Posted February 8, 2022 FWIW, I close any pop-up ad the moment the option to close it is available. While I realize they are a necessary evil that helps keep the internet (mostly) free, I find them annoying. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 8, 2022 (edited) 46 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: P411 too, as well as a few other escort platforms! I think is time to hear from TOB?! What’s the beef please? I am not trying to be confrontational. Just the same, I am sick of having to be extra careful with what I say. I would like to know what is up please!m?! I am someone who is not afraid to speak my truths and I know I can be quick to state my oppion and it doesn't make me popular! I am brutal in your face when challenged. I have No problem and I will weigh out the facts before speaking my peace most times unless I am too heated! Live your life honestly. It is so much easier! Don’t challenge Kali! Because I will set the record straight at all costs if need be. Last time I asked about Butcoin- I got a very vague answer. Just would like to know the truth why we must pay with Butcoin (Bitcoin)? sorry for the rant! The Bitcoin and Ashley Madison pop-up are both an issue. I think we are all due some answers please. - sorry if I wrote on the wrong thread?It won't be the last time either that I screw up! It is just that I am upset about all of this, and I feel as though the Companions once again are needing to pay for everything Mentally and monetarily!! As if we don’t have it hard enough in life? Edited February 8, 2022 by Kali Sensual Reiki 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 9, 2022 (edited) 10 hours ago, Bootsce said: Love how this conversation turned. You all are awesome! (still hate the pop up. Best to hit the back button on the AM screen and kill the new window that opens with TOB. ) It's like watching the TOB version of "Euphoria". I am trying to figure out who"s handle here, is what character on the show. A couple of them are obvious... Not sure where the future is going, but things don't feel woman friendly lately. Sad, because I miss the beautiful smart woman, that used to post here. Edited February 9, 2022 by Caressa Duval 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 9, 2022 Remember: Sex is too important to leave to amateurs!!! 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 9, 2022 Who makes decisions at TOB about ads? What role do mods/admins play here? Certainly seems to be a contradiction to advertise a competitive service. Sort of like walking into a Chevy dealer and seeing a Ford banner that denigrates Chevy. It is made more egregious by the fact that the lovely ladies pay for the opportunity to advertise, only to see competitive ads on the site that they support with their hard earned dollars... 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 9, 2022 On 2/7/2022 at 3:11 PM, Leyla Scott said: BOYS! HOBBYISTS you need to invite the rest of the men in the world, and turn them on to this!!! WE are references for you ALL the time! Why can’t you do the same?? Enlighten the closed minds of AshMad, Tinder & Bumbleout there! Seriously! Hobbyists are such a small percentage of men 😢 MORE men need to be reached! Prostitution is illegal… Escorting is NOT! Lol wish it worked like that. But with the stigma around our activities, I tell as many people about what I do as you probably do. Which is to say, none. Not a single soul on this planet knows what I do besides the ladies I see and I'm semi retired so I only see a handful of regulars once in awhile. Getting through screening has become quite a chore sometimes and just isn't worth tracking new ladies down just to get ignored imo but ymmv like always. Also I believe your references for 'us' are more for the safety of other ladies than for 'us' I bet. Not to say we don't appreciate it or you, we absolutely do. Back on topic, sorry to digress. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 9, 2022 @zman999 yeah that’s wishful thinking on my part 😏 this is not something most men can discuss with their buddies around a poker table. Ideally if you could though… 😂 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 9, 2022 On 2/7/2022 at 3:11 PM, Leyla Scott said: BOYS! HOBBYISTS you need to invite the rest of the men in the world, and turn them on to this!!! WE are references for you ALL the time! Why can’t you do the same?? Enlighten the closed minds of AshMad, Tinder & Bumbleout there! Seriously! Hobbyists are such a small percentage of men 😢 MORE men need to be reached! Prostitution is illegal… Escorting is NOT! Then why do most screenings strive to be certain your date is not L.E. ????? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2022 9 hours ago, zman999 said: Lol wish it worked like that. But with the stigma around our activities, I tell as many people about what I do as you probably do. Which is to say, none. Not a single soul on this planet knows what I do besides the ladies I see and I'm semi retired so I only see a handful of regulars once in awhile. Getting through screening has become quite a chore sometimes and just isn't worth tracking new ladies down just to get ignored imo but ymmv like always. Also I believe your references for 'us' are more for the safety of other ladies than for 'us' I bet. Not to say we don't appreciate it or you, we absolutely do. Back on topic, sorry to digress. Soo true, l have just about given up on this hobby. 20 questions and a picture id. Way too much. