LADIES HELP  
(Last updated May 2023)

PAYING WITH BITCOIN  
The easiest way to purchase Bitcoin is with a verified CASH APP account.  
Do not make partial payments — your payment will not be processed.

MAKING PAYMENT:  
- Click Billing on TOB  
- Select items to purchase  
- Click CONFIRM ITEMS  
- Once confirmed, click PAY WITH BITCOIN

You now have 30 minutes to complete the Bitcoin transfer.  
The easiest way is to click OPEN IN WALLET to send from your wallet.

If the wallet doesn't open:  
- Copy the Bitcoin address in the TOB window  
- Send the Bitcoin directly to that address

Note: If the window expires, you'll need to start over — each payment generates a new Bitcoin address. Do not exit the window and come back later, as pricing may change.

PURCHASING BITCOIN  
Option 1: CASH APP  
- Open CASH APP, click the HOME icon  
- Tap the Bitcoin tile, then BUY  
- Cash App charges a ~2% fee  
- Example: For an $85 listing, buy $87 worth of BTC  
- $105 - $108  
- $107 - $110  
- $115 - $118  
- Go to Home > Bitcoin tile > Triangle (send icon)  
- Enter amount, paste the TOB Bitcoin address, and send  
- Send within a few minutes of getting the TOB address  
- Choose normal speed, not expedited — high-speed sends charge more and may result in underpayment

PAYMENT TROUBLESHOOTING  
Problem: The "Pay With Bitcoin" page doesn't load  
- Use a different browser — Chrome or Firefox is recommended

Problem: Wallet won't open  
- Copy the Bitcoin address shown in the TOB payment window  
- Paste it into your wallet manually and send the payment

HOW LONG BEFORE MY LISTING IS LIVE?  
After joining and being approved:  
- Upload your pictures  
- Click Post New Listing  
- Fill out the form and post!

Some markets may require a fee.

POSTING A LISTING  
- Click LOGIN at the top-right and sign in  
- Click your name (on mobile, tap the 3-bar menu)  
- Select Post New Listing  
- Enter the title and content  
- Select a gallery to attach  
- Type your listing text (no need for HTML)  
- Click Post

To re-post or edit:  
- Click My Listings  
- Select your listing  
- You can also copy it to create a modified version

If this is your first time, upload images to a gallery before posting.

ADDING PICTURES TO A GALLERY  
- Click Create New Gallery  
- You can rename it  
- Click Add to Gallery  
- This opens the Media Manager  
- Select images from your device  
- After upload, click each image you want included  
- Then click the blue ADD button

Repeat as needed to create more galleries.

PICTURE WON’T LOAD?  
- If the blue upload bar fills but no image appears:  
- The file may be too large  
- Quick fix: text the image to yourself, save it, then upload that version

MANAGE AUTO POST  
- Click your name  
- Click Manage Auto Post  
- Select the listing and time  
- Click Save

CHANGE MY LISTING PROFILE PICTURE  
- Click Edit Profile above your image  
- Click Change Picture under your current photo  
- Media Manager will open  
- Click a previously uploaded picture  
- Click ADD, then Save

WHAT IS A TOB REFERENCE?  
A TOB Reference is similar to a P411 OK.  
It’s a recommendation from one TOB female member for a TOB male member.

I HAVE A REFERENCE REQUEST — WHAT DO I DO?  
- Log in  
- Scroll below your gallery to Pending Reference Requests  
- You’ll see the gentleman’s name, session date, and description  
- Click GIVE REFERENCE or REJECT

You can withdraw a reference at any time. If you don’t remember the user, click their name to view their profile or send a message.

I DENIED A REFERENCE REQUEST BY MISTAKE  
- Ask the gentleman to send another request

A TOB MEMBER SHARED REFERENCES WITH ME — HOW DO I VIEW THEM?  
- Log in  
- Scroll below your gallery to Profiles Shared with You  
- Click the user’s name  
- You’ll be taken to their profile where you can view their references

WHAT ARE PERSONAL REFERENCES?  
These are unverified references added by the user.  
You are encouraged to contact these references directly to confirm.

HOW LONG BEFORE MY REVIEW IS LIVE?  
If a user submitted a review for you but you don’t see it:  
- Reviews are screened by an algorithm  
- Then placed in a queue for review  
- It may take up to 8 days  
- You and the user will be notified if it’s approved  
- Only the user is notified if it’s denied

HOW DO I MAKE A HYPERLINK IN MY POST?  
- Type the full link (e.g., www.example.com) and press Enter  
- Or click the Link icon, enter the URL and optional description, then click Insert

HOW DO I MAKE MY EMAIL A LINK?  
- Click the Email icon  
- Enter your email and optional description  
- Click Insert