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GFE   It’s sex and intimacy with all the warmth, passion and enthusiasm that always seems to be missing from casual encounters. You’ll get to enjoy and appreciate all the best parts of a relationship without any of the commitment or strings that would normally be attached. As long as you remember it’s a professional interaction first and an experience second, the GFE is the perfect choice for someone looking to rediscover emotional and physical intimacy.

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This topic has been beat to death. If I remember there have been previous discussions but guess a review is always good. To me GFE means passionate kissing of some kind, daty, fov, fiv, UTF or tf and cfs. Miss the old activity lines. Never actually met anybody from privatedelights.ch but like the "no list". That way you can get an idea what the provider doesn't offer/enjoy. Wish TOB had that section in listings. Then clients could get an idea of whats offered and providers wouldn't have to answer so many questions. 

The emotional part is ymmv. Sometimes two people click and sometimes not. My theory is if you treat the woman like a real person with respect and try to meet her needs it will be returned. But always YMMV because we on both sides are real people. 

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2 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

Does the typical girlfriend do greek? I don't.  Lol

I said everything but BBFS and Greek.

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4 minutes ago, Alex Majors said:

I said everything but BBFS and Greek.

I misread that. Thank you. 😘

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3 hours ago, lustybustygina said:

GFE   It’s sex and intimacy with all the warmth, passion and enthusiasm that always seems to be missing from casual encounters. You’ll get to enjoy and appreciate all the best parts of a relationship without any of the commitment or strings that would normally be attached. As long as you remember it’s a professional interaction first and an experience second, the GFE is the perfect choice for someone looking to rediscover emotional and physical intimacy.

This exactly, Gina.

Redbook definition of GFE, which was, from what I understand, one of the original terms and is considered by oldschool clients to be textbook was: 

Bbbj, cfs, dfk, msog.

 

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13 hours ago, Annekeslc said:

This exactly, Gina.

Redbook definition of GFE, which was, from what I understand, one of the original terms and is considered by oldschool clients to be textbook was: 

Bbbj, cfs, dfk, msog.

 

 Bing, Bing, Bing! We have a winner!

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GFE to me is some combination of activities (BBBJ, kissing, mutual pleasure, MPFS) and the attitude described by Gina.  

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16 hours ago, lustybustygina said:

GFE   It’s sex and intimacy with all the warmth, passion and enthusiasm that always seems to be missing from casual encounters. You’ll get to enjoy and appreciate all the best parts of a relationship without any of the commitment or strings that would normally be attached. As long as you remember it’s a professional interaction first and an experience second, the GFE is the perfect choice for someone looking to rediscover emotional and physical intimacy.

All of this with BBJ DATY DFK MSOG    - GFE never to be BB

Non GFE  is no kissing and daty with CBJ  may be more 

Some think PSE is BB but it's more about the dirty talk that pron stars do . 

So I heard ..lol

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15 hours ago, Annekeslc said:

This exactly, Gina.

Redbook definition of GFE, which was, from what I understand, one of the original terms and is considered by oldschool clients to be textbook was: 

Bbbj, cfs, dfk, msog.

 

Redbook was never particularly relevant in these parts, but if you add DATY, yes pretty much.

 

2 hours ago, BadBoy said:

 Bing, Bing, Bing! We have a winner!

Well Judge BB, not so fast.

Unknown to most, there is much more on the STG site than ads - definition of terms, how to spot fake ads, what to expect, blah blah.  It has pretty much become the default replacement to backpage.  The definition there is exactly what it always used to be in these parts with additional editorial comment:

GFE

A vague term today, it used to mean “BBBJ + CFS + DFK + DATY + MSOG”.

Key part - "a vague term today"  It is magic - means whatever the hell you think it does lol.  In other words, in practice - nothing! 

http://skipthegames.com/articles/about-escorts/escort-terms-escort-sex-definitions-escort-abbreviations#V

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Obviously GFE is in the eye of the beholder but for me it is: kissing, BBBJ, DATY, CFS, and CIM and communication would also be nice. Just my take. 

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GFE: BBBJ, deep French kissing. All with that same tongue she used to nibble on that guy's dick cheese a couple of hours before she came over to your place, ha ha.

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1 hour ago, gr8owl said:

Redbook was never particularly relevant in these parts, but if you add DATY, yes pretty much.

 

Well Judge BB, not so fast.

Unknown to most, there is much more on the STG site than ads - definition of terms, how to spot fake ads, what to expect, blah blah.  It has pretty much become the default replacement to backpage.  The definition there is exactly what it always used to be in these parts with additional editorial comment:

GFE

A vague term today, it used to mean “BBBJ + CFS + DFK + DATY + MSOG”.

Key part - "a vague term today"  It is magic - means whatever the hell you think it does lol.  In other words, in practice - nothing! 

http://skipthegames.com/articles/about-escorts/escort-terms-escort-sex-definitions-escort-abbreviations#V

That’s interesting. I clicked on your link and got a different definition that starts with,

GFE

Girlfriend Experience. A frequently used, but utterly nebulous term.“
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25 minutes ago, Vassago said:

That’s interesting. I clicked on your link and got a different definition that starts with,

GFE

Girlfriend Experience. A frequently used, but utterly nebulous term.“

That's part of how it reads...here is the full quote:

"GFE

Girlfriend Experience. A frequently used, but utterly nebulous term. It refers to a session that is more like lovemaking with a girlfriend than a commercial service, whatever that means! It generally implies more about the tone & tenor of the session than about specific services provided, but many believe GFE should include the possibility of DFK, DATY, UTF and a broad array of FS positions."