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2022 2 hours ago, mustang said: Then why do most screenings strive to be certain your date is not And 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2022 @mustang screening is not just for making sure clients aren’t LE. Being a companion is not illegal. The exchange of money for sex is illegal. That’s not what we do! 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2022 We apologize for the pop up and late reply. The language on the page was offensive. Unfortunately when researched we discovered an error occurring that prompted the link to direct to the wrong landing page. The offensive language has been removed. However, some users are still experiencing the previously cached page. We should have a solution for this in the next 24 hours. 11 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2022 2 hours ago, TheWhisperer said: We apologize for the pop up and late reply. The language on the page was offensive. Unfortunately when researched we discovered an error occurring that prompted the link to direct to the wrong landing page. The offensive language has been removed. However, some users are still experiencing the previously cached page. We should have a solution for this in the next 24 hours. Thanks🥰 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2022 On 2/6/2022 at 6:10 PM, Elhombre41 said: I never read the popups, just close them and move on, Im surprised they say all of that, but it definitely will not affect my hobbying! I ignore them as well! People can make their own assumptions 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2022 1 minute ago, Ms T DDD said: I ignore them as well! People can make their own assumptions And I agree that admin should not allow a distracting ad to contradict their bread and butter!! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 14, 2022 On 2/9/2022 at 4:21 PM, Turtle138 said: Soo true, l have just about given up on this hobby. 20 questions and a picture id. Way too much. I still can't see why a PIC ID works for screening ? No one ever looks like DL ID lol and some ID's can be fake . I never ask for PIC ID , unless he's under 25 yr. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2022 On 2/5/2022 at 8:27 AM, MeganMarie4u said: It's really annoying that Ashley Madison ads have taken over tob. Especially with the pop ups saying "Say no to Escorts" I just feel like the odds are against us more than ever.... Don't mind me. I just needed to vent! It is pretty shitty but anyone w/ intelligence or experience knows that AM and similar sites are bs and packed w/ bots. Most experienced hobby-enthusiasts know this already. Newbies might be enticed thinking they can have something for free; but after they waste their time and money talking to bots, they will quickly return to TOB and look for something guaranteed with even more enthusiasm. Think of AM as a gateway drug for men needing an affair. I was stupid enough to believe AM almost a decade ago and quickly learned of their scheme. Started using TOB and never looked back. TOB is the real deal to find a real time. I wouldn’t sweat it too much but I see why you would worry … 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 18, 2022 I now notice (it may have been there a long time) a banner at the top of the listings that says " GFE Club". When you click on it the page says "An Alternative to Escorts". 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 18, 2022 14 hours ago, sb1212 said: I now notice (it may have been there a long time) a banner at the top of the listings that says " GFE Club". When you click on it the page says "An Alternative to Escorts". The yellow one that generated the yellow submarine post that was apparently too subtle but was OK thread anyway. But the "pop under" is a different animal that can be blocked. The yellow ribbon is hard wire. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2022 I tried Ashley Madison about 5 years ago. The abs Adult Friend Finder are jokes. Hidden in their “terms of service” it states they have they right to post fake profiles in their own interests. On the other hand I tried the sugar daddy site advertised on TOB. It didn’t work out but when I was ready to quit it I went on a date and met the most beautiful young women. We have been together 15 months now. It’s not sexual but an amazing relationship. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 24, 2022 FWIW, I was a client on Ashley Madison and other similar sites for a year before I found TOB. The vast majority of "MILF"s on the site are just providers using it as another advertising source. Plus, they just sell your info to multiple other sites to separate you from the max amount of $$ while providing the min amount of service. TOB is by far the better deal. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 1, 2022 On 2/7/2022 at 3:11 PM, Leyla Scott said: BOYS! HOBBYISTS you need to invite the rest of the men in the world, and turn them on to this!!! WE are references for you ALL the time! Why can’t you do the same?? Enlighten the closed minds of AshMad, Tinder & Bumbleout there! Seriously! Hobbyists are such a small percentage of men 😢 MORE men need to be reached! Prostitution is illegal… Escorting is NOT! Funny I happened back across this thread today. Was talking to an old Army buddy just the other day who now lives back east and is divorced. He confided in me that he has been hobbying for a while, although he didn't use that term. I listened to his stories and ever expressed some jealously, but no, I did not take the opportunity to share. Maybe one day over a couple of drinks I will let the cat out of the bag, but not today. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
