Script or no Script?

[Mustang87]

Early in a recent engagement with a YL she mentioned that she didn't like to be with guys that had a "script" they liked to follow in a session.  I agreed with her and we went on to have a great, un-scripted time.  But I got to thinking later that maybe I really do have a script.  There are certain things I like to do, or have done, and in pretty much a particular order.  In fact, I had a ATF that I saw dozens of times and had pretty much the same date over and over each time and I loved every one of them.  So my questions are, do most guys have a script they like to follow in a session, let the lady call the shots, or do you like to just take things as they come, and do most ladies mind following the guys script, or do you feel uncomfortable with that and want to have more say in how things play out?

Edited May 7, 2019 by Mustang87

[goodguy69]

I like to just go with the flow and see where the time takes us. Yes sometimes I may miss out on something that I really like to do, and then again maybe not.  It always seems to be more comfortable if we are not trying to dot all the I's and cross all the T's.

Just my .02

[Just Jos]

I like to ask if there’s anything you love that I should be aware of or that we should cover and most of the guys I’ve seen say no or nothing specific. So my vote is that most men go unscripted. Hahah 

Go with the flow is super important bc ya know ymmv. 

[airamericavet65]

Always things that are fun when they are on the program and improvising certainly makes for potentially exciting surprises using imagination is a good standard practice

[K2dnvrfun]

I just like to let things unfold and see where they go. I've never been disappointed or said i wish i had done X at the end of a session. 

[MeganMarie4u]

I feel like if a lady leads into a session with such a statement that you may not get to enjoy everything you might be seeking....or you may just lay next to her for 45 minutez before she tells you to get dressed!

Its kinda like the guys who lead with "it usually takes a long time...blah blah blah"

 

its a HUGE turnoff.... 

[goodguy69]

28 minutes ago, K2dnvrfun said:

I've never been disappointed or said i wish i had done X at the end of a session. 

I wish I could say that, but that is a completly different thread for another time.(and does not apply to Colorado)

[average1]

I also like to go with the flow, but also believe in being open to a conversation that highlights what parts of the river we would both enjoy exploring.  I may have my wants and desires, but mutual wants and desires are more fun to explore....fully...wantonly...enthusiastically.  

[MeganMarie4u]

5 minutes ago, average1 said:

I also like to go with the flow, but also believe in being open to a conversation that highlights what parts of the river we would both enjoy exploring.  I may have my wants and desires, but mutual wants and desires are more fun to explore....fully...wantonly...enthusiastically.  

And then watch live PD! 😂😂😂

[pfunk]

I have one activity I REAALLY want (kissing). If that happens, I just need to finish somehow (could be self serve, handy, CBJ, dry hump, etc. etc.) and be happy. 

So, usually, if I get a greeting kiss, I just go with the flow. 

[ilovewomen]

29 minutes ago, MeganMarie4u said:

And then watch live PD! 😂😂😂

Have to watch Live PD with someone and both of you naked 😂😂

[gr8owl]

Never a script as in "I want to do the following ......." but the first time or two seeing someone there has to be at least a conversation about general likes/dislikes etc.  But certainly not an in-order shopping list.  Not my cup of tea.  My cup?  After we get to know each other well enough to know basically what we each like but much left to explore, comfortable enough with each other to relax and go wherever the time goes.  Kinda like taking an unfamiliar road just to see where it goes and enjoying the hell out of the surprises in the trip!  All of which being said, if you have a very specific and strong fantasy, well there has to be a script.  How's that for talking around all sides lol?

[inkspot]

I hate a scripted event. It comes across as a performance with me just going along for the ride. This is one of my pet peeves.

Definately go with the flow.

[Laci French]

With a script it always feels mechanical.  

[average1]

2 hours ago, MeganMarie4u said:

And then watch live PD! 😂😂😂

Yep....  Amazing things can happen with "assume the position".  

[Mustang87]

Wow, I'm a little surprised I'm in such a minority on this, but good to know.  Thanks for the feedback. 

[goodguy69]

2 hours ago, ilovewomen said:

Have to watch Live PD with someone and both of you naked 😂😂

Agree, just dont end up on live PD.

[K2dnvrfun]

49 minutes ago, Laci French said:

With a script it always feels mechanical.  

I have heard some guys actually walk in with a written script, just so they don't forget their 'lines'.  How mechanical is that.

[Alex Majors]

Usually I will let the lady start things off.  Then let things flow. Most times I get  all the bases covered. Though there are times when  I never get around to a certain activity.  It just seems like real life,  as  opposed  to a scripted porno.

[BadBoy]

Script, hmmm ........

                                                                              Oral before  anal

[petey-9950]

BB did you have to go there?

[Raine-7379]

I am definitely go with the flow.... 

Every encounter is unique, and should be allowed to flow naturally.

[Demi-1616]

I don't think most guys necessarily have a script, and I don't have a script myself but I suppose I have something of a flow chart for those really nervous encounters so no one ends up feeling awkward or stuck at a stand - still. 

I think a lot of the times people who see each other often/on a regular basis end up sort of developing a script though. Not always, and for those who do the script isn't always followed either, but yeah.

My two cents. 

[FuriousWeasel]

Script is no fun, but role playing scenarios are a different thing altogether...

[Juskiddng]

16 hours ago, pfunk said:

I have one activity I REAALLY want (kissing). If that happens, I just need to finish somehow (could be self serve, handy, CBJ, dry hump, etc. etc.) and be happy. 

So, usually, if I get a greeting kiss, I just go with the flow. 

Exactly my thoughts as well.

[pointymoustache]

 

with my regular provider we sorta follow a script -not necessarly in order, but we hit all the usual spots that we both like. Haven't seen somene new in a while, but then I want her to lead.

[Riverboy]

I do like to know what turns the lady on, because if she is turned on, that in turn, turns me on!  Maybe a few too many turns, I think I am getting dizzy! LOL

[Phil-anderer]

There are definitely things I like, such as kissing.  From there, what happens, happens.  I do love me some cowgirl action.

[BadBoy]

Seriously, I do actually have a point by point script, and I like to go over it ahead of time with the young lady, just to make sure that she is OK with each and every one of the requests and deviant activities:

JUST KIDDING - I DON'T REALLY HAVE A SCRIPT!!!!!

[AngieLuv]

I guess that I have general bases I like to cover... just to make sure all parties included are happy. Other than that, I like things to happen organically.