Posted September 13, 2018 (edited) A question for the ladies: Does the way a man is dressed when you first invite them in influence the experience at bit? Suit and tie? Slacks and button down? Jeans with nice tucked shirt? Jeans and T-Shirt? Gym shorts and sleeveless shirt? Large belt buckle with horse on it? Is your first thought "This is going to be a long 30 minutes" or "Who cares what time it is - I lost my clock" or virtually no affect at all? This is all about first impressions. I understand many things later may affect the experience (too much bathroom Polo). And I assume there are some basics (I hope) already met: Recently showered, clean clothes, "minty fresh breath" (I read that somewhere), etc - you get the idea. Do you give a crap about the Bugatchi shirt or the Hanes V-neck? Note: I read an old thread on this but it was almost all guys answering and I don't care what you think Unless you're gay. Edited September 13, 2018 by ReadySetGoForIt grammer error 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 13, 2018 Honesty I always love when a man is nicely groomed and smells good. Be comfortable in what you want to wear especially If it is your day off work. I dont mind what your wearing because it is not going to be on for long. Hopefully it is a ease to remove. Buttons tend to fly off when I have difficulty.... 12 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 13, 2018 I always try to dress up a little bit. Like it’s a first date (which it is). 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 13, 2018 2 hours ago, Kandi Apple said: Honesty I always love when a man is nicely groomed and smells good. Be comfortable in what you want to wear especially If it is your day off work. I dont mind what your wearing because it is not going to be on for long. Hopefully it is a ease to remove. Buttons tend to fly off when I have difficulty.... I love every line of this answer... 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 13, 2018 So arriving at an appointment directly after working in the sewer is out ?? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 13, 2018 3 hours ago, JRWolfe said: So arriving at an appointment directly after working in the sewer is out ?? 🤢 geeezus. . Please no😂 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 13, 2018 6 hours ago, MeganMarie4u said: 🤢 geeezus. . Please no😂 Even if we wash our hands first??? With the good soap??? Picky Picky..... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 13, 2018 1 hour ago, BeenHereDoingThis said: Even if we wash our hands first??? With the good soap??? Picky Picky..... My soap smells like cologne.... still insufficient 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 13, 2018 8 hours ago, MeganMarie4u said: 🤢 geeezus. . Please no😂 You're just keeping the working man down... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 13, 2018 Sorry Norton, you're out of luck, of course you still have Trixie! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 14, 2018 And I always thought that Trixie was pretty hot - much too good for Ed. That's women for you. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 14, 2018 On 9/12/2018 at 7:31 PM, Kandi Apple said: Honesty I always love when a man is nicely groomed and smells good. Be comfortable in what you want to wear especially If it is your day off work. I dont mind what your wearing because it is not going to be on for long. Hopefully it is a ease to remove. Buttons tend to fly off when I have difficulty.... OK - It's only a day but I think this is as constructive feedback as I'm gonna get on this. I know what I'm wearing tomorrow. Thanks, Kandi! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 14, 2018 One of my favorite providers describes my stamdard. mode of attire (with a smile on her face) as "easy access". Tshirt....untied atheletic shorts or running pants...commando....unlaced running shoes or flip flops. My favorite attire for her is similar in function: short silk robe, nothing else. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 14, 2018 Keep it simple with a fig leaf. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 14, 2018 2 hours ago, Laci French said: Keep it simple with a fig leaf. I can just imagine the looks a guy will get walking through a hotel lobby with only a fig leaf on 😂😂 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 14, 2018 1 hour ago, ilovewomen said: I can just imagine the looks a guy will get walking through a hotel lobby with only a fig leaf on 😂😂 depends on the hotel. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 16, 2018 I think is a good question for the ladies , but I hope they don't mind shorts and sandals between April and October. Probably long pants the rest of the year. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 17, 2018 7 hours ago, Mike940370 said: I think is a good question for the ladies , but I hope they don't mind shorts and sandals between April and October. Probably long pants the rest of the year. That is defiantly Denver/CO normal dress! 😉 The Fig leaf look might be difficult if there’s a sudden breeze!😉😂🤣 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 19, 2018 (edited) On 9/12/2018 at 6:19 PM, ReadySetGoForIt said: A question for the ladies: Does the way a man is dressed when you first invite them in influence the experience at bit? Dress of a man during a visit doesn't bother me at all. Cleanliness yes, is a no brainer. But clothing, is irrelevant to me. I've had friends come directly from construction sites in dirty clothes. In the shower they go and into the skin outfit which is clean lol Edited September 19, 2018 by Nina Rox 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 22, 2018 And for the love of Pete, PLEASE pull your damn pants up. The baggy low hanging pants are a huge turn off. Just say NO to crack! 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 22, 2018 8 hours ago, CandiO said: And for the love of Pete, PLEASE pull your damn pants up. The baggy low hanging pants are a huge turn off. Just say NO to crack! 😆 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 23, 2018 Just be clean because you're outfit is coming off anyway Or may I tempt you with a hot shower? 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 23, 2018 For the client it can always be tough to change from what normal daily wear is. Sneaking away from work for a couple hours, it's not always possible to change. Getting out on a weekend to go to "Cabelas/Bass Pro for their fall fishing seminar" isn't a great excuse when wearing a nice suit. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 24, 2018 2 hours ago, FuriousWeasel said: For the client it can always be tough to change from what normal daily wear is. Sneaking away from work for a couple hours, it's not always possible to change. Getting out on a weekend to go to "Cabelas/Bass Pro for their fall fishing seminar" isn't a great excuse when wearing a nice suit. That’s hilarious, I was trying to figure out how to change out of the suit and back to work mode for my next adventure. 😎 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites