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The bill didn’t even make it through committee. The opposition was so great that there was no reason to continue so maybe try again another time. Yes, religious groups have a big influence. They shame and blame. As for me, SIN is self inflicted nonsense. It’s sad that freedom of expression can be legislated.

Prostitution was decriminalized in New Zealand in 2003 and has worked well with no increase in Human Trafficking. The same in n Denmark decriminalizing in 1999.

The Colorado legislature is debating decriminalizing prostitution. I endorse this. Way overdue. Some examples listed below. What do you think? 1. Improves safety for sex workers 2. Enhances public health and harm reduction 3. Allows law enforcement to focus on real crimes, and protecting sex workers. 4. Decreases human trafficking. 5. Consensual sex between adults should never be considered a crime

Many men and women in committed relationships, like myself, quietly suffer from years without physical or emotional intimacy, honoring their vows while grappling with unmet needs. My wife has a serious disability that has made touching, affection, or sex impossible for over six years. As her devoted partner and caregiver, the loneliness became unbearable. I needed a way to feel alive again without betraying our core commitment. This community and the amazing providers here have been a true lifeline. Sex workers have restored joy, desire, and human connection I thought was lost forever. Many of you create safe, affirming spaces where vulnerability is met with kindness that means everything to someone in my position. I didn’t understand “hobbyists” at first and still wonder if this is a hobby or addiction. I do believe it became an impulsive addiction for myself. To each their own. At my older age, I value good sex and genuine (even brief) connection, warmth, laughter, respect, even in a one-time meet. It’s not about replacing my wife; it’s about surviving a reality I didn’t choose. To sex workers: thank you for providing more than physical release…you offer humanity and non-judgment. It’s complicated and messy, but it’s real. Grateful for this space.

Since my last post on GFE I’ve asked three providers on it’s meaning and got three totally different answers. One answer was a date going to dinner was GFE. Here is the meaning from Urban Dictionary. A "provider" that provides genuine intimacy as well as sexual services making the "client" feel as if they are with a partner not a pro. Including but not limited to: Oral sex without cover, Long and deep kissing, Lots of eye contact, Cuddling, Intimate conversation, The desire to please, etc.

The guys that are “No Shows” are making it harder on the rest of us as ladies might have to impose new methods such as deposits or other methods of screening.

I have had so many advertise GFE. But when I get there she says “no kissing”. I’m confused or are times changing.

Personally. I like if I have access to their OF. It’s another layer of verification for me and gives me a little bit more information if they interest me enough to make an appointment. I can do this without subscribing.

I think I’ll write a song, “I love going down, down, down”

I’ve seen Vivian. I liked her a lot. Sweet gal.

Some people measure in inches but my system of measurement has always been in peniles. 7” is one penile.

I might except nude nuru massage without happy ending.

Someone above mentioned Blue Bench. i’m familiar with them, and it might be worth a call for their advice.

STD’s is a topic we have discussed many times here on TOB. Being associated with public health I wanted you all to know that chlamydia and syphilis have increased significantly in Colorado recently according to the Colorado Department of Health. Syphilis is primarily showing up in older men, not youth or middle age according to the CDH. Something that you wouldn’t expect but it makes sense. I think members are smart on having protection here on TOB. But some men are stepping beyond this platform and taking risks and encountering women that go raw. Syphlis can kill you if not treated. Besides that, you will be contacted by the CDH when you need treatment. Women can spot the sores on the penis but men cannot identify if the women have sores in their vagina. Going bare at this particular post Covid era, your changes are better than 70% you will be infected. Be smart everyone. Don’t take that risk. It’s not with it.

There are nights I lay in bed and think of the many ladies I have met here. I’ve learned a lot about myself from these experiences, I can say I’m more compassionate and caring than before TOB. I understand women much better and how to please them. I’ve left many rooms looking back as I walk out the door feeling a little “crush” on some of the ladies. I’m a bit older now and not as active but I think I’ll stay on here as I don’t know if there will be another day. Sex work is needed in our society and those here know that. The rest of the population doesn’t have a clue.