Caressa Duval

Ummm, might I suggest exam gloves, and giving strict instructions on cleansing prior to this. https://www.amazon.com/nitrile-exam-gloves/s?k=nitrile+exam+gloves

The dots are meaningless in every sense of the word. The amount of dots you have won't make it easier to see a provider. There are plenty of good clients that never post ever. If you choose to post, it is the character of your content that matters. I do look if a TOB member contacts me to see if they post stupid or offensive stuff. I personally like to see they have never posted at all. There are many people here that have 7 or more dots, and what they post constantly should be labelled as birth control because what they post makes no one want to sleep with them. All the same things apply to providers posting. It is not needed to boost business, and can become annoying if the posts are redundant. All this is IMO.

Oh you live @Developer??? LMAO. No HAHA when is the new site coming? To the OP What exactly was wrong with her response? She gave you options correct? You just didn't want to screen?

Thank you Divorce Coach for this information! I couldn't find similar verbiage on other sites either, but I did find this at the bottom of my ad elsewhere. "Caressa Duval operates independently. UrLittleSecret provides advertising only and has no involvement in service provision or scheduling." I feel there are many good reasons this disclaimer is on there IMO.

You might as well label the FMTY button the "Interstate Trafficking Charge" button, and look TOB documented everything for you. I clearly list in my ad not to contact me me through TOB messages. I am not going risk arranging dates on a public forum in DM's. I will utilize the toggle switches to disable all messages. Will men being able to see what providers do not allow messaging?

When exactly is all this going to happen? The next month or 2 months? We have been told this for nearly a year now. Will you let us know the new version is coming, or will we just wake up one morning, and it will be there? Here comes a few more questions. This part: All directory results are randomized. Every time someone browses or searches, the order is reshuffled. No provider permanently owns the top spot, impossible to game and paying more does nothing for your placement. Everyone with an active subscription gets equal display time. Active providers — Fully visible with complete profile and contact details and the ability to use our messaging system. Inactive/lapsed providers — Still appear in the board and are still discoverable, but all contact methods and profile details are removed, and they will always appear in the bottom of the results. They are also not discoverable through searches. Clients can see they exist through browsable discovery, cannot reach them until their subscription is active. Clients can show interest with a click of a button to trigger an email/notification that says "Hey, rejoin, I want to see you" This matters for both sides. Clients get a complete picture of who's out there. Providers never fully disappear and the moment you reactivate, you're back and reachable. Most websites do push us to the bottom of the search pool when we have non-paid ads. That is normal. What I am reading is that if we do no have a paid TOB ad that our contact methods and profile details are hidden? Is this correct? Do our reviews get hidden too? Our p411 profile link? Other sites do not remove our contact information, even if we don't have a paid advertisement.

I literally do not know why TOB is allowing a pedo**ile thread to be posted! The OP sure should have know better to even post! You obviously have not read the files! Not only single digits down to 1 and 2 of age, but infants too, including cannibalism, r**pe, torture, and making them not alive! What about the collateral damage to the victims and their families for generations to come @Bit Banger. People can get new jobs. The victims that are in the thousands can't reverse the horrific satanic acts done to them. Now the collateral damage is any person that lives in this country now, who have actually read the files! Not just this country, but the world has massive trauma now if they cared enough to read what actually happened! So forgive me, I am outraged that the USA has done nothing! Again, I do not feel an adult forum is any place for a pedo thread!

I agree. There was a POS that got several good references, that went on to assault several ladies after getting these good references. This was not that long ago! We are fortunate in Colorado to have the safe reporting law for sex workers. It pinned to this forum. You can not report a handle name! Since most review sites do zero verification for men, the proper authorities can't even trace the handle back to a real name. The guy gets away with it to do it again. Like I said, this happened not too long ago to providers in Colorado. We can safely report assault, and stalking now. While not getting in trouble for being a sex worker. We do need a real name to report though!

That odd feeling will 99% of the time hit as soon as you open the door. My door will slam in his face, and he will not be allowed to walk in. At my incall locations I can scream for help, and people will come running. Good screening really does prevent most of this. I have self defense devices strategically placed through out my space. If a man would try to attack me while he is naked... Oh buddy! That would not be wise for him! All these self devices are in high demand across college campuses right now, sadly. I do feel women should take fire arm training, if they are comfortable with that option, not just go buy one. Here is a good site for devices. https://www.divasfordefense.com/?srsltid=AfmBOoqPox2a5Ti8FUpb4qKClmM5AJQw_bsUlLxniBFznnDZ4Av1DlHv

I have always had a back up buddy. My first was another provider. She did a lot of outcalls, and would let me know when she arrived safely, where she was going, and when she was leaving. She did the same for me. This requires a ton of trust because we had to know each others real identity. Now, I have a friend that I let know when I have a client. If it someone I have met before, and not to worry. If it is not someone I have met before, my friend knows I screen extensively! I will let my friend know the time, and length of the visit. I then text shortly after to let my friend know it went well. If they don't hear from me, then they will text to see if I am okay. My back up buddy now is not a female. It is a male hobbyist. I think it would be tough to find a person in my civilian life, to explain why exactly I need an emergency contact for a side job or what that side job is. I do not do outcalls anymore. I personally feel that reduces the risk for many things. Like LE busts, being video taped without knowledge, being in house where no one will hear you scream ect ect. I think it is important to have a "friend" like this in this line of work.

I agree with this! Didn't you see me again me after my L-5 surgery? Yes, you did. I was frustrated, and you gave me hope I feel men get better through this for some reason than women. Maybe, women were not offered this surgery sooner. I have a strong opinion about Megan's situation, we talked about it over many years. You guys give medical advise. Just want to say, my back fractures went beyond L-5 to S-1 the 3rd is on my L-3. My surgeon told me we have not protected that yet. You should never accept medical advice on the internet ever.

This^^^ Yet, some allow guys to post multiples a day. Back to the OP. There is an entire thread about this Is Tryst taking over? - Colorado - TheOtherBoard. I made posts then, and I will add. Tryst is global, and works. It is beautiful site. They do verify us. The best part is it is sex worker run! It was founded by sex workers in Australia, not misogynist dudes that want to degrade women on forums every chance they get. I spend close to $400 a month on advertising. We gear where we get our most profit from each month. Tryst always wins on percentage. You ask, why would a legitimate provider advertise on Tryst, and not here. You advertise where you make profit. It's simple.

Thank you! This is a very informative post. It helps explain to me how things have been, and how they will look in the future. Too bad this post is buried in a "Girl's Office" thread. I feel it would be helpful to be in a thread of it's own titled "How References Have worked and Will Work" or something like that... I do like the new lay out, and choices that we will have on the privacy options on references when the new version comes out.

I absolutely do not want my references shared at the discretion of clients. I don't know if you are smart enough not to send the information to LE or a sting. I have never thought standing references were a good idea, people can change over time. That is why many ladies will not accept references over a year old, or want to be used as a reference if we haven't seen you in a year or more. Ladies should always clean up their standing references. That is our reputation out there too. I got rid of all my references on here, except one. I will not add anymore.

100% We pay the bills!