD.

You have now created a gallery. You can repeat the process for each gallery you want to create. :)

Does the blue line load, but then no image appears? If so, the image is to large. A quick fix, send that image to yourself in a text message, save that and then upload that image.

Manage Auto Post:
Click your name, click Manage Auto Post, Select the Listing, Select the Time and Save!

How Do I Change My Listing Profile Picture?:
Click the Edit Profile button above your image. Then click the Change Picture button below the profile picture. This will open the Media Manager. If you have previously uploaded pictures Click the picture you want and then click the ADD button at the bottom of the page, then click Save.

What is TOB a Reference?:
TOB References are similar to P411 OK's. These are other ladies, such as yourself, that are also members of TOB and have provided a reference for a TOB gentleman Member.

I have a Reference Request, What Do I Do?:
To view the Reference, login and on your TOB Profile scroll down below the galleries to "Pending Reference Requests" You will see the gentlemens name, session date and a description of the session. You can then click the button to "GIVE REFERENCE" or "REJECT" Any Reference you GIVE can be withdrawn at anytime by you with one click. IF you don't remember the gentleman you can click his name, view his profile and send him a message.

I Denied a Reference Request By Mistake?:
Have the Gentleman submit another reference request.

A TOB Member Has Allowed Me To View His References, How Do I Do That?:
Login,  scroll down the page below your gallery to a heading titled "Profiles Shared with You" Then click on the user name you are interested in. These are the only users that have given you permission view their references. Once you click on their user name you will be taken to their profile page. You can then scroll down to view their References area.

What is a Personal References?:
These are unverified reference's entered by the user. We encourage you to contact those reference's directly to verify that user.

How Long Before My Review Is Live:
A user said he submitted a review for me, but I don't see it. Once submitted the review is run through an algorithm and then placed in queue, prior to review and publishing. This process can take 8 days. You and the user will be informed if the review is approved and only the user will be informed if denied.

How Do I Make a HyperLink In My Post:

There are two ways- enter the and then click the Enter/Return this will put the cursor on the next line making the hyperlink. You can also click the Link icon and enter the URL(website address) and a description (optional) then click the Insert button

How Do I Make My Email a Link:
Click the Email icon then enter the email address and description (optional) then click the Insert button.