Bravo1

This is SUPER helpful even on an initial inquiry to provide a large intersection to someone even if its a few minutes from that intersection to your actual location. I've had people say they're in one part of town so I arrive there to then be given further instructions and its another 20 minute drive and then Im scrambling to be on time to the appointment

Long time married and I was always the one who had to initiate the physical intimacy or it just wouldnt happen. I finally decided that I was going to stop initiating initially just as a test or confirmation that the claims I always made were correct in that if I didn't initiate, it wouldnt happen. Well, 2.5 years later we haven't been intimate on any level and at this point I dont think it will ever return. Sure I miss sex with my wife but what I dont miss is tge bickering over sex or getting my hopes up that today might be tge day she does something. The peace that has come with not arguing about it far outweighs tge mediocre effort my wife put into sex when we did have it in our relationship. Yes, we are not as close now because we dont have that physical bonding but it just is what it is. I would love to find a great FWB that I could actually get to know because I believe sex gets better as you get to know one another but I also know those types of relationship have potential for issues. An occasional interlude with a lovely lady from TOB is something that can brighten spirits and is appreciated

The provider sets the boundaries, I can't put it in any simpler terms for you. Best of luck

That would be after the fact and yeah you always have the option of just never seeing them again but that's not even remotely close to what this topic is about

Oh you absolutely have to follow boundaries, without question

Any decision or choice on boundaries is 100% the decision of the provider

If you have performance anxiety in this environment you might want to seek out chemical assistance... gfy

Its the classic wanting what you can't have thing. Why do some women love pursuing married men? Its the allure of having something youre not supposed to be messing with.

But... it IS transactional. Maybe dont rush into "it" and take things slower?

I feel like just focusing on being a gentleman, being punctual and not being a creeper is the priority in a meeting. If youre there hoping for an emotional connection I equate that to the guys who went to strip clubs and thought the "had a connection" with a dancer. Just do your part as a client and enjoy the experience but dont start thinking there is more to it

There's a provider here that does the most amazing edging session, its more intense than fs

Agree, admin might need to revisit that practice as it will only reduce the population of providers

Why would the referring provider be responsible for the actions of the new provider she referred to join TOB? That makes no sense

If it's the Rylee I'm thinking I wouldn't be surprised if she's retired