Posted December 16, 2020 7 hours ago, Bit Banger said: @jaski111 One of the great advantages of the legitimate YL on TOB (and a few other sites) is the lack of games. We both know what we want. Big time. While the concept is interesting, I definitely do NOT have the time for such searching for diamonds in the rough. TOB is perfect. There are so many great ladies here, why do something different? /end white knight comment 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2020 Eff me I'm pissy at 2 AM working the other job! So I sincerely apologize for the tone of my post. Foot <<---out of--->>mouth I am genuinely happy for everyone that's found someone to connect with, regardless of the manner in which a compatriot was found. Happiness is elusive enough without me bitching away! :-) Well, have a good night all. Back to work for me, concurrently dreaming of packing in all the responsibility and living in a van, down by the river... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 17, 2020 14 hours ago, JessicaJonesing said: Back to work for me, concurrently dreaming of packing in all the responsibility and living in a van, down by the river... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2020 SB is fucking hilarious. I couldn't get more laughs out of it, if I tried. Depending on which person you talk to on there, especially women, I guess I look a lot like one of two different celebrities. What's funny is that if I get intoxicated, and I'm in a somber mood, I get one answer from women. If I'm happy and telling jokes, I get another. These two celebrities couldn't look further apart. Women don't pay attention to a damn thing about men. So I grab a pic of one of these celebs and post it to my profile. I'm drunk when I create my profile. Weeks go by. Months. Eventually, I can't figure out why I keep getting all this spam shit in my inbox. What the fuck is Secret Benefits? So I go to the site to write them and tell them to knock this shit off. Then I see the profile pic and a wave of revelation washes over me. LOL. I fucking die. I had to buy a knew keyboard. My desk got broken. I scroll down. And read my bio. I can't tell if the bio is a generic one drawn out by the website, or if I wrote it. I simply can't remember. If the web guys wrote it, I have to give them credit. Fucking hilarious. If I wrote it.... V, you're in the wrong profession. BIO: What Do You Have to Offer? Me. Myself. More of me. Then of course there’s more... me. What Are You Looking For? My left sock. I really want to stop getting spammed by 20 something gold diggers, so I changed the profile pic. An obscure, male, Norwegian, long, blonde-haired model who resembles Fabio. I also changed my caption. 'Looking for a Woman to Buy me Expensive Toys.' There. That oughta do it. Bye-bye spam. I hope. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2020 Dude, I have to say - you're the most fascinating person on this board. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2020 4 hours ago, Phil-anderer said: Dude, I have to say - you're the most fascinating person on this board. I am no one. I have nothing. I come from nowhere. but Thank you 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 27, 2020 I just recently ended an almost two year relationship with a sugar from SA. One of the first 10 gals I wrote so it was pretty painless. Engineering undergrad at CO School of Mines. Young, hot, stacked, kinky. It started transactionally but eventually emotions got involved. She started returning my allowance, would not take it. Which actually ended up costing me more I believe: new cell phone when she dropped hers in a lake paddle boarding. Deposit and first month's rent on Arvada apartment so she no longer had to share a room with roommate... plus the rental truck to move her. School books, tattoos, regular $200 dinners at Sushi Den, so many shopping trips, she never paid for gas in her car since we met, tickets to +/- 50 shows at Red Rocks of bands I have never heard of, new battery/brakes for her car, etc. etc. etc. We got too attached to each other and it was going to risk my marriage. Good girl; miss her and what we shared. I previously had a 4 year SB arrangement with a mid-30s married gal that was not getting any at home. She lived 45 minutes away so I rented a studio apt half way between our homes. We probably averaged meeting 4 times per week for a couple hours. She too stopped accepting $$ on the night stand. We travelled a lot togethe--Vegas, SF, Mexico, Costa Rica... Husband eventually got suspicious and had her followed. It got messy at the end, they are now divorced and she lost custody of the kids. It was fun while it lasted, but in hindsight not sure it was worth all it cost her IRL. Couple over the years that lasted 3-6 months then just ghosted. I have never one-and-done ppm game; I want the real sugar experience. So I would say SA has been good to me. