Posted August 28, 2019 So this is a new thing for me. I just want some advice on making contact, since I have no references. Also don't want to offend anyone. How do you like to see a gentleman make contact, what are the right questions to ask, etc, and how do you do verification if I have never seen a provider before? Am open to any advice. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 28, 2019 You are new. Get a burner phone , Google voice or some app to keep you anonymous.You will have to check out the listings for newbie friendly providers. Browse them and see who you like. Since you are brand new, she will probably ask for some real world information. Each girl will be different. Only give out what you are comfortable with. If it isn't enough for her, say sorry and thank her for her time. If it is, ask her if she is reference.friendly. Read her profile and some of her posts. Read others reviews of her. This should answer most of your questions as to her menu and rates. Never, never ask her about her rates for certain services. The call, text or email will cease at that point. Your number will probably be blocked. When you get an appointment, be on time, clean, polite and follow her directions. This won't be her first time. Once you have one review and reference, the next should be easier. The girls are nice and will help you , f you are a gentleman. Ask her if she has a friend who you could see. Then you have two. If you can find P411 girls, you will be set once you become a member there. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 29, 2019 1 hour ago, Alex Majors said: You are new. Get a burner phone , Google voice or some app to keep you anonymous.You will have to check out the listings for newbie friendly providers. Browse them and see who you like. Since you are brand new, she will probably ask for some real world information. Each girl will be different. Only give out what you are comfortable with. If it isn't enough for her, say sorry and thank her for her time. If it is, ask her if she is reference.friendly. Read her profile and some of her posts. Read others reviews of her. This should answer most of your questions as to her menu and rates. Never, never ask her about her rates for certain services. The call, text or email will cease at that point. Your number will probably be blocked. When you get an appointment, be on time, clean, polite and follow her directions. This won't be her first time. Once you have one review and reference, the next should be easier. The girls are nice and will help you , f you are a gentleman. Ask her if she has a friend who you could see. Then you have two. If you can find P411 girls, you will be set once you become a member there. AM makes some very good points. Research is our friend. Lots of research. Participating in the forums is also a good way to our community know a bit about you. Remember that everyone here is a real human being and deserves respect. For me, I've found that being somewhat open when I contact a lady, being kind, practicing very good hygiene and having a genuine interest in shared pleasure can make for some wonderful encounters. And I always want to remember that this is supposed to be fun...respectful fun between consenting adults. We all started as newbies and had to go through what you are going through. I wish you luck and hope you find a way to enjoy yourself. There are some great ladies (and gents) in our community. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 29, 2019 14 hours ago, Alex Majors said: You are new. Get a burner phone , Google voice or some app to keep you anonymous. Providers DO NOT like when clients use a Google voice, or an App phone #. It is an automatic red flag so I highly recommend against that. You can get a burner phone for cheap, so I would go that route. Look for newbie friendly providers and always read the providers website before contacting. Dont ask any leading questions, you will be ghosted. Good luck and I'm sure you will get your "feet" wet soon! 12 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 29, 2019 4 hours ago, Crystyna said: Providers DO NOT like when clients use a Google voice, or an App phone #. It is an automatic red flag so I highly recommend against that. You can get a burner phone for cheap, so I would go that route. Look for newbie friendly providers and always read the providers website before contacting. Dont ask any leading questions, you will be ghosted. Good luck and I'm sure you will get your "feet" wet soon! What is the difference between the google voice number and a burner phone? Both would be real, serviceable numbers that are not tied to an identifiable person on the other end. Voice, I would argue almost gives you a bit more since you need an active email address to acquire it but that too would very likely be an anonymous email. With the burner it’s just that, disposable and not traceable unless I’m missing something. I’m just trying to understand. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 29, 2019 13 minutes ago, JoDoe27 said: What is the difference between the google voice number and a burner phone? Both would be real, serviceable numbers that are not tied to an identifiable person on the other end. Voice, I would argue almost gives you a bit more since you need an active email address to acquire it but that too would very likely be an anonymous email. With the burner it’s just that, disposable and not traceable unless I’m missing something. I’m just trying to understand. Well all I know that there have been a lot of providers who have mentioned google voice numbers or voice app numbers as being an issue. The difference between a burner phone and google voice etc, is you can create many numbers and use them as often as you want, which can be hard for us to track for safety purposes, If you are using a burner phone, the chances of you changing the number 100 times is unlikely. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 29, 2019 Always make sure to ask what's on the menu to avoid surprise. Get a burner number, trust me on this one. -1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 30, 2019 1 hour ago, Mr.Pink said: Always make sure to ask what's on the menu to avoid surprise. If anyone takes this advice, be prepared to never meet a provider. 