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About Phil-anderer

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  • Birthday 01/22/1971

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  1. Are relationships overrated? Fell hard for a married woman.

    Advice: take that for what it is, honest feedback. Use it to learn and grow, not wallow. Or, as others said, wallow as much as you feel like doing, then learn from it. Both of those things can be changed if you want to change them.
  2. No Shave November - Are You Doing It

    for me, 30 years. Way before it was fashionable for white guys.
  3. No Shave November - Are You Doing It

    Jesus, why are you guys copying my head shaving??? ;P
  4. Enough "honeybee's"

    I'm thinking Honeypot LaRue. Thoughts?? 😂
  5. Sadie Hawkins Day

    If only I didn't have to go out of town!
  6. New to TOB but not the hobby

    Lemme give you my ex's number if you really want to get screwed. I kid, I kid. We actually are friends. But, good luck.:)
  7. Question for my peeps

    I once got a BJ in the back of a Cessna while my best friend flew at altitude. Was pretty hilarious, except he started doing mild negative G pushovers, and my female friend got sick. But luckily AFTER after I 'threw up' a little. ☺
  8. Anyone notice a lot of men low balling them

    should I say ok goodbye or politely say I only have this much? Yes. Yes, you should. If rates aren't obvious, when I reach out and get them, if it's out of my price range, I either opt for a 30 minute get-to-know-you, or simply state 'that's out of my price range, unfortunately. If you ever run a special, let me know?' It's honest, and isn't being a jerk. However, if a rate is obvious/known, then that is the rate. I would never ask for something else. Small hedge.... there have been a few times (not because of rates) I've asked for a 45 minute appointment, usually because of time constraints. Most ladies will accommodate this with ease, and if they can't, no harm done. In fact, my ATF (and a couple of others) have done this. I think it just comes down to being honest about your goals, and clear that it's not "I want to haggle". If 30 is x, and 60 is y, then I might ask for 45 for x+y/2. I think it's all about how you present yourself and whether you are polite and inquiring, rather than aggressive and having an expectation. My 2 kroner.
  9. Um, really? Is this a thing?!

    Got pulled over on a 2-lane highway once, passed the cop while my GF was going down on me. I wound up not getting a ticket, and I'm pretty sure the cop knew what was up. Never said it, but he had a smirk on his face the whole time. My GF was so freaking hot, he was probably wondering what it was like (not bragging here, just that she was uber hot - you know, college). That said..... a non-partner/GF/spouse situation in a car?? Not in a million years.
  10. Help about losing the erection

    Lots of causes. Emotional, stress, dehydration, medications (lots can do this, especially heart/bp/anxiety medications). I sometimes have non-ejaculatory orgasm, which feels like an orgasm but no ejaculation. The good thing about that is that it means I'm usually back into the action, although there is a refractory period. If concerned, see your physician to rule out physical causes, side effects to medications (even over the counter). If physical causes are ruled out, then you're into the non-medical category, which means psychological/emotional. NEITHER are bad, and there's help for all of it. Sometimes, it feels awesome, but no spectacular finish. Either way, the experience is fun!
  11. Ladies, Please Don't....

    I have found women to be accommodating, and I often ask for mild perfume or no perfume at all. Don't want to show up back at work (usually midday for me) and people wondering what they heck I did for lunch. Even with a shower, some perfume can overwhelm that. Again, if it's a respectful request, it usually is granted within reason. One of my favorites also wears no makeup, and it's amazing.
  12. How much is too much description in a review?

    I believe you're thinking of Eccie.
  13. What do you prefer? photoshoots

    One word: representative. I prefer a mix of more professionally done and some candids. It doesn't have to be super revealing, but I also don't like just a picture of a boob with not much else shown. I have a body type that I prefer (several, actually), so I like being able to see what 'curvy' really means. Not being trite, but we like what we like, and no one likes to be misled.
  14. What do the black dots mean?

    I had more dots, but one got kind of red and whitish, so I lanced it and now it's gone.
  15. Sex Robot Brothel in Texas

    Oh city of Houston. It's your fucked up zoning that ruined the city. Applebees, gun store, liquor store, Chile's, massage parlor, school, repeat. Just my observation. And, I'll stick with a human connection, then you very much!