Posted October 27, 2014 Anyone ever gotten the really extra special treatment at a strip club? I've heard it's possible, but I have no idea how to even start that conversation. Anyone? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2014 Anyone ever gotten the really extra special treatment at a strip club? I've heard it's possible, but I have no idea how to even start that conversation. Anyone? It's a great way to get kicked out, beat up and possibly arrested. I do not advise trying that. I know a few ladies that dance on the side and they NEVER provide that. If you're determined to try, you might get lucky by throwing a lot of cash her way but in the end you'll probably go home with blue balls. Better plan is to schedule a private dance with any if the ladies here. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2014 It's a great way to get kicked out, beat up and possibly arrested. I do not advise trying that. I know a few ladies that dance on the side and they NEVER provide that. If you're determined to try, you might get lucky by throwing a lot of cash her way but in the end you'll probably go home with blue balls. Better plan is to schedule a private dance with any if the ladies here. A simple +1 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2014 Anyone ever gotten the really extra special treatment at a strip club? I've heard it's possible, but I have no idea how to even start that conversation. Anyone? The only way I ever received "extras", was spending ridiculous amounts of money, over several visits, and planning a "meeting" outside the club. It was stupid expensive. I'll never do it again. I've never gotten anything more than a lap dance in the club. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2014 Better plan is to schedule a private dance with any if the ladies here. I did get a nice BBBJ CIM in a strip club once. ONCE. After spending who knows how many nights in clubs, it happened once. As Romn says, call an escort! Not a professional tease. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2014 I used to get extra service at a strip club in Dallas "Deja Vu" bbj fingering cowgirl etc. that place was wild as hell but this was in the 90's everything now days is just the old bump and grind I suggest take a look at EB and pick out someone you like. A lot easier on the pocket book and no hangover RED 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2014 Anyone ever gotten the really extra special treatment at a strip club? I've heard it's possible, but I have no idea how to even start that conversation. Anyone? Having worked in strip clubs in the 80s ,as a dj, I can tell you that management always fired girls that they even suspected were meeting customers out of the club. Easiest way to get a club closed is to do something illegal. No doubt the practice continues. As others have said, be prepared to be escorted out ...FAST...and banned for life. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2014 Be prepared to invest a lot of money for drinks, lap dances, etc., closing time rides home, visits to her when she gets locked up, help with rent, etc, before you can get your fingers wet. Just know you'll be one of many working class sugar daddies she's got on retainer. On the other hand, if there are other dancers working on the side, she can vouch for you, and you're in with the others. Good Luck. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2014 Anyone ever gotten the really extra special treatment at a strip club? I've heard it's possible, but I have no idea how to even start that conversation. Anyone? When I was much, much, younger.... I had a pretty good track record at the local clubs.... I think the major contributing factor at thre time was that I was approximately the same age as the young ladies, and the only person in the establishment that fit that demographic... It sure wasn't my lack of funds that helped seal the deals.... Time machine anyone? Another factor was the clubs in my area were not 100% legit in many ways... My favorite joint got shut down b/c the girls were busted selling forbiddentopix for the owners.... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2014 Anyone ever gotten the really extra special treatment at a strip club? I've heard it's possible, but I have no idea how to even start that conversation. Anyone? The only reason to try for it at a club is the potential thrill of getting away with something. It'll cost you WAY too much money. Just call a hooker and be done with it. It'll take significantly less time AND money. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2014 I think the major contributing factor at thre time was that I was approximately the same age as the young ladies, and the only person in the establishment that fit that demographic... Another factor was the clubs in my area were not 100% legit in many ways... This and this. When I was much younger, was easy to get phone numbers of strippers: same-ish age, in shape. And the not 100% legit factor. Could even be as simple as the joint openly violates city/county/state rules. For example, the former Boogie Down on Pecos and 64th had grabby dancers, would wear sheer g-strings, pull them aside from time to time (all no-nos), so not a surprise that one could go home with a dancer from there. And of course, back in the 80s(?), Shotguns was running girls out of there for $1,000 a pop. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2014 In the ancient past (mid-1970's) in a galaxy far, far away (Chicago `burbs) there was a strip joint with a set-up like the clubs in the Zona Roja of Mexican border towns. Strippers dance as advertising, then take customers back to rooms (in this club downstairs) for more complete service. All was reasonably priced with dances, drinks, & tips upstairs matched other clubs in the area and downstairs matched ASPs advertising in the local rags. That being said, the strip clubs of today in the Denver area are NOT conducive to this activity. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2014 This and this. When I was much younger, was easy to get phone numbers of strippers: same-ish age, in shape. And the not 100% legit factor. Could even be as simple as the joint openly violates city/county/state rules. For example, the former Boogie Down on Pecos and 64th had grabby dancers, would wear sheer g-strings, pull them aside from time to time (all no-nos), so not a surprise that one could go home with a dancer from there. And of course, back in the 80s(?), Shotguns was running girls out of there for $1,000 a pop. I calling Bull Shit on Boogie Down. That place was nude. G-strings were purely optional. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2014 I calling Bull Shit on Boogie Down. That place was nude. G-strings were purely optional. Like all the strip clubs, it was all nude until the liqour license laws were changed to read that it was a health hazard, they were worried about pubic hairs getting into the customers drinks. Of course that was challanged by the pop shop strip clubs,which are nude ,because no one worries about pubic hairs getting into the cokes. Nowdays, they have nude rooms were no booze is served,where the ladies can go bottomless. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 29, 2014 Interesting read - and I agree - BAD IDEA! Well - that is unless you own Bank of America - then go for it! In the long run - will cost you way to much - in many ways! While things might happen - juices could flowing and you could get a connection - end result - bad news all around! Champagne at $1000 a bottle - you can get into some private rooms - but better have lots of cash and expect to end up at a dead end! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 29, 2014 For me I would rather see great escort because I would rather know what I am getting 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 29, 2014 Anyone ever gotten the really extra special treatment at a strip club? I've heard it's possible, but I have no idea how to even start that conversation. Anyone? Back in the 90's, in a far, far away land called Florida, I frequented a strip joint there on the Gulf Coast. I was a regular, well thought of customer who knew all the girls and the owner quite well. I never paid a cover charge after the first few times, tipped everyone well, and bought the girls drinks, too. The girls would all come sit at my big table by the door, laugh, party, joke around, and ignore the other customers there, the rednecks, cheapskates and losers who frequented the place. I never saw any shenanigans going on in the club while I was there. BUT, I made friends with three of the young ladies there, and dated all three almost simultainously. They were all in their twenties and I was almost fourty. All were nice girls, not skanky women, beautiful, talented and all very good dancers. This was a fun, albeit short lived, experience, less than a year in all and the interesting part was they were all friends with each other. The moral of this story is that these girls, and others I have met that work in clubs, need to be treated as ladies. Be nice to them, be friendly but not pushy, generous, kind, considerate, dress nice and be a gentlemen. They see a-holes every day, every shift, all night long. A nice guy stands out in the crowd. All three of these young ladies asked me out on dates, I never breached the subject with them. I am not bragging here, just telling the guys here that if you want to find the way to a woman's heart, and eventually to her bedroom, treat them nice. Works every time. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 29, 2014 On a whole I agree with most of the guys here. For the most part, providers are far less hassle, less money in the long run, and if you're smart and see reputable ladies, you know you are in for a good time. However, I know from personal experience, that strip club fun is possible. There are key differences to provider fun and strip club fun thought. First, I think generally, guys see a provider for one reason, really. Some guys will say they enjoy the company, or conversation, or feeling wanted or whatever (those are legit reasons, however in the end, sex is the primary motivation). Lets face it, most guys could find companionship for far cheaper, if sex wasn't a motivation, but sex is always a motivation. 1) Now, strip club fun is far more about the experience. To have a shot at scoring with any woman, let alone strippers, you have to get to know them. Be a gentleman, be kind, be funny, listen, have real conversations with them. It is the rare guy that is so hot/rich that can just throw around money and bang whomever. I consider myself to be a fairly attractive guy, when I smile at woman they smile back, however I'm not some Abercrombie model. I have found that treating strippers like real woman, with worth and value, instead of like a commodity (which they are being told every second they are working by the very environment they work at) is the key to having a chance. So be nice, don't get handsy (only touch when invited), be respectful, BE A GENTLEMAN! 2) Now many guys have said you have to throw around a lot of money. This is both true and false. Its the way you throw around what money you have that makes the difference. We all know drinks are over priced at clubs, but the fact is drinking is, quite frankly, one of the perks for the dancers. Most of us would love to be able to have a beer or whatever every now and then at work. So buy drinks! Buy drinks for your favorite dancers friends! Buy drinks for the wait staff, and bar tenders, and door guys! Be fun, be the party! I am not advocating drinking to excess, I believe and hope that we are all adults here, so act like it. Being memorable is important. These ladies see so many faces everyday, it has to be a blur very quickly. So stand out (in a good way, not in a I-got-so-drunk-I-pissed-myself-and-everyone-thinks-I'm-an-asshole way), be fun and exciting. 