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 30, 2019 The first one is always the toughest one. Be polite, ask what she needs to verify you since you are a newbie, or even if she sees newbies. Research is the key thing. There is always P 411 also. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 30, 2019 Want guaranteed success? The most comprehensive and informative advice is here ... https://xostefania.nl/how-to-book-an-escort/ Read and heed. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 30, 2019 I actually use google voice for texting and then just use my email for most communication. As long as I am honest and upfront about it, it is usually not a big deal. I think one provider refused to see me because I would not give out my work number. I think the most important thing for success is to read everything you can about a provider. If she has a website, read it all. If she runs ads, read them too. Read reviews. When you reach out, reach out as though you are setting a business meeting. Be professional, and include all needed information. Also, do not ask about certain acts or rules. You can inquire about rates, approximate location of incall, preferred screening method and schedule. Always include a description of yourself... How old, are you clean cut, why you are in the area. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 30, 2019 As far as making contact, message her on here and then follow up with a text message, mentioning something like "this is ___ from TOB" That will help get her attention in case she doesn't check TOB daily & helps you stand out in a text message in an inbox full of "Hey! How are you?" 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 30, 2019 (edited) 5 hours ago, whosyourdaty said: Want guaranteed success? The most comprehensive and informative advice is here ... https://xostefania.nl/how-to-book-an-escort/ Read and heed. That link helped me my first time. I'm relatively new as well, little under a year of active hobbying. Geecue2 is right, the first one is the most nerve wracking but it's exciting as well. There are some great newbie friendly ladies out there though. If they have a website, it almost holds your hand usually and helps you get through screening. The biggest things I've learned so far is research is key like others have said and be patient when you contact someone. Some of the people I see have responses set on their phone so you know they got your message and can't get back to you right away. I've always gotten a response, but sometimes ladies are in session or are doing RL things and can't immediately get back to you. Good luck and have fun! Edited August 30, 2019 by ChaosMonkey76 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 30, 2019 17 hours ago, pfunk said: If anyone takes this advice, be prepared to never meet a provider. With older providers this is generally the case, I've found younger providers more uninhibited. -1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 30, 2019 I do appreciate the advice. Thanks to all. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 30, 2019 7 hours ago, whosyourdaty said: Want guaranteed success? The most comprehensive and informative advice is here ... https://xostefania.nl/how-to-book-an-escort/ Read and heed. Good read. Thanks. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2019 8 hours ago, Mr.Pink said: With older providers this is generally the case, I've found younger providers more uninhibited. I disagree.You could be talking/messaging with LE, you could be LE, you're risking her livelihood, and your freedom. It's just an overall stupid idea to ask about activities prior to a meeting. Stupid. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2019 8 hours ago, Mr.Pink said: With older providers this is generally the case, I've found younger providers more uninhibited. And be prepared to answer three very important screening questions: Age? Race? Are you a cop? Your answers should be 25 Polynesian Suspended No matter the real answers. It’ll help the campaign. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2019 OMG--- sorry you could not just get an answer. Do not try to schedule as a newbie using a VOIP number. Unfortunately it does not work like that. Choose a newbie friendly lady that you feel comfortable giving some real word info to. Once you visit with her and behave lije a gentleman, let the lady know what hobby name and hobby number you will be using. Then she will be able to provide a reference for you. Best wishes 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2019 20 minutes ago, Audrey Astor said: OMG--- sorry you could not just get an answer. Do not try to schedule as a newbie using a VOIP number. Unfortunately it does not work like that. Choose a newbie friendly lady that you feel comfortable giving some real word info to. Once you visit with her and behave lije a gentleman, let the lady know what hobby name and hobby number you will be using. Then she will be able to provide a reference for you. Best wishes Easy peasy! Then you can see any lady you want who accepts references. We like to share our men. ❤ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2019 Gee whiz, it's not exactly rocket science seems like everybody hates me around here but I really don't have any trouble spending some time with a lady. I would never give out any real-world information until I know just as much about the lady as she would like to know about me. Has to be two way streets we both need each other equally 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 2, 2019 On 8/29/2019 at 7:11 AM, Crystyna said: Providers DO NOT like when clients use a Google voice, or an App phone #. It is an automatic red flag so I highly recommend against that. You can get a burner phone for cheap, so I would go that route. Look for newbie friendly providers and always read the providers website before contacting. Dont ask any leading questions, you will be ghosted. Good luck and I'm sure you will get your "feet" wet soon! This is good advice .. read reviews as well this will tell you a lot about the provider and what she has to offer . 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
