Ms T DDD

Ahh yes, the deposit debate again. For me it is very simple. I require a deposit for certian sevices, I also may require one for my comfort level if the client is new or if an appointment is booked out for a lengthy time. Every provider is different. The client may want to do his research on the provider and check for things that make him comfortable like stability, board status, reviews ect. If the client is uncomfortable with a deposit policy, then he has the choice to move on to a provider who does not require one. Simple.

From my experience, most of my clients that I see prefer providers with websites that list their donations. You can also say "Roses" instead of "donation", which may make the provider feel more comfortable answering. Just my 2 cents 😊

Yes, please let us know what is going on so we may be prepared and try to help you and others from this abuse.

Absolutely!

I just laugh at them and tell them to " Bring it on!! "

S0, I was thinking of offering a 30 min introductory session. I have been watching videos and reading up on what to wear, techniques, styles and so forth. I certainly want to make sure I follow and respect all rules and comfort levels of me and my client. I would prefer to start with a client I know and we are both comfortable with one another. I have ordered some supplies via Amazon and will start creating my massage room into a dom masterpiece! I would like to make it easy for me to switch from BDSM back to massage. I am still trying to find a website that will let me and my girlfriend post our services. So far I have only seen hook up sites. Email me when you have time if you can lend more information. Thank you, T

Its been quite the challenge. Ive joined Tryst, as they have a BDSM section where providers can post an ad. It takes up to 45 days to be approved on Tryst......I'm still waiting.

Thank you. So much research to do!!

I appreciate you. I'll reach out.

Thank you. I've been looking around and all I see is dating or hookups for BDSM.

Everything!!

I have had many inquiries about this service, and I was thinking of trying it. Any thoughts anyone??

Negotiating at ALL is a way to get blacklisted with me! I get what you are putting down Caressa.

LOL like they actually READ your website!! I ignore a dozen guys a day because they go straight to my contact page and skip over ALL my crucial information and requirements!

Ehhh maybe not, I would ask the lady first. I do not drink, so if a new friend brought me wine....it would be wasted. I love flowers, some ladies don't. So I would ask before you spend your money. Instead of spending your money on a gift, give her a tip. That is always appreciated!