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I have noticed that 99.999% of your posts are the same. J/K, I appreciate that you want to offer advice to new clients. To the OP I personally feel much more comfortable with Incalls. If I do an Outcall it's when I am not at home, and I am in a hotel. But you never let us know what your issues are that have you nervous to pull the trigger. You mentioned your issues are obvious, but I guess make a pro/con list for Incall vs Outcall and go with the one that has more pros.

Some providers do not want reviews, or they would like reviews on certain sites. Usually when I am leaving I will ask the provider if she would like a review, and what site(s) she would like it on. I've joined a couple of sites just so I can submit a review. I would not put too much stock in TER reviews. I personally won't submit a review there. I have had reviews rejected because I was not explicit enough. This I believe causes some clients to exaggerate. Also I think every review should be thought of as YMMV. You can't expect her "playbook" to be the same for you as it was for someone else. I am curious, I know some providers that don't use hotels at all. They rent an apartment or townhome for incalls. What do you think of providers who do this? Do you think it's not safe? (For the provider and the client) I have also met providers because they were recommended to me by another provider that I have seen. What do you think of this? It sounds like you have found a system that works for you, and that's great. But I don't think anything is fool proof 100%, (or 99.999%) and there are nuances that don't fall into your "boxes".

I can't help but think of Jerry Seinfeld when I read the name of this topic. ("What's the deal with hair extensions") I'm neutrel when it comes to hair extensions. I never intentionally touch a provider's hair so if it looks good to the provider, then it's good for me.

I think you misunderstood, @Audrey Astor said it was inappropriate for the provider to have a boyfriend or husband outside waiting. Then she asked why you brought it up i.e. did this happen to you?

Please don't tell me you are alternating between vanginal and anal sex and vice versa. There are some serious health issues if you do that. (I can't imagine a provider would allow you to do that) Are you changing condoms when you are alternating?

I want your DOR Mayo-naise. RIP LGJ

I admit my ignorance when it comes to the provider side of the hobby. So I might be wrong about this, but do different sites have different criteria to place ads? From what I understand, TOB has many requirements to place ads here. If a site had little to no criteria to post ads I could see more unprofessional providers posting ads there. While there might be bad apples on all sites, i could see a site having more then others if they have little or no standards. I am not saying STG is like this, I'm speaking generally. A little off topic regarding drunk clients. I understand and agree with a ASP not wanting to continue an appointment with an inebreated client. And I think it's fair that they should be paid for their time and effort. (Especially if they made a trip to the clients residence) But what I don't condone is if the ASP takes posessions. Reading the thread that was mentioned and that is not okay. Maybe if the client has no money he might offer something in exchange for the ASP's trouble, but taking something without his knowledge is theft. I remember the first time I hobbied it was an Outcall at my place. Due to a misunderstanding I did not have enough cash to cover the YL's rate. Unknown to me she took a large glass egg that belonged to my parents. You would not believe what I went through to get that thing back!

I agree that social skills are found less and less. But I think it started way before the Covid shutdowns. I think once social media and smart phones became popular is when it started. And with A.I. it will be even less. I think it's funny that we still use the universal sign for a phone to mean call me. (The hang loose sign with your thumb by your ear and your pinky by your mouth) When really we should make two thumbs up signs with our hands close together and tap our thumbs against the top of our fists. This would be the universal sign for Text Me.

I can vouch for Lily, I have seen her and she is ligit and very sweet. I tried to write a review but it was declined. (Because of lack of details) I booked Lily thru P411 and mentioned her ad on Tryst. (She had rates for longer appointments on her Tryst ad) I think maybe the OP contacted a different ASP back in 2021.

That's interesting I never noticed that. I don't really read my reviews after I post them. What gets edited? Is it to make the review more R rated instead of XXX? Or do negative comments get edited so the review is not too harsh?

Not necessarily, she could have used Google Translate. Not trying to be a white knight, I just didn't want to jump to any conclusions. It does make me wonder, I'm too lazy to do the research. But I wonder if there are rebuttals for positive reviews. I guess @skinnydud most recent review is not that bad (Yes for experience and Maybe for recommend) and it has a rebuttal.

According to a co-worker the NFL is rigged for the 49ers to win. I think he is just a disgruntled Packers fan, but it did make me think. I'm sure I have heard whispers of the NFL being rigged before, but it has really increased in the last few years. I have heard all levels of rigging. From the NFL telling the refs "We really want team A to win. Make it happen" To players throwing games. And the highest level is everything is pre-determined and scripted like pro wrestling. I can imagine a group of NFL executives saying: "Fans are sick of the Patriots, we need a new dynasty. What team has not won for a while with a strong fan base?" "How about the Chiefs?" "Let's do it" Now it might be a coincidence, but this has seemed to increase since the 2020 presidential election. I hope I'm not opening a can or worms, but it really seems like some people question the legitimacy of everything now. It could be true that the NFL is rigged and if it is I don't want to know. (Ignorance is bliss) I like watching sports and believing it's all legit, and I will continue to do that. But if it's true the NFL is rigged it would explain the Broncos getting blown out in the Super Bowl three times in the 80's.

I have noticed a trend lately. (For myself) When I see a provider who's In Call is at a hotel, I usually arrive five minutes early and text that I have arrived and ask for the room number. I assume it will take me a few minutes to walk to the room and I can arrive right at the scheduled time. But lately I won't receive a text back until 5-10 minutes after the scheduled start time. Then by the time I get to the room it is already 10-15 minutes into the schduled start time. Then I am told my time is up, but when I look at my phone I still have 5-10 minutes before the scheduled end time. I usually book 2 hour appointments, but after the time shaving at the start and the end I only end up spending about an hour and forty to hour and forty five minutes with the provider. I also wondered if the time starts when I walk in the door, but it does not appear to be the case anymore. Is two hous too long? Is that the reason for the time shaving? Maybe I should book 1 hour appointments. Has this happened recently to anyone who books 30-60 minute appointments? It could be me also, I'm pretty mid. I'm sure there are probably other clients providers would rather spend time with. But i feel if I book two hours I should spend two hours with the provider. Now if I am late and I don't let the provider know, then I fully expect that appointment to end at the schduled time. It use to happen frequently that the provider and I were having fun, we both lost track of the time and I accidentally over stayed by a few minutes. That rarely happens to me anymore.

Before Barry Sanders, the Lions had another good running back named Billy Sims. Detroit has had a couple of BS running backs. I like to root for teams who have never won a championship or has not won one for a long time. My favourite pro team has not won a championship for a very long time, since before I was born. So I know what it's like to be a struggling fan. So many teams last year won their first ever championships. Nuggets, Golden Knights and the Rangers. It makes me wonder when will it be my turn? So how things are going I would not be surprised if the Lions win the Super Bowl. (Or I should say the "Big Game". I don't want to violate TM laws.) I would not be upset if the Lions win. I would just be a little jealous. Personally I'm pulling for San Fran since the Broncos are not playing.

Happy holidays to everyone whatever holiday you celebrate. I think Festivus was yesterday, (12/23) I'm not sure when Kwanzaa starts.