Posted May 31, 2013 Had a few trysts in Vietnam and it was good. When my wife passed away early in our marriage I still had the urge down below but raising 3 children and a mother in law that lived with us made it difficult. My job also took me out of town frequently. Went to the usual amp's and when in europe the brothels etc. Found the so wet board and that is history. No time at this point for S.O. still travelling a lot. I can honestly say that this area has the best ladies overall. That is why I continue. They are more sincere and less mechanical than a lot of others. Yes I have had good experiences everywhere but this area is the most consistent. (hope this is not hijacking and I get another infraction) oh well just speaking my mind. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 1, 2013 I used to waste lot of time watching porn. Now it's simple to goto a provider. A one good session keeps me away from porn for a week or two. As a side note, a absolute awesome session, make you addicted to girl and than you just keep fantasizing about your next session. Long back "thedenverspeculator" started a post that he had the best time ever with a girl. And he was right, I was addicted to that girl till the time she left the city. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 1, 2013 "Now it's simple to go to a provider. A one good session keeps me away from porn for a week or two." WHAT KIND OF PORN COULD YOU POSSIBLY WATCH THAT SEEING A PROVIDER IS THERAPY. Unless it's the slut shame type porn your into. Like that's really hard to watch. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 1, 2013 So I've been beat up three times in threads I started. Which was only three. So lets see if I can do it again. I know why I decided to get started with all this, got divorced, not really ready to start dating- truthfully I've been on several free dates. But I just don't feel like putting in the time or effort in it, at least not yet. But a man has urges. So why did you get started in all this? Would love to hear from providers as well. Let the JLC bashing begin... As far as starting in the Denver area...it was Cindy Moore's incredibly sexy B@W pictures that "spurred me to action"..:D 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 1, 2013 After 35 years of monagomy and a decreased sex drive by the wife, I started with FBSM thru BP and, except for the no-shows or wrong pics, thought I had it pretty good. Then I tried FS when a FBSM lady offered it to me and then I was off and running in the escort world. Then I found EB/p411 and it has been a very terrific 2.5 years. I have said to providers I was in a same-sex marraige---after 35 years you can bet it was the same sex over and over again. I yearned for the touch, feel, smell, taste, sound, and sight of a different woman. I now escort because it is so much fucking fun (sorry) and the women I've met are mostly awesome. I'm still happily married and just understand, and no longer resent, that my wife's sex drive decreased with age and illness. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 3, 2013 Started when my ex lost interest in sex. Couldn't imagine living the rest of my life having sex 4 times a year, so one day I stumbled across an ad and at that time had no idea that there was anything other than streetwalkers (that I would never consider). Luckily for me my first time was with one of the best ever, Sweet Ashley. I doubt I could have found a better for my first time. I looked at her web site for 6 months before I got the balls to call. I wonder if I had made another choice and perhaps had a bad experience I would probably have hung up my spurs right then and there, but again I lucked out on my first time and the rest is history. I do love you girls. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 4, 2013 S Luckily for me my first time was with one of the best ever, Sweet Ashley. I doubt I could have found a better for my first time. I wonder if I had made another choice and perhaps had a bad experience I would probably have hung up my spurs right then and there, but again I lucked out on my first time and the rest is history. I do love you girls. She is the reason you are here. (Me too. Still looking for her replacement). She is the one all others are measured by. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 4, 2013 Wow! Sweet Ashley, what wonderful lady she was.I was lucky to see her and Cherry Marie together.........totally unforgettable. Visited them soon after I started playing 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 4, 2013 Stumbled on TOB while do a search on a local massage parlor. I thought "holy shit ....where did all of this come from (TOB)" ? Just when you think you know something, you don't know sh*t. I guess I lived a pretty straight & narrow.....now I have to wonder how many other undiscovered world's I'm still missing out on. I've still never been to that massage place, I'm a little shy 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 6, 2013 Wow, Sweet Ashley and Cherry Marie together? That would be like climbing Mount Everest. Everything else would pale in comparison from then on. You sir, are a champion among mere mortals. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 7, 2013 So I've been beat up three times in threads I started. Which was only three. So lets see if I can do it again. I know why I decided to get started with all this, got divorced, not really ready to start dating- truthfully I've been on several free dates. But I just don't feel like putting in the time or effort in it, at least not yet. But a man has urges. So why did you get started in all this? Would love to hear from providers as well. Let the JLC bashing begin... No bashing, amigo. It seems to me that most of the women in my ballpark age-wise are either taken or insane, and I just don't have the heart for the game anymore. Plus, I just don't give good boyfriend/husband. It's a weakness. I do loves me some sexing though, and I don't have any desire to start celibating at this stage in my life. That being the case seeing providers is the best, and most honest, option for me. I wish I hadn't waited so long to get started. All in all it's been a real blast! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 9, 2013 I went on a adult friends site date and when we were leaving he said, "there's an envelope in the drawer for you". i thought , "how thoughtful, a thank you note". i didn't open it right away but when i did there was $1000 in the thank you card. i was shocked bc we had never met. i was so shocked that the envelope sat on my piano for months. later i noticed the adult section of craigslist and answered a gentleman's posting whom i still see. then i tried my own posting without a pic. after that i was kicking myself about all the freebies i gave out back then but i dont fret about it now. one of those freebies just contacted me this week after all these years. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 11, 2013 My ex got me into it. During the counseling just prior to the demise she accused me of see hookers. I hadn't but it seemed like a great idea. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 11, 2013 I don't know what to say, i'm 20 and i have never been married.... i'm waiting for an answer to my question. For your concerns about dating escorts and spending money on hookers, i don' t think it' s a bad ideea but it's not that good too... it depends on the perspective.If you want something serious you should let thoose women alone and searching for real womans that want you for who you are , not for your money or something. Right? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 11, 2013 I was diagnosed as bipolar a few years ago, after I had started the hobby. There's nothing too scary about being bipolar - one effect is that you are prone to risk-taking. Some gamble, some cheat on their partners, etc. For me, the hobby is risky and exciting. Being diagnosed finally shed some light on it for me. I mean, we all search for answers on who we are, but we aren't ever really sure if we have them or not. At least I have finally found some of my motivation for it. What we hobbyists all do isn't mainstream in society. It has stigma, we are taught how "bad" it is. We don't share our hobby with friends and family (at least not many of us). I think it is useful to find a root cause/motivation. I would bet there are other bipolars out there. Maybe other "diagnoses"... Don't get me wrong, I have grown to accept the pleasure I get from the hobby. Acceptance is huge, and it can be a relief. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 11, 2013 Separation & Divorce, Experience from long ago, Backpage misdirect & Discovery of krazy ladies that makes me smile. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 16, 2013 I visited Canada and was always curious about this type of thing. Was single at the time and found a lady and havent looked back. Wont hobby when I'm dating anyone seriously but until then I will ever so often. Besides I'd rather pay the same for a dinner\night out for an hour of intense time with a hot lady. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 16, 2013 I just got tired of all the nonsense involved with "interpersonal relationships." The hobby is much easier - fulfills my need for occasional companionship without having to answer to anyone. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 16, 2013 i love women! then i happen to discover this dynamic when i got out of a heartbreaking 7 year relationship. after months of recovering from my breakup, my job position changed. i was fortunate that my income increased three fold. i suppose i've never looked back..... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 17, 2013 Simple...finding out it existed. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 18, 2013 Divine intervention and all I was blissfully given. I NEVER wanted to touch ANYONE'S BODY ever. Then the universe gave me talent, society gave me a sexual obsession , my emotional life gave me fearlessness, my significant other gave me space, the government gave me a license and economy gave me DRIVE. I love this work. I don't wanna do anything else. Right now. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 19, 2013 Simple...finding out it existed. plus 1 on that! Also numerous hardon's with no damn place to put them. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2013 I don't come on TOB too often anymore, but here I am tonight LOL I was reading a lot of the posts and I will always have a place in my heart for this place. :-) Passiondog and Inkspot, I miss you guys! Thank you for the sweet words. MWAH!!! Sweet Ashley XOXO 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2013 An erection that never go away.....seriously , I have been in few relationships where I have dreamt of being alone....sad but true. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2013 Bad, sexless marriage. I was afraid that no sex leads to impotence. Unable to get out of marriage back then. I hit a few rough bumps getting into the biz, but met some fantastic Ladies. Multiple Os, MSOG, guaranteed sex, great enthusiasm, great variety of talent, fantastic oral skills, three ways, and about anything else one could dream of. It was like being a kid in a candy store with no supervision. Also, there were no normal restrictions. Midgets to 6'5" Amazons. Black, white, far east, near east, latin, european, gymnasts, inked, pierced, advertised, UTR, etc. What's not to like:D 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2013 Bad, sexless marriage. I was afraid that no sex leads to impotence. ..... Resentment from nearly a decade of marriage without sex, nor any intimacy at all. [This is a much more complicated matter. "...oh, really?"] So, this spring, I figured I'd have an affair to get back to connecting physically with someone. Aaaannd, I scrapped that idea quickly for obvious reasons. Then, I thought maybe I'd try Ashley Madison for a FWB. That proved terribly frustrating and got a little tired of the 'we charge for this' and 'we charge for that.' I know the irony is not lost on me... Not quite sure why but, I did a search about AM and that issue and came across this blog: http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2011/01/30/ashley-madison/ After reading through her site a bit, I was literally...'Wait...wait...what?!' So, that blog was the inspiration to explore the escort option. (Sounds like the title of a bad spy novel...) I'd never given this field of endeavour much thought. Before reading that blog, my assumption was there were two kinds of professionals: the ladies on East Colfax and the 1,000/hr escorts and no one in between. I know, I was (am) a complete noob. So, I did more research and learned about Backpage. But, even I was very leery of BP -- and still am -- but mixed in with what GoogleMachine delivered was TOB. And actually stumpbling across this site was the true 'Wait, what?' moment. Slowly, things started to fit together. Fast forward several weeks and if I had a nickle for every hour I'd spent reading through the postings here, I'd have a lot of nickles.... Finally, I "decided" to meet a nice lady -- aka nice lady agreed to see me of No References and Much Cluelessness. Then another nice lady did the same and was a little less terrified every second of it. I meet a very, terrific lady -- actually two -- which sealed the deal and I've been on the adventure since then. I think the information here has helped immensely with employing "best practices" in terms of who to visit and what do to during a visit and so my experiences have been uniformly excellent. How much longer with this little adventure last? No clue. But it has been good. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 2, 2013 Divorce and relocation. Tired of bar scenes.......plus LOTS and LOTS of Hot ladies ! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 2, 2013 Its urban legend and the man himself denied saying the quote, but…. When Willie Sutton was asked why he robbed banks he said: "Because that's where the money is" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 16, 2013 Im disabled, and let's be honest, not many females will date a guy in a wheelchair. So mostly lack of female interest, and this being the next best thing. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 18, 2013 I have never had a real boyfriend. I've dated a couple guys, nothing serious and I have some FWB situations. But nothing compares to being 'girlfriend' for the hour (or evening). The passion, the pure lust and excitement of seeing each other is exhilerating. The freedom to act on my carnal desires without fear of judgement......if I give it up too soon will he think I'm easy? None of that 'will he call me the day after' angst. It's refreshing to be so open and honest, no games no drama. And I have to say that being able to make a man weak in the knees is highly erotic and a huge turn on. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