3) Tipping. Tipping is, universally, appreciated. These ladies don't get paid hourly, and they aren't there just to get drunk. Now, at the club I go, most of the ladies know I never get private dances and never sit at the table, but I always have 3 or 4 ladies hanging with me. How is this possible? I should also point out I am not rich, by any means, nor do I try to pass as such. However I do make it a point of tipping what I can, to every lady. Some guys have a favorite or are regulars, so if thats you then don't feel bad about focusing on one lady, however know that showing a little love to other ladies builds a positive reputation. And don't feel like you need to be slipping ones, dancers have stacks of ones, and some have told me it gets annoying to get judgemental looks when paying for things, so toss a few twenties around and your golden. At the same time seeming really generous. Sometimes its fun to have a little fun with tipping, I'll 60 or 80 in ones and the ladies with 'make it rain' so to speak. So, tip what you can, when you can! 4) What I get out of this. I'm sure you're saying to yourself, "this sounds like a lot of work and a lot of money". Yes and no. For me, this isn't about 'work or money', and having a lot of it or not. Its more about time and effort. When I go to the club its like a party, I go to have fun, with half naked (sometimes just naked) woman. I go to hang out with fun, exciting, usually wild ladies. When I have some free time, and don't want to have a few beers alone. The ladies know that, essentially I'm harmless, which is a good thing. I won't grope them or be crude. I won't treat them like meat or a product. I am always a gentleman. And as a consequence they open up and have fun with me. I've experienced most of the acronyms in the club, and at the least a make out session. Every time. I am not bragging, or saying its easy, or that every guy will experience this. It pays to be nice, and liked, and to not be an asshole. I think the only reason the bouncers and staff haven't ever given me or the ladies a hard time is because they like me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 29, 2014 For me I would rather see great escort because I would rather know what I am getting Yes indeed. Are extras having your nipples sucked and tongues in your ears? Is it freedom to roam your hands vigorously all over her body? If so, I've had those extras in Las Vegas a few times. Or is "extra" full-on sex/UTF? Bottom line is that strip clubs are the ultimate money pit -- nothing quite like it. For my part, I'm through with them. Go to the AMPs and do the dance for extras. At least there you are unclothed. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 29, 2014 The only time I visit a strip bar anymore is on the way to an appointment with a sporting lady. So's I can get in the proper mood. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 29, 2014 The only time I visit a strip bar anymore is on the way to an appointment with a sporting lady. So's I can get in the proper mood. A "sporting lady" -- love that term. Reminds me Lonesome Dove. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2014 I calling Bull Shit on Boogie Down. That place was nude. G-strings were purely optional. i think you're thinking about pecos junction. the mile high saloon was pretty wild in the 90's. :D:D 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2014 i think you're thinking about pecos junction. the mile high saloon was pretty wild in the 90's. :D:D Boogie Down started off as an all nude club, I was at its grand opening,then the liqour laws changed and it became a g string club. Pecos Junction was always an all nude pop shop. Two porn stars came out of the Mile High Saloon...can you name them ?? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 30, 2014 Two porn stars came out of the Mile High Saloon...can you name them ?? who 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 31, 2014 Boogie Down started off as an all nude club, I was at its grand opening,then the liqour laws changed and it became a g string club. Pecos Junction was always an all nude pop shop. Two porn stars came out of the Mile High Saloon...can you name them ?? who Leena & Juli Ashton? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 31, 2014 Go to a different country, which you will be able to afford by skipping about two nights of trying to get this done in the good ole USA. Costa Rica, for example. I understand the urge - it's fun to screw around a little in public. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 1, 2014 Leena & Juli Ashton? Half right. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 2, 2014 However, I know from personal experience, that strip club fun is possible. +1 Although, Denver is not good as compared to many other cities in USA. FYI: "Extra" service in Denver is limited to DATY, Heavy grinding, Heavy kissing, Hand job etc. You don't have to spend too much money but just need an eye to pick right dancer. Mostly, it's fun loving, easy going and level 7+ girls. (Yes, it's mostly the pretty ones). Also the girls who comes very frequently may not let you cross the line as she do not want to loose her job. Also the one who may have just started dancing that week may think about people coming to strip clubs as losers and thus may not meet your needs. Also be ready to say "no" to second dance if you think it's not going anywhere. And be ready to spend for few dances if you get the right girl. Although, I always felt that I could have got more from escort but I can never plan a day (or even few hrs) before. But sitting at a strip club, drinking with friends, seeing half naked ladies get you into mood..and those "extra" service ( as per Denver standard) makes my day...The clubs you may try are PT's show club ( on evans) and Shot gun willies (although only try with travelling girls at shot gun). Penthouse is big no. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 13, 2014 Its easy enough. Get a time machine and go back to 1989 and visit Pecos Junction. Fun times, fun times. There was also a place just outside the Tampa Airport, can't remember the name, but for a $10 private dance, very little was off the table. Where did all of life's little pleasures go? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
