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  1. Condom Broke - Freaking Out a Little

    I'm definitely glad you didn't add a picture. So so glad.
  2. Condom Broke - Freaking Out a Little

    The 2-drug cocktail is standard per the CDC (there are a couple of different combos that can be used). You should always do baseline testing to see if you had anything at the time of exposure, and if I read correctly, they didn't do that. tsk tsk. I would have also done cultures since you were having discomfort, although that probably was pyschogenic from the stress of it all. The spot you mention sounds like a syphilitic chancre or a herpetic lesion. This needs to be seen and cultured ASAP. One is curable (syphilis), and one is not (herpes), although there is long-term and acute treatment for HSV/herpes. Anyway, good luck. I'm nor sure the wisdom of sharing all of this on the forum, but either way, I hope it all works out positively.
  3. Luna Contact Info

    I've tried as well. Contact has gone unanswered thus far.
  4. Choose your hotel chain carefully

    Seriously. Last week at the bank I asked for extra towels and sheets, and they looked at me like I was crazy. But then, I winked, she picked up what I was putting down, and onto the sheets it was. There were hundreds everywhere! Well, hundreds of pennies, as I hadn't made my deposit yet. But then, I made my deposit, and the story ends happily ever after. PS I collected 0.025% on my deposit, compounding by the minute. It took seven.
  5. Hangover Cures??

    2 liters of LR. Or NS IF you must.
  6. Natalie Luck which pics are current

    The new ones are accurate. She's not thin, but definitely NOT BBW. She's really sexy, so unless you want a spinner... Enjoy yourself.
  7. Ten Important Facts

    If your parents don't have kids, there's a good chance you won't, either.
  8. A tough one for me

    I've worked in busy ERs for a long time. The cops are friendly, and you learn how to tell who is carrying or not. I could always tell when hospital security was. Like I've said, I'm fully aware that I was probably wrong about the reason, but I'm certain they were armed.
  9. A tough one for me

    You're all right I'm sure. I'm think it was paranoia, and now that you said it, it might have been executive level security, which seems to fit. No, I'm not clairvoyant, but things weren't normal in my estimation, and I usually trust my gut. I'm not asking you to understand. I'm just posting because I felt bad about it and care about leaving someone hanging. I'm making it right.
  10. A tough one for me

    I've already reached out. Going to make it right. I appreciate the feedback!
  11. A tough one for me

    Thanks - those are both great ideas.
  12. A tough one for me

    I had an appointment on Wednesday, with someone well-established (who I hadn't seen before) at a nice hotel. When I got there, I felt several red flags. There were at least 3 security guards roaming that looked like they could be UC (do they usually carry?), and two unmarked cars outside. When I got inside, it just felt 'off'. So I texted the provider and waved off. And I feel HORRIBLE about it. Most likely I was just paranoid, but my spidey senses were tingling like they never had. I reached out to her to apologize, but I'm still feeling shitty about it, and she was clearly confused, although she didn't seem angry. Not really looking for anything from anyone - just wanted to vent.
  13. A big thank you

    I agree wholeheartedly!
  14. Are relationships overrated? Fell hard for a married woman.

    Advice: take that for what it is, honest feedback. Use it to learn and grow, not wallow. Or, as others said, wallow as much as you feel like doing, then learn from it. Both of those things can be changed if you want to change them.
  15. No Shave November - Are You Doing It

    for me, 30 years. Way before it was fashionable for white guys.