That link helped me my first time. I'm relatively new as well, little under a year of active hobbying. Geecue2 is right, the first one is the most nerve wracking but it's exciting as well. There are some great newbie friendly ladies out there though. If they have a website, it almost holds your hand usually and helps you get through screening. The biggest things I've learned so far is research is key like others have said and be patient when you contact someone. Some of the people I see have responses set on their phone so you know they got your message and can't get back to you right away. I've always gotten a response, but sometimes ladies are in session or are doing RL things and can't immediately get back to you. Good luck and have fun!