Jenine

Thirty minutes is good enough !

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Thirty minutes for an initial meeting is all it should be for the first meeting !  If you don’t click or someone’s hygiene is off; it’s a good out !!  Who agrees with me ?

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I understand you are approaching this from the ladies side of the equation and I can't say I can relate to that.  From my perspective, I understand where you are coming from, and just can't say that I agree.  Although there have been a couple times I'd wished I'd booked shorter visits when I'm about 10 minutes in, most of the time I'm happy I booked the hour and sometimes I wish I'd booked longer. Some of my greatest visits have been first time, one hour visits, but maybe that's just me. From the ladies perspective, I'm sure you have the ability to limit first time visits to 30 minutes. I'm sure guys would understand.

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On 6/3/2021 at 9:36 AM, Jenine said:

Thirty minutes for an initial meeting is all it should be for the first meeting !  If you don’t click or someone’s hygiene is off; it’s a good out !!  Who agrees with me ?

Never have booked for less than an hour, probably never will.  If I do not have a pretty good idea/feel who/what I am getting into I don't schedule to begin with.  Maybe just me.

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If a provider doesn’t want to provide for an hour then she should only off 30 min or less.

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On 6/3/2021 at 9:36 AM, Jenine said:

Thirty minutes for an initial meeting is all it should be for the first meeting !  If you don’t click or someone’s hygiene is off; it’s a good out !!  Who agrees with me ?

I don't. Figure out how to screen to your satisfaction and be proactive about hygiene. I will never book a 30 minute session.  Why I hobby cannot be accomplished in 30 minutes (excepting occasional old friends).   

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Even with someone new to me, I prefer booking an hour.  I like to get to know the lady a bit before the other fun starts.  With old friends, I like to catch up with some conversation.  For me, this is more that putting peg A into slot B.  As I've said before, I understand the business side of this, but also think it should be about 2 or more consenting adults having fun and enjoying each other.  And that includes some conversation.  Different strokes for different folks and for those that prefer 30 minutes, go for it.

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30 minutes is like a wham, bam, thank you ma’am.

Not for me.

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Same... less than 1 hour doesn't seem great, and I try to do plenty of research about whether I'll hit it off.  I'm batting 95% probably?  I'd rather suck up the rare $200-300 waste of 30 more minutes than be 25 minutes in with someone wishing I had an hour or more.  

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Jenine, you just might be articulating what may end up being your personal business practice going forward :). Go for it! As for me, I must agree with the other gents above. Anyone I'd choose to see, after due diligence, would rate at least an hour. Good luck out there!

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I usually book 90 minutes. 9 times out of 10, it turns out good. First volley in 15 m, rest for a bit, 2nd round, and enough time for some chit chat, clean and out in 60 m.  The remainder, I count as a tip. Once in a while, doesn't turn out too good and I just learn from that and move on.  Much luck.

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Jenine

 

I am sorry but have you seen your photos?  You are a beautiful lady....1/2 an hour would not be enough time...

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30 min is just too short, even for a less than stellar experience. I have never booked less than an hour for 1st meetings and almost always book 90 min for second meetings or first meetings with great reviews/pics. No need to rush......

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30 mins works for me fine when I’m short on cash . It’s nice to have the flexibility 

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I think at least an Hour is better to get to know someone. 

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Gotta be honest. 30 min  never did, never will, work for me. I am a slow hand. I like the build up, the tease, then fall back and giggle then tease again. Explore, discover, even with a favorite. Simply must have time to cuddle after. If 30 min works for you great!!! I am one of those who needs more. To each his/her own.

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I was saying thirty minutes for the initial meeting was all.  Just for the very first time !

thanks for all your responses !!

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3 hours ago, Jenine said:

I was saying thirty minutes for the initial meeting was all.  Just for the very first time !

thanks for all your responses !!

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I can certainly understand your suggestion/choice.  As you wrote, you may not click, or there could be a hygiene problem.

Committing to more than 30 minutes with someone you've never met, and have no real info on, is risky for you. 

I think male clients often feel they have enough information, for a longer session. (Reviews, webpages, etc.)

It's your work, and your life. It's your choice. As a client, I'd honor your wishes, if I chose to book. :)

I certainly don't want to start an appointment by butting heads with the escort! :eek:

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That one time I booked two hours and was gone in 25 minutes.  Something didn’t feel right... so I dipped out.  I always book longer appointments expecting something great, but this particular time, it missed the mark.  Booking 30 minutes is silly and I probably wouldn’t visit someone that advertised 30 minute visits.

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On 6/17/2021 at 4:25 PM, pfunk said:

I can certainly understand your suggestion/choice.  As you wrote, you may not click, or there could be a hygiene problem.

Committing to more than 30 minutes with someone you've never met, and have no real info on, is risky for you. 

I think male clients often feel they have enough information, for a longer session. (Reviews, webpages, etc.)

It's your work, and your life. It's your choice. As a client, I'd honor your wishes, if I chose to book. :)

I certainly don't want to start an appointment by butting heads with the escort! :eek:

“Butting heads with the escort” never ends well! 

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tall short, younger older, au natural or brazilian, 30 mins or 60 mins or 90 mins or a weekend in cabo - there is something for everyone - gotta love this hobby...

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On 6/3/2021 at 9:36 AM, Jenine said:

Thirty minutes for an initial meeting is all it should be for the first meeting !  If you don’t click or someone’s hygiene is off; it’s a good out !!  Who agrees with me ?

I prefer a minimum 90 minutes ( preferably 2 hour) meet & greet session.  Like to relax and get to know someone a bit . No fun too just "jump right in". Maybe it's just me , but that's how I feel. Plus longer time, makes for more enjoyable for both, in my opinion.  🥰

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3 hours ago, Imyrhklbry said:

I prefer a minimum 90 minutes ( preferably 2 hour) meet & greet session.  Like to relax and get to know someone a bit . No fun too just "jump right in". Maybe it's just me , but that's how I feel. Plus longer time, makes for more enjoyable for both, in my opinion.  🥰

For the first meeting or the hundredth! Thinking it takes at least 30 minutes for a quick kiss? 🥰🥰
 Also, If you have clients with PH balance off? PM me I know of magical  potions that work well for such problems. 

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5-15 minutes is plenty for me. 

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Why 30 m?  Why not 10?  Meet me for quick cup coffee and if I like, I'll pay for more time.  Easy peasy.

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On 6/7/2021 at 2:07 PM, lurkrnomore said:

Jenine

 

I am sorry but have you seen your photos?  You are a beautiful lady....1/2 an hour would not be enough time...

No, she has never seen her own photos that she uploaded to her site. 

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There been times I wished it was 30min when something was off .

And been times when I wished he booked all day not long ago :P

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