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How Old is too Old?

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      I find myself asking the question...."am i getting to old to embrace my playtime" ?  I 'll always will be 25 yrs old  in my mind,   LOL-  But I can't climb a tree,can't win a triathlon,although I heard of women my age doing such. But should we feel as older ladies, that  we can give a gentleman so much more because of our maturity? I do believe so.

    When seeing a lady do you find yourself  only looking at age? I do understand quite a few gentlemen find themselves looking for that youth again with a younger woman. A perfect hardbody.... Do you ever ask yourself would I be more comfortable with a woman my age... Your views  on this>>>>be nice!!! 

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You are never to old to embrace your playtime, do what you enjoy for as long as you can, there are many of us that prefer the mature, refined woman you are only as old as you feel. Live life to the fullest and regret nothing.

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You should do it as long as you continue to enjoy it and/or it financially benefits your lifestyle.  I'm still in my early 40's and this is my own personal perspective and not anyone else's.  When looking at listings, I never look at the age, it just so happens that the one's I find attractive are usually under 25.  I have seen many providers older than that(up to 33 years old) but the vast majority have fallen under the age of 25.  

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Th real questions should be are you still enjoying this and would you miss it.  For myself, yes I prefer a more mature lady.  So far the mature ladies don't seem to be in such a rush and enjoy spending the time.

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You're as YOUNG as you feel...

As a guy born at the tail end of the Baby Boomer years, I also still feel as randy as I did in my 20's (and I behave the same way :D)

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I like that expression  " Randy"  well said!!!!

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18 minutes ago, mountainrider33 said:

... When looking at listings, I never look at the age, it just so happens that the one's I find attractive are usually under 25.  I have seen many providers older than that(up to 33 years old) but the vast majority have fallen under the age of 25.  

I do check their age. I seldom find anyone I’m interested in who is UNDER 35.  I find the younger crowd about as entertaining as YouPorn. 

I heard a remark the other day, “She/He was better than doing myself.”

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3 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

I heard a remark the other day, “She/He was better than doing myself.”

I think I saw something like that  in a review the other day. 

Not exactly a screaming endorsement of services provided. 

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Age is certainly not a determining Factor the desire to have fun enjoying Mutual activities is by far the most important thing the beauty of each individual is more in their personality and there ability to create positive feelings. Every lady has a beauty all their own and when they let that beauty shine they are irresistible

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What Bit said since we were in the same graduating class or close.  Sundance we met many moons ago and you were a doll then and I bet you still are?

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Let me clarify.....I'm not saying I'm to old..  embracing my play time is not as easy as it was 10 years ago!!!  LOL..in fact the prime years of my live I feel  are now...I know more , I feel more . I just can't do it as often as i would like!!!I'm sure  everybody over 50 can sympathize.....     I'm just sayin

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I surprise myself.  I always assume I will be oriented toward the young hard bodies, but in practice I gravitate toward the 40+ group (with quasi hardbodies). Maybe it a subconscious push back about playing with someone who is the same age as my daughters......  

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22 minutes ago, Turtle138 said:

40 plus for me.

But 70 may be a game changer. 

Last winter I had a civilian GF in her 70s.  We split for a variety of reasons, but lack of sex was NOT one of them.

Just sayin’

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4 hours ago, petey-9950 said:

What Bit said since we were in the same graduating class or close.  Sundance we met many moons ago and you were a doll then and I bet you still are?

  thank you ,I certainly think so!!!

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Dead is too old. Now that we have cleared THAT up....on to talking about those NOT dead. If you have the desire and passion you are not too old. Experience counts for much! So you market that experience and passion. Certainly some clients are age range buyers and won't call. Others will. I will use myself as an example. I am approaching 60 and find women in  their 40's 50's who can really cut loose and get wild and uninhibited with skilled oral festivities as ideal. I have felt that way way about women in their 40's and 50's since I was in my 30's!!  I probably will until I am too old...AKA dead.

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44 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

 

Last winter I had a civilian GF in her 70s.  We split for a variety of reasons, but lack of sex was NOT one of them.

Just sayin’

Thank you for the information! Being over 60, I hope to find ladies in my age range, who still partake, and enjoy!

I agree with Admiral C, too old = dead.

Personally, I prefer providers within 10 years of my age (older, or younger), but they are rare (I'm 62). 

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1 hour ago, Bit Banger said:

 

Last winter I had a civilian GF in her 70s.  We split for a variety of reasons, but lack of sex was NOT one of them.

Just sayin’

She deserves a blue ribbon!;)

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First of all you are beautiful and fun! Second, as long as there are young men in the hobby older providers will have a thriving business. Third, as long as there are men in the hobby that are looking for a slow, sensual experience as opposed to feeding their ego, older providers will thrive. I say it’s all good! :wub:

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7 hours ago, Just Another Guy said:

You're as YOUNG as you feel...

 

.....last one I felt was 22.....but see a legendary actress that 51 and also fun to feel.....quite often. So yes...the love makes me feel young

 

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2 minutes ago, Audrey Astor said:

First of all you are beautiful and fun! Second, as long as there are young men in the hobby older providers will have a thriving business. Third, as long as there are men in the hobby that are looking for a slow, sensual experience as opposed to feeding their ego, older providers will thrive. I say it’s all good! :wub:

Slow, sensual is one path. Ego feeding is another path. Yet another path is active, intense,  mutual sexual enjoyment. I like that last one.

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11 hours ago, airamericavet65 said:

Age is certainly not a determining Factor the desire to have fun enjoying Mutual activities is by far the most important thing the beauty of each individual is more in their personality and there ability to create positive feelings. Every lady has a beauty all their own and when they let that beauty shine they are irresistible

Well said sir

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7 hours ago, Audrey Astor said:

She deserves a blue ribbon!;)

In the sex department, definitely.  With 5 gold stars!  Great dance partner, too.

In other departments, not so much.

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Oh, the title to this thread scares the hell out of me.

A year or so ago she told me, " you're not as good as you once was, but you're as good once as you ever was"

She hasn't said that for while now.

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I find that my best experiences are had with ladies 35 and older. It’s been that way since 1983. I was 28 then. 

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On 9/14/2018 at 3:36 PM, Sundance said:

      I find myself asking the question...."am i getting to old to embrace my playtime" ?  I 'll always will be 25 yrs old  in my mind,   LOL-  But I can't climb a tree,can't win a triathlon,although I heard of women my age doing such. But should we feel as older ladies, that  we can give a gentleman so much more because of our maturity? I do believe so.

    When seeing a lady do you find yourself  only looking at age? I do understand quite a few gentlemen find themselves looking for that youth again with a younger woman. A perfect hardbody.... Do you ever ask yourself would I be more comfortable with a woman my age... Your views  on this>>>>be nice!!! 

I have found myself drawn to a more mature lady simply because they seem so much more understanding of my advancing years.  Not that some of the younger women haven't been exceptionally patient and wonderful experiences.  It's that sometimes I like the experience that comes from age, which is a comforting draw.  

As for beauty and desirability, age is only a number.  The real beauty is in the connection between two people and the attitude of a giving, compassionate heart.

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