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 27, 2020 35 minutes ago, Kinkster said: I just recently ended an almost two year relationship with a sugar from SA. One of the first 10 gals I wrote so it was pretty painless. Engineering undergrad at CO School of Mines. Young, hot, stacked, kinky. It started transactionally but eventually emotions got involved. She started returning my allowance, would not take it. Which actually ended up costing me more I believe: new cell phone when she dropped hers in a lake paddle boarding. Deposit and first month's rent on Arvada apartment so she no longer had to share a room with roommate... plus the rental truck to move her. School books, tattoos, regular $200 dinners at Sushi Den, so many shopping trips, she never paid for gas in her car since we met, tickets to +/- 50 shows at Red Rocks of bands I have never heard of, new battery/brakes for her car, etc. etc. etc. We got too attached to each other and it was going to risk my marriage. Good girl; miss her and what we shared. I previously had a 4 year SB arrangement with a mid-30s married gal that was not getting any at home. She lived 45 minutes away so I rented a studio apt half way between our homes. We probably averaged meeting 4 times per week for a couple hours. She too stopped accepting $$ on the night stand. We travelled a lot togethe--Vegas, SF, Mexico, Costa Rica... Husband eventually got suspicious and had her followed. It got messy at the end, they are now divorced and she lost custody of the kids. It was fun while it lasted, but in hindsight not sure it was worth all it cost her IRL. Couple over the years that lasted 3-6 months then just ghosted. I have never one-and-done ppm game; I want the real sugar experience. So I would say SA has been good to me. You are right about the cost. Still I would avg triple the time with them, for what a hour with a provider ran. A little more and they would stay the night. It was nice to have a meal or shop with them. Then have them return the favor like a girlfriend. The ppm girls were just working girls in sheep's lingerie. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 27, 2020 Fun Fact! I just joined SeekingArrangement after reading this post. Paid 3mos for premium. Used it for two weeks and was suspended permanently for soliciting. Too explicit in my messages I suppose. Yes - met a few gals online, definitely working ladies on this site and they're a bit pricey... Just my $0.02. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 29, 2020 I'm willing to help most anyone who is willing to help themselves. I have always ended up feeling like a tool sugardaddying though - if I'm robbing peter to pay paul, and a woman gets pissy about not getting assistance for some completely frivolous shit, I'm done. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 7, 2021 I have had very good experiences on Secret Benefits - three long term NSA relationships with young women that were GFE, fun, friendly, dating-type relationships and were much, much cheaper than a provider if you look it on a per hour spent basis, plus, texting, emailing, talking, emotional support, friendship, if you are into that sort of thing. I've also had several 2-3 hour liaisons that were pretty much the same as time spent with an escort, but included a meal or drinks, lasted longer, seemed to be very, very low volume, and wow, one of them was a competitive body-builder/fitness model, which, well, if you're into that sort of thing (I definitely was!). 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 10, 2021 Wow. "Nice shirt." "Thanks." "I'm joking. It sucks." "Word of advice. If you got shit for teeth don't smile." "God, it makes me feel like virgin just looking at you." "When I look around this dojo, I don't see Cobra Kai material. I see losers. I see nerds. I see a fat kid with a strange hat with his tits popping out. But my short time as a sensei, I've also seen some miracles." - Johnny Lawrence. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 3, 2021 I've been off and on SA for the last six years. I found SA one night after I realized the transactional nature of this lifestyle wasn't my primary speed. I've always had good luck with SA. I guess it's my vetting process and how I go about setting up a sugar relationship. Meeting of the minds before the body has given me great results. With Sugar relationships you get a more authentic experience, most sugar babies are into older men so they tend to enjoy the physical aspect as much as the men do. I have never felt like a John spending time with a SB. Now the bad, it takes a lot of effort to vet and find a reliable relationship. Lots of flakes and toe dippers make for a lot of time wasted trying to set up a meet. Another bad thing, since COVID the site is now littered with scammers and girls trying to push online relationships and that made it extremely frustrating and near impossible to navigate efficiently so I quit and came back to this lifestyle. No headaches and minimal flakage, the only downfall for me coming back to this lifestyle is the god damn CBJ... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2021 On 2/3/2021 at 9:20 AM, madapples said: I've been off and on SA for the last six years. I found SA one night after I realized the transactional nature The only downfall for me coming back to this lifestyle is the god damn CBJ... What’s a CBJ? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 6, 2021 On 2/4/2021 at 5:18 PM, BadBoy said: What’s a CBJ? I think that’s the opposite of a BBBJ, ie. covered. