Admiral C

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  1. Are relationships overrated? Fell hard for a married woman.

    Well sir...if you must question it, I will answer it for you. Fair warning...you may not believe, and will not like the answer....Rest assured though, it's true. She a married woman, had an affair with you. You had an affair with her, knowing she was married. Hence she concludes that neither would ever be able to trust the other.
  2. Are relationships overrated? Fell hard for a married woman.

    Not looking to advocate selfishness, but those are only good questions AFTER you have answered the question... "What do I get \want in a relationship?" If that question is answered...on to those others. For me, the answer to what I wanted was....nothing...so it is a non issue for me. You ain't just whistlin' Dixie about no guarantees and the caregiver role.....I became a caregiver then widower when the wife and I were both 36. It all cuts to the point of this thread. OP wanted the married gal....you might want another partner....I'm not interested in a partner...the next person...??? Who's right? We all are...but just for ourselves.
  3. Are relationships overrated? Fell hard for a married woman.

    No offense at all BB, but your post reads more like you are thinking about a nurse\care giver than a partner. She might get ill and go first ya know...
  4. I don't know if this is a good thing, or a bad thing, but I was not even aware it was down....when did this happen?
  5. Ladies watch out....rip off report

    Be ye provider, or client...PAYMENT IN CASH AT TIME OF SERVICE! ...."I know, I know...that's usually my normal . But here's the thing...I need your end upfront because recently you see, as it has happened...."click"....."Hello? Hello?"
  6. Are relationships overrated? Fell hard for a married woman.

    Idealistically I kind of agree. Realistically, I kind of disagree. In the BIG picture, idealistically, nobody has the right to judge others, be they on this board or anywhere else. That said, diversity and freedom includes everyone, even those who judge....and the O.P. invited everyone to comment...even them. Realistically, the O.P gave moralists the right to pass judgement. More relationships end negatively than end positively for everyone...you.....me....OP...other readers. The price of human emotions. People judge other SITUATIONS based on their emotions, experiences and thoughts...the price of human intelligence. I have fallen hard and had painful break ups in my lifetime as well....with women married and single. Now as I approach 60, I marvel at how fortunate I am that all relationships ended, leaving me as I am now...blissfully single. Sharing my life with another person would offer me nothing and so only lower my quality of life. Moralists might now have opinions on that, and I have given them the right to state it. That would not however make them true, or bother me .
  7. Are relationships overrated? Fell hard for a married woman.

    Your questions about various "why's " and "lies" are unhealthy and irrelevant. The truth is, you will almost certainly never know the truth, and it would'nt matter anyway. What you (and now we) DO know is this: You and she were completely incompatible regarding your life situations. You and she are completely incompatible in how you process information and communicate. These are deal breakers and override any and all other compatibilities you all enjoyed\shared. It was never going to work long term and that is that. Therefore, stop questioning it. You had some fun, made some memories, and that was all there ever could have been.
  8. I tried so hard!!!!

    If "legit" was legitimately good for the INDIVIDUAL, the rulers of society would not push it so hard.
  9. Beware Sextortion Scam

    Yeah!!! I finally got one too! I was feeling quite left out. Actually, I think mine is a cheap knock off. The e-mail mentioned a password I have never heard of or used. The usual suggestions that trying to find him is impossible since he sent the e-mail to me FROM me. It could all disappear, including his "rat software" self destructing from my system for only $863...in bitcoin. Alas...the deadline passed a couple days ago, so if you never hear from me again, it means I have been exposed and shamed into obscurity, or that my computer imploded....hahahahahah.
  10. Polygamy

    Yes it should be legalized because prosecution is impossible. Anyone charged with it has an automatic insanity defense.
  11. Well there goes my secret life....

    Here's the thing.....don't worry about it. Unless you walk blindly into a sting, the authorities DO NOT CARE. It's not a big enough deal . The fact is, the technology is such that any actions you take with ideas of anonymity and privacy are a total illusion. They they easily could, but they don't...because it's not important or worth their time. Just relax....be reasonably aware...enjoy.
  12. Must be the time for it. The enlightened insights I have received in the last two weeks are staggering.
  13. I did NOT say dead in their teepee...I said their tea pee.......
  14. To Greek or Not to Greek

    I will confront yet another "room elephant". Unless reliving the good old days in the Pen, most guys like it because it's tight...turning a small unit into a mighty python ( not to be confused with Monty Python). Color me as one who does NOT drive the pink micro-bus down the brown dirt back roads.
  15. ...and never force Native Americans to drink tea, especially in large quantities. Their systems cannot handle it and it is toxic to them. There is a very good chance they will be discovered dead in their Tea Pee