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Fantastic, mutually gratifying sex (fantasy?) With a woman who.is glad I am there (connection?).

If the provider requires text only and does not show for an appointment where time.and place were agreed upon, then that's on her. Doesn't matter who is truly handling the phone.

Bummer. I certainly don't have any answer for why this happened. I can say that it is an uncommon occurrence with well-reviewed locally-based veteran providers. As such, I hope you get back on the horse and try again soon. Lots of amazing choices here ON TOB The review issue can be tricky for reasons you identified. I'm also willing to accept that there is potentially another side of the story not currently publicized. If you post a factual review that she does not contest, then I think your chances of being black listed are minimized. Speculation on my part. Anyone have input based on first hand experience?

Nice gesture. Service to others is it's own reward. Did the thought cross your mind to hit on the vet? If she is a Vietnam war vet she would be a minimum of 70 yrs old.....

Ok. Thanks....

Earlier today I received a TOB PM from a well-reviewed long-time TOB companion. Her message contained a couple things that caused me to pause: 1. She mentioned that she noticed I had been viewing a particular thread. She is right - I have been viewing that thread- but how does she know this? I didn't think this data was readily available. I have not posted in or replied to a post in the referenced thread. 2. She referenced "the last time we were together.....". She is on my favorite list, but I have never seen her. I chose to not reply to her message. My thinking is that a reply might somehow provide her with data that I dont want her to have. Probably not true, but the whole scenario has made me wary. Maybe she has me confused with someone else....

Filed under the category "strange but true...."

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You called yourself out as an idiot and asked for feedback. The feedback - whether you agree with it it or not - was delivered respectfully. Nobody shitting on you. You have zero reviews and few posts , which (like it or not) puts you in the category of newbie/non-participamt/minimal credibility. We're happy to help. Are you happy to listen?

Why would you provide extensive screening data before you know what she wants?

I agree with most of what you have here. That said, a supportive comment does not require back up because ot doesn't create a negative consequence for anyone. The stated allegation could potentially have serious consequences for the companion and needs to be verified or refuted by TOB admin/mods. If they take this route I suspect the review of circumstances will occur behind the scenes, but hopefully the results will be made public. Yes, the OP offered to provide data privately ( a good thing) , but the companion stands to lose potential business from clients who read the allegation and simply move on without further research.

P I doubt this will play out publicly, but it needs to be addressed and resolved for the benefit of the whole TOB community.

This is all speculation on my part but, hey, I don't have anything better to do right now..... Some companions change names. You'd have to ask a companion why that is done. That in and of itself is not evidence of wrongdoing. For Harper, the change might have coincided with her move to being a FS compsnion. I wouldn't expect her to post here to refute the allegation (hard to prove that something DIDNT happen), but I hope she is engaged with TOB admin to clear her name - if the allegation is untrue. I don't have a dog in this fight. Not challenging or defending either party. If the allegation is accurate there will be consequences. Same should be true if the allegation is false.

I don't know. Harper/The Naughty Professor has been around here a long time. This is a very serious accusation, right up there with depost/donation scamming. This could potentially have serious consequences among those who read the forum. Without offering judgement, it seems that she is entitled to some level of proof. Having said that, I don't know what "proof" looks like. Maybe mds can remove the post for now and conduct a non-public investigation. If the allegation proves true, ban her and put the accusation back on the forum. If the investigation reveals that the accusation lacks credibility, then mods/admin can post that info and suspend the poster.

OK. Im a little dense here (nothing new...). What's the point if a gift card vs. Cash? Why is it attractive to either party? Over the years I have used cash 99% of the time and some sort of cash app the other 1%. I have never had a companion suggest gift cards.