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I would start with "do you like girls?" If I was going to do a 3-way I'd make sure that she was into girls. Because watching that go down is half the fun. Only then, "do you have a friend?"

Just like freedom of speech doesn't mean anyone has to listen, freedom to show titties doesn't mean you have to look. I'd rather live in a world where bare tits are legal, regardless of size, shape, or color. Show'em off!

We're used to this here in Colorado Springs ... you may notice that all the men have abnormally well-developed right arms.

I think you have to look carefully at the lady's ad, how she writes and when she posts, and her reviews, and her website (if any). It should be quickly clear that some girls are in the Motel 6 and will push the dog off the bed whenever you're ready to come over, while others want a day or two's notice and will do full screening. Some will only take text messages, some will want a P411 request. Some won't even notice if you text 5 times before you get an answer, and some will block the shit out of you if you try that. Different girls require different approaches.

The standard protocol is to plead the 5th and don't say anything to the kind officer.

I just follow my pecker, forward and down.

P411 is currently invaluable but it's doomed if the policy continues for very long. People will leave from death/retirement and the pool will shrink along with the money to run the business. Here's hoping that does NOT happen.

This is a very old thread that has randomly sprung to life! Things were bad before, when BP was the main place for Springs ladies to advertise, but now it's gone and things are much worse. Sure, we have some nice ladies and some listings on TOB/P411. But it's harder than ever, and P411 is only shrinking. Still, there are ways...

It's a big big world and there are billions of lovely ladies out there.

I appreciate the links, but these are all almost all bad. Eroticmonkey looks legit but has not much going on in my town. Cityxguide is good for a laugh! Looks to have auto-generated ads by a computer with broken English. Super fake. Escortfish has months old ads gfemonkey has only a few big cities. girl-directory - same bedpage has nothing. Only ONE of these sites, adultlook.com, looks like it might be useful. But I think it's probably just reposting old Backpage ads. Does anyone know if this site is legit, as opposed to just reposting old content? The fact that they don't have dates on their ads is a big negative. Some ladies are not liable to keep the same number for long.

Freedom of speech, and freedom of association. Yes, there are limits on both rights (there are limits on all rights), so these are not a "right to hobby". I think there's a strong argument to be made that sex work among consenting adults should be legal. The problem is that few people are willing to stand up and say that (I mean judges, legislators, and clients). So I'm not holding my breath for legalization. It might slowly crawl out of the shadows, like weed has, but that's not happening right now.

[slow clap] I have been on hiatus but if DM is posting his poetry, I should visit more often!

Remember, you're paying for her time only, and whatever consenting activities adults do is up to them. In the end it's not just a disclaimer, and I really do believe that. These girls are humans and sometimes take time to get comfortable. For me, things progressed on the second visit.

At least you're honest about lying!

I can see why the "pros" with their own web sites get professional pictures. But I prefer the amateur shots. For me the best thing a lady can do is to post new pics reasonably often ... when she's posting the same pics from 5 years ago I'm going to wonder why.