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 9, 2021 I was on SA and met a lot of cool girls online, but when the time came to meet all of them ghosted me or disappeared. Those who didn't used the COVID excuse and wanted me to buy sexting or pictures for very high prices. Then I got booted for using "escort language." So then I tried Secret Benefits. I have only had three girls out of like 100 who messaged me then reply to my reply. So I think there are a TON of fake accounts just to get your credits. I had two that got into long discussions but like SA ghosted me when it was time to meet up. I admit I want 27 or younger and hot so it is like chasing a unicorn. I am now trying to find the tinder profiles of cuties and see what they are open too. Especially if they give their IG name. But so far when the numbers come up they are crazy. $1200 was the most recent. She was a knockout but that is a lot of money to cum in 5 minutes. The first replier about the bareback, damn that would be incredible. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 On 2/4/2021 at 4:18 PM, BadBoy said: What’s a CBJ? I would think that with your vast experience, you know the answer to your question. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 16 hours ago, Marcadimus said: The first replier about the bareback, damn that would be incredible. If I remember correctly, this is a verbotten subject. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 1 hour ago, ilovewomen said: If I remember correctly, this is a verbotten subject. For sugar babies? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 2 hours ago, ilovewomen said: I would think that with your vast experience, you know the answer to your question. Actually, grasshopper, the point was, that in 15 years and hundreds of ladies, I’ve never experienced one. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 6 hours ago, BadBoy said: Actually, grasshopper, the point was, that in 15 years and hundreds of ladies, I’ve never experienced one. Really? I am surprised. My condolences. But then again, some guys don't want CBJ. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 7 hours ago, Marcadimus said: For sugar babies? It may not be verbotten, but BBFS is a subject that will create mass chaos. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 11, 2021 But with a beautiful young woman SB it would be fun. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2021 (edited) On 2/3/2021 at 9:20 AM, madapples said: No headaches and minimal flakage, the only downfall for me coming back to this lifestyle is the god damn CBJ... I don’t know if when you say ‘god damn CBJ’ you are referring to feeling like a John or if you are actually referring to CBJ. If you are referring to CBJ, then you may not be looking in the right places on tob Edited February 15, 2021 by Todoesprivado Typo -1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2021 For the most experienced guys with SA and SB , what’s the aprox expected monthly allowance to start a sugar daddy relationship? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2021 I know I'm a little late to the party, this thread made me give SB a try. First lady I messaged was legit; though so far is more interested in sending content than meeting in person. Content has matched her photos, clearly custom, and because I've found her real name has also matched that. However, we've gone a bit now and while she is up to send nightly nudes it doesn't seem to wanna progress from there. I enjoy it, but I've also had to tell her that we are within our last bit for remote content. If she doesn't want to meet, cool; but I can't help someone out off of just photos for the rest of my life. One of the things I appreciate about TOB and such is there is no fancy footwork. They are here to sell their time, not photos; so a lack of response means to move on. With a SB I feel like you circle back instead of finding a new partner 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2021 2 hours ago, Mandrewthe4th said: One of the things I appreciate about TOB and such is there is no fancy footwork. They are here to sell their time, not photos; so a lack of response means to move on. With a SB I feel like you circle back instead of finding a new partner I wholeheartedly agree 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 18, 2021 On 11/23/2020 at 0:43 PM, Igno said: I've tried several sugar daddy and other NSA-type sites with very little luck/success. I live in a very rural area, the nearest major city is 2 hours away. I am also older. If they contact you, it's a scam. I would assume that if I lived in a major metropolitan area there is more chance of success. But for me, driving a couple hours, booking a hotel, and having a no-show is a drag. With providers, and I mean women who advertise their services as opposed to, "I'm honest and looking for someone to spoil me" BS, you're more likely to get what you need/want. That's been my experience. I don’t think it’s always a scam if a potential sugar baby messages you. I don’t expect every guy to message me so sometimes I’ll start the conversation with some men. On 11/25/2020 at 11:36 AM, Maclovin said: I need to check that out. Zero providers in SW CO but we do have a college. Maybe??? I'd be down with a "mutually beneficial arrangement". On 11/14/2020 at 5:09 PM, diggitydawg said: Seeing if anyone here has had experience on one of the sugar sites. I've thought about giving it a try. Any advice? I think secret benefits is a great site to use for it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 19, 2021 On 11/14/2020 at 5:09 PM, diggitydawg said: Seeing if anyone here has had experience on one of the sugar sites. I've thought about giving it a try. Any advice? I hear it worked out great for that Gates guy in Florida. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