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On 11/7/2019 at 8:09 AM, E.J.England said:

GFE has never been daty, fiv, bb, this is the problem now. When I started out years ago it was cuddling. Now clients want a lot of un safe shit.

One of my more memorable GFE sessions we never left the restaurant. We just sat & chatted through brunch. 😁

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1 hour ago, Vassago said:

That’s interesting. I clicked on your link and got a different definition that starts with,

GFE

Girlfriend Experience. A frequently used, but utterly nebulous term.“

That is hilarious!! I literally did a cut and paste this morning and what i posted is exactly what it said at the time. I guess they monitor this board hahahahaha

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1 hour ago, pfunk said:

That's part of how it reads...here is the full quote:

"GFE

Girlfriend Experience. A frequently used, but utterly nebulous term. It refers to a session that is more like lovemaking with a girlfriend than a commercial service, whatever that means! It generally implies more about the tone & tenor of the session than about specific services provided, but many believe GFE should include the possibility of DFK, DATY, UTF and a broad array of FS positions."

Can I change my answer? I so, I want to go with this. 

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this acronym is a nuisance.  bottom line it means different things for different people.  my experience is the more you see someone the better the time and eventually you will feel like it is a gfe experience in your mind.  if you hit it off that way off the bat, congrats, don't fuck it up. 

but you can have the same date (menu-wise) with someone who is much less enthused and think it sucked.

ymmv - now that is an acronym that holds true - especially when it comes to gfe...

 

 

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On 11/7/2019 at 1:26 PM, Audrey Astor said:

To me it is treating the person intimately and creating the vibe of wanting to be there instead of can’t wait until this is over. It can include lots of kissing, caressing, touching, connection, DATY, BBBJ, CFS—— it’s tender and romantic. It’s taking time and enjoying each other. 

If you ask 10 different people, you’ll get 10 answers. Some say CBJ is still GFE, some not.  I don’t know any acronyms that include bb🤔

   ^^this^^. Nailed it... well said Audrey...:)

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GFE to me means, deep french kissing, oral for both client or provider, covered or not covered and FIV. 

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On 11/7/2019 at 1:26 PM, Audrey Astor said:

To me it is treating the person intimately and creating the vibe of wanting to be there instead of can’t wait until this is over. It can include lots of kissing, caressing, touching, connection, DATY, BBBJ, CFS—— it’s tender and romantic. It’s taking time and enjoying each other. 

If you ask 10 different people, you’ll get 10 answers. Some say CBJ is still GFE, some not.  I don’t know any acronyms that include bb🤔

Audrey said it perfectly

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Ok I have to say it bbj is still BB and it’s nasty. Please remember your health class!!

anyway before I was a provider myself and my ex and I would go in search of a lady his is what I have always understood. Today I know it means many different things. 

Gfe has always meant to me the romantic. Kissing ,cuddling, and the facade of romance.  

FS always meant anything. Covered. Other then Greek that was usually specifically said If lady did or did not 

Porn star experience meant Everything bb , msog and greek.

It’s hard nowadays to say what he hell It means 

haha 

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On 11/7/2019 at 3:30 PM, Hunter VanDyke said:

Does the typical girlfriend do greek? I don't.  Lol

Shoot,  typical girlfriend's I have had don't do BJ's.  

Though I did have one for a short time that did like BJ's and did get around to expressing her enjoyment of Greek. 

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Just now, frankenthaler91 said:

Shoot,  typical girlfriend's I have had don't do BJ's.  

😂😂😂

Though I did have one for a short time that did like BJ's and did get around to expressing her enjoyment of Greek. 

Just that one huh? Damn

 

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1 minute ago, frankenthaler91 said:

It's a short list of GF's.   :(

Relationships are way overrated any way. Lol

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20 hours ago, Mustang87 said:

Can I change my answer? I so, I want to go with this. 

Me too!  And that is known as marketing.  At the expense of clarity. B)

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7 hours ago, Calik8 said:

Ok I have to say it bbj is still BB and it’s nasty. Please remember your health class!!

 

A matter of opinion, not mine.  The risk is much lower than BBFS but much higher than abstinence.  Ditto kissing and DATY.  Everyone needs to intelligently determine their own acceptable level of risk.  And preferably respect others' personal decisions so long as no pressure is applied attempting to change those opinions.  At some point, maximum safety turns the whole thing into a "why bother" exercise.   Choose wisely.

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48 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

A matter of opinion, not mine.  The risk is much lower than BBFS but much higher than abstinence.  Ditto kissing and DATY.  Everyone needs to intelligently determine their own acceptable level of risk.  And preferably respect others' personal decisions so long as no pressure is applied attempting to change those opinions.  At some point, maximum safety turns the whole thing into a "why bother" exercise.   Choose wisely.

:unsure:

 

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9 hours ago, Calik8 said:

Ok I have to say it bbj is still BB and it’s nasty. Please remember your health class!!

Thank God this is not a common opinion.  And just for your information, Mrs. Smegmabreath, my health class teacher told us, "eat all the pussy and suck all the dick you want - you only live once, kiddos."

Or at least I think it was something like that, I was actually too busy staring at the back of Gina's neck to pay much attention to what the teacher said.  Such beautiful skin, and the hair......

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I will never ever schedule knowing it would be a CBJ.

Way to many fantastic choices out there.

 

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