Marilyn Desire

I only post in Colorado Springs because I'm incall only and I don't travel to Denver. I have posted in Denver before but as you said it can be considered spam because I'm not located in Denver. That's why I just don't advertise there.

I feel like I don't get many clients from TOB at all yet I still pay to advertise here. Additionally I feel like some clients "flaunt" they are on TOB as if to threaten the provider with a bad review if she doesn't give him what he wants etc. TOB does not have the same client reach and SEO as other sites and I think that's a big issue for us providers who are paying to advertise here. I don't know about other providers but the majority of clients I see are from Tryst and that site is much newer than TOB yet they have a better reach. So my advice is to have better SEO and visibility to clients...

Thank you! She has reached out just waiting to hear back 🙏

Hello! A friend and fellow provider accidentally got logged out of their TOB account a few days ago and all attempts to log back in have not worked. PW reset isn't working or anything. Can anyone provide some insight or point us in the right direction? Thanks for your help! 🙏

Hi there! no outcalls just for driving to attractions and to and from airport : )

Your girl is going to Vegas in June all by my lonesome! If anyone has a hook up on a car service or one you would recommend I would sure appreciate it! XOXO Marilyn

Hello everyone! Long time no talk! Recently I have had a few providers reach out to me about issues they are facing with Bitcoin, which is what we have to use to pay for our ads on TOB and other places. In the recent months cryptocurrency has been taking downfall, and because of this we are seeing an increase in mining fees. More specifically, "Coinbase" which I have used for years and recommended to other providers to use is charging extremely high fees to transfer funds. What I see happening to providers is they buy the amount of bitcoin they need for their ad, plus the amount they expect to pay for the fees and then they send the bitcoin to their ad. The problem with this, is because coinbase is charging so much in fees by the time you send your bitcoin to your ad, you do not have enough money to cover the ad, so then you have to go buy more bitcoin, transfer it to your ad, and are charged the fee again. So, now you are spending an extra $15-30 on your ad just because of the fees. How can you avoid this from happening? Well if you want to continue to use coinbase to purchase your bitcoin I recommend buying at least an extra $10-15 dollars for fees. Additionally before you send your bitcoin from coinbase it tells you what the fee is in USD and how much will be sent after fees. If the amount does not cover your ad, DO NOT send the money. Instead, go back to coinbase and purchase an additional amount before sending it to your ad. This way you are not paying double fees to transfer money. Another option and probably the better one is to purchase bitcoin from cashapp and transfer it directly from cashapp to your TOB ad. The transfer fees on cashapp are much lower, less than $5, however fees fluctuate minute by minute so it is not a guarantee that your fee will only be $5. Also and this is IMPORTANT, do not buy bitcoin on cashapp until your identity is verified. If you make the mistake of buying it before you have verified your identity then your bitcoin will sit in your cashapp and you will not be able to do anything with it. It will then fluctuate based on the market, which means if you bought $100 in bitcoin you could lose some of it before you have a chance to be verified, because it can take days to get verified. The amount you lose depends on the fluctuation of the market, but it could be a significant loss. I ALWAYS recommend buying the amount of bitcoin you need and sending it over to your ad right way. Now, if your a person who likes to take risks then sure let your bitcoin sit and fluctuate. Personally that's not for me. I am not a gambler lol. Anyway I hope this helps some and if any of you have questions feel free to reach out! Sincerely, Marilyn

Hmm second chance 🤔 that depends on the situation. If they were a no show or last minute cancel, I will likely give a second chance. If they were rude, pushy or aggressive it's not likely they will get a second chance. However, I have informed clients that I did not appreciate their behavior and if I choose to see them again that behavior would not be tolerated. Some clients chose to see me after that and the behavior was better and others just ghosted me, which tells me they had no intention of adjusting their behavior so I felt safe and comfortable seeing them. So in that situation the loss is on them...

Never heard of this before but definitely going to try!!

You are absolutely right and that is why I do not allow DATY. That is fluid to fluid transfer to a T. Additionally vaginas PH balance is very sensitive so anything can throw it off and cause irritation. They say mouths are dirtier than a public toilet seat so DATY will ALWAYS be a no go for me. Sorry fellas!

I think most prefer covered so I cant imagine why anyone would get offended...

Hello all! I was curious if anyone is having issues getting text messages or other people not receiving your messages. This entire week I have had that issue but it is only with people who have Verizon. I do not use verizon myself but I have heard of other people saying they were having some similar issues. I have no idea what's going on?

Saw this and had to share! Have a fabulous week everyone!

I agree this is very important information. I know a few providers who just recently within the past few days were threatened to be raped, mutilated and murdered by a client who was messaging them. It is extremely disturbing to be faced with this kind of behavior, especially when all the provider did was say they were not able to see the person. Threats of this matter are never ok no matter what the circumstance, but let me be clear. WE providers can choose to see who we want, and when we want to see them, just as clients choose to see who they want too. Making threats or getting pissed off because we are not available of whatever the situation is, will NEVER work out for you in the end. All it does is ensure you will have a difficult time seeing any provider in the future, because word gets around about clients who make threats and harass providers.

Just be straightforward and honest. Apologize again for walking in on her and make it VERY CLEAR that what happened is in the past it will stay between the two of you and it will not affect you or her, or your ability to continue to work in the same office. This would be the best way to clear the air and make her feel more comfortable about the whole situation.