Posted November 30, 2020 If you had one wish... What features or rules would you add, take away, change to make our forums a more fun and exciting place to come and participate in? I know TOB is different than other sites for a multitude of reasons, but if you could twitch your nose what would you wish for? Or would you not change a thing because TOB is perfect the way it is? 😋😎 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 30, 2020 Posting prices and services........... I know this is a dream. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 30, 2020 I used to enjoy the more detailed reviews in TER. I understand that current circumstances probably make that kind of review impossible... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 30, 2020 3 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said: If you had one wish... What features or rules would you add, take away, change to make our forums a more fun and exciting place to come and participate in? I know TOB is different than other sites for a multitude of reasons, but if you could twitch your nose what would you wish for? Or would you not change a thing because TOB is perfect the way it is? 😋😎 I'd wish away sesta - fosta, so everyone felt more comfortable, giving details in reviews, and in advertising. 8 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 30, 2020 TOB is not perfect, but it far and away better than other sites. TOB forums allows for interactions between the ladies and guys in threads while other sites don't. The listing and review system helps to keep TOB below the radar of scrutinizing eyes. I can't think of anything I would change at this time. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 3, 2020 I appreciate TOB forums and hope they continue. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 3, 2020 On 11/30/2020 at 11:11 AM, Hunter VanDyke said: If you had one wish... What features or rules would you add, take away, change to make our forums a more fun and exciting place to come and participate in? I know TOB is different than other sites for a multitude of reasons, but if you could twitch your nose what would you wish for? Or would you not change a thing because TOB is perfect the way it is? 😋😎 Are you talking about the forum, or advertising? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 3, 2020 I'd make it easier for sporting ladies to participate. The postings seem to be the same handful of ladies, over and over and over.... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 3, 2020 10 minutes ago, lintlizard said: I'd make it easier for sporting ladies to participate. The postings seem to be the same handful of ladies, over and over and over.... Just like there are several hundred men registered with TOB and only a handful of men post, there are probably 200-300 ladies registered on TOB and yet only a handful of ladies participate on the forums and post availability. It's not that it is hard to post, people are just choosing not to participate or post....IMHO. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 3, 2020 1 hour ago, lintlizard said: I'd make it easier for sporting ladies to participate. The postings seem to be the same handful of ladies, over and over and over.... 1 hour ago, ilovewomen said: Just like there are several hundred men registered with TOB and only a handful of men post, there are probably 200-300 ladies registered on TOB and yet only a handful of ladies participate on the forums and post availability. It's not that it is hard to post, people are just choosing not to participate or post....IMHO. This is also a factor. Only one wish, then +1 Seeker5280, and if he somehow gets his wish, reviews readable by clients only. You'll have more honest reviews and less issues with BSC's. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 3, 2020 On 11/30/2020 at 0:49 PM, Seeker5280 said: Posting prices and services........... I know this is a dream. Just to comment my thoughts on this, with many providers they have either a P411 or personal website that provides rates and services. However there are quite a few that do not or on P411 will ask you to contact them for rates. ... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 3, 2020 2 hours ago, Vassago said: This is also a factor. Only one wish, then +1 Seeker5280, and if he somehow gets his wish, reviews readable by clients only. You'll have more honest reviews and less issues with BSC's. Ok....what is "BSC"? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 3, 2020 Ah. A common description of several of my RW past relationships. Something I try to avoid here.... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 3, 2020 14 hours ago, Mr.Pink said: Are you talking about the forum, or advertising? I was referring to the forums. Not really advertising or reviews. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 3, 2020 I think the forums are pretty good. I’d like to be able to “like” more than 10 times per day. Maybe different types of reactions like Facebook has implemented. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 3, 2020 8 hours ago, lintlizard said: I'd make it easier for sporting ladies to participate. The postings seem to be the same handful of ladies, over and over and over.... What would make it easier for the type of ladies you would like to see? I would love to see different ladies interacting too. Maybe less restrictions on what the ladies can and can't say? 😂 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 3, 2020 8 hours ago, ilovewomen said: Just like there are several hundred men registered with TOB and only a handful of men post, there are probably 200-300 ladies registered on TOB and yet only a handful of ladies participate on the forums and post availability. It's not that it is hard to post, people are just choosing not to participate or post....IMHO. Well there are different rules we have to follow on this forum that we don't have to follow on other social media sites that have a lot of interactions with providers and clients. Although I do understand its tricky navigating a site with forums, advertising, and reviews. Its more complicated. I agree it's not hard to post. Some of our members here post in other places even though they don't post here. Would love to see them doing the same here too. This is just a wish list topic. Trust me I'm a fan of TOB...obviously. 😊 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 4, 2020 I guess I would like to see everyone free and able to post their ideas and opinions without everyone else climbing on their collective a**es. Too many men and ladies are too easily triggered by ideas and thoughts that they don't agree with. 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 4, 2020 1 hour ago, mustang said: I guess I would like to see everyone free and able to post their ideas and opinions without everyone else climbing on their collective a**es. Too many men and ladies are too easily triggered by ideas and thoughts that they don't agree with. People are going to disagree. I WANT people to post opposing opinions. I want people to post truth, if it exposes incorrect info. If someone posted that all escorts are lazy people, who hate their clients, I WANT someone to post disagreement. If someone posts that all clients are mean cheapskates, again, I want to see disagreement. Now, people don't have to be rude, or call names, to post a different opinion. We should all still be polite, even if we disagree. 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 4, 2020 2 hours ago, pfunk said: People are going to disagree. I WANT people to post opposing opinions. I want people to post truth, if it exposes incorrect info. If someone posted that all escorts are lazy people, who hate their clients, I WANT someone to post disagreement. If someone posts that all clients are mean cheapskates, again, I want to see disagreement. Now, people don't have to be rude, or call names, to post a different opinion. We should all still be polite, even if we disagree. Being able to disagree and still respect each other and not call each other names would be a fantastic thing. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 4, 2020 I wish we had a more welcoming approach to newbies and promoting more participation from all members of the board. There are many, very active TOB members, that have decided to not participate after being called out for sharing their opinions on specific topics. It feels the forums are policed by the same group of people that decides what’s acceptable and what’s not. I’ve even witnessed dudes being black listed!! maybe we can ask all tob keyboard warriors of the forum to chat less and fuck more in 2021 😁 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 4, 2020 1 hour ago, ilovewomen said: Being able to disagree and still respect each other and not call each other names would be a fantastic thing. Love this above! Sadly said there will always be those who hold a grudge. Want to peddle the anger. Sending reiki 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 4, 2020 2 hours ago, Todoesprivado said: I wish we had a more welcoming approach to newbies and promoting more participation from all members of the board. Can't say I've noticed anyone being unkind to a newbie post unless it was off the wall inappropriate, which I think is usually established members using a new profile to shit post. However I will say I feel somewhat intimidated by posting in the forums and don't really know why that is. Trying to shake that feeling now and post more. As for my wish, an optional newbie pre-screening method. Give ladies some reassurance but not bypass their methods. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 4, 2020 8 hours ago, Todoesprivado said: I wish we had a more welcoming approach to newbies and promoting more participation from all members of the board. There are many, very active TOB members, that have decided to not participate after being called out for sharing their opinions on specific topics. It's all in the approach on how a person posts. But some people will condemn you for your opinion no matter what. We all need to be more respectful. It feels the forums are policed by the same group of people that decides what’s acceptable and what’s not. I’ve even witnessed dudes being black listed!! maybe we can ask all tob keyboard warriors of the forum to chat less and fuck more in 2021 😁 This...Great idea!!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 4, 2020 15 hours ago, pfunk said: People are going to disagree. I WANT people to post opposing opinions. I want people to post truth, if it exposes incorrect info. If someone posted that all escorts are lazy people, who hate their clients, I WANT someone to post disagreement. If someone posts that all clients are mean cheapskates, again, I want to see disagreement. Now, people don't have to be rude, or call names, to post a different opinion. We should all still be polite, even if we disagree. Agreed, BUT it is NOT necessary to call them names, question their intellect or integrity. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 4, 2020 (edited) To all the Fe kin’ E jits who disagree with me, bugger off! 🤪 To my friends who disagree with me (this includes both the feathered and antlered of TOB), I’ll defend your right to argue with my life👍 Yes, we can hold discussions w/o maligning our opponents. It just takes respect for their right to opposing views and a little common courtesy. Sadly, this is lacking in many areas of today’s society. Edited December 4, 2020 by Bit Banger 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 4, 2020 14 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: Love this above! Sadly said there will always be those who hold a grudge. Want to peddle the anger. Sending reiki This post sounds a little like what you're talking about 🤦♀️😂 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 4, 2020 On 11/30/2020 at 11:11 AM, Hunter VanDyke said: If you had one wish... What features or rules would you add, Perhaps a check box for ladies to indicate in listings whether they are reference friendly, because this: https://theotherboard.com/forum/index.php?/topic/45848-recommendations-on-providers-who-provide-references/ keeps popping up as a question. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 5, 2020 10 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said: This post sounds a little like what you're talking about 🤦♀️😂 Sorry, I am confused? Possibly you quoted the wrong individual? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
