gettin' up there

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  • Birthday 03/22/1955


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    59 yo, started in hobby 12/10
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  1. Do AMPs offer good, relaxing regular massages for just $40 an hour?

    I agree with you. I have gotten into Asian massages lately. I have had very good massages for $45-50 from 5 different AMPs along S. Colorado north of I-25. The ladies ask how firm I want my massage: soft, medium, or hard and do accordingly. Some offer a table shower as well which is nice. I will send a PM to the op with more details of the AMPs I have visited around town.
  2. Newbie

    Welcome to the Denver and TOB! We are so much fun and always so pleasant. Just don't ask any question that has ever been asked before. 😀
  3. Asian Providers?

    Nomi's previous associate, Natalia, told me a while back that she retired, which was a shame, since I and obviously many others were fans of Nomi. I'm impressed with how short a time some of the gals are on the provider scene, even those like Nomi who seemed popular and had excellent reviews.
  4. Have we considered ...

    I agree that the ladies should review us clients. I resent that after I've performed my best (clean, shaved, punctual, fresh Benjamin's and a helluva lover:) I just get an "Okay". Being just "okay" means I was average. As an over-achiever, I want to strive for more. While your detailed set of questions is very funny, we should at least be graded similar to the TOB providers as fantastic, very good, average, etc. This would be good for the ladies in obvious ways, but in other unanticipated ways as well. I'm sure if I received only an average review I would be back visiting the provider to try for a better grade. It could give new meaning to the term "ass kisser". 😊
  5. "I have no stomash"?

    I saw the Russian YL without a "stomash" and, indeed, her English is poor but she said she is taking an English class. Her language skills reminded me of my experience with many of the Asian ladies I've seen--very broken English but enough to get through the activities without a problem. Conversation after the event is a struggle, so if it's important to you to have a conversation about movies and politics during your session, forget it. If you're there for mostly action, the language barrier isn't a problem. Thankfully, this YL does have a "stomash", just flat as in her pic.
  6. 411 Sarah Dai

    I saw her as well in late March with the usual set-up thru p411 and didn't have a problem.
  7. Backpage...

    Very clever and funny! I don't follow BP. I get it that the talent has changed on BP, but what would it mean that the menu has changed??
  8. There is just NO WAY

    Yes, I wasn't serious about doubting your ability to read or that she wasn't my type. Sorry you took me seriously.
  9. There is just NO WAY

    Can't you read?! The photos are 100% real and Yes the photos are her!! I'd see her but she's not my type. 😝
  10. Eh, nice metaphor, I just don't agree with it. To refer to periods of monogamy as the periods of "happiness" ignores the long-period of sexual boredom within the period of monogamy. And I don't agree with the time between the islands of monogamy as the "cold dark sea of disappointment". It's only disappointing if expectations are not met, such as the world of dating where the goal is to fall in love and have great sex forever with the person you love. If you don't find that special someone, you experience disappointment. In the hobby world, from my perspective as a client, I rarely experience disappointment, as the sex is almost always great and I'm only looking for this and some sense of friendship-level connection, which I usually find. While there is a time in one's life whencc monogamy feels right, over time I think for most guys who are biologically designed to inseminate "the herd", it becomes a goal unto itself that gets progressively more difficult to maintain. It's like running a marathon: you know sometime during the run your body wants you to stop but you continue on in hope of accomplishing the painful goal of finishing. Of course, doing this in a day and having it over and one with is one thing, running the "race for monogamy" over your adult life is unnaturally repressive for most males. I know I finally "hit the wall" before the race was over! I believe most long-term relationships for the more naturally promiscuous male suffer bfrom what I call the "tyranny of monogamy", the goal to finish the race with your monogamy remaining intact. This becomes a defining goal unto itself and we revel in our success to repress. You can be successful with this progressively difficult goal, but in whose interest is it when you finish your life having accomplished this goal? You have demonstrated your great self-control and if that brings great satisfaction, all is fine. For the majority of guys, and I suspect a fair number of women, exploring your sexual nature is liberating and is a laudable goal, just not laudable in our sexually repressive society.
  11. Junk Food Initmacy

    Great thread! You can get a BJ and a sandwich and enjoy it for what it is. When it comes to sex, unlike food, there has long been what has been called the "fallacy of discrimination". That is, we're only supposed to strive to have sex with our true love because sex in any other context is second-rate and therefore avoided. The food analogy would be that you can't enjoy a burger once you tasted filet mignon. That, of course, is ridiculous. We can enjoy both filet mignon and the burger for what they are and they can each be very satisfying. This reality is certainly reflected and made fun of in the signature quote I've used for a while.
  12. This would make an interesting poll as to how many guys started in the hobby because sex had dried up at home or wanted "strange". There is a third group, no doubt, of those where sex hadn't totally dried up at home but became less frequent and this was enough to make the guy search for more. For me, sex became less frequent and I wanted something different. As I said before, I was in a "same sex marriage": after 35 years of monogamy you can bet sex was always the same!
  13. The "more often" with this pill ain't a whole lot: the report I heard on the "pink pill" is that the women who took it had sex one more time a month than the women in the control group who took a placebo. The reason this pill hasn't been previously approved is for the simple reason that there isn't much "bang for this buck", especially recognizing some women will get adverse side effects from taking it.
  14. Expensive gifts or nothing?

    I'll tell you what, I'm just glad there is this ONE place where we can talk about this shit. That's why TOB is so valuable. You really can't talk about this hobby with ANYONE else, at least I can't. ^^Yes^^
  15. Recommendation to TOFFT

    Yes I have done it a couple of times. I was thinking: Pussy, pussy, pussy... What the fuck else??