Posted October 17, 2017 In my recent searches I've found that a lot of women no longer offer incall, or they do, but push outcalls very strongly. If they do offer incalls its almost always at a hotel, or motel, very rarely an appartment or home anymore. I guess im wondering are more ladies just utilizing hotels, and motels for business purposes, and then living elsewhere, or are a lot of these ladies residing long term in the hotels? Im very skeptical of hotels/motels anymore. Too much going on, and to worry about! Fellas, how do you feel about incall, and having a provider you've possibly not met before over to your house? Any do's or dont's? The convenience of having someone over to my house is appealing, but then I start to see the possibility of all the things that can go south, and I chose to pass. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 17, 2017 On the few occasions I have hosted someone I've not met in person, I have had ongoing board conversations with the for several years. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 17, 2017 14 minutes ago, BadLeroyBrown said: In my recent searches I've found that a lot of women no longer offer incall, or they do, but push outcalls very strongly. If they do offer incalls its almost always at a hotel, or motel, very rarely an appartment or home anymore. I guess im wondering are more ladies just utilizing hotels, and motels for business purposes, and then living elsewhere, or are a lot of these ladies residing long term in the hotels? Im very skeptical of hotels/motels anymore. Too much going on, and to worry about! Fellas, how do you feel about incall, and having a provider you've possibly not met before over to your house? Any do's or dont's? The convenience of having someone over to my house is appealing, but then I start to see the possibility of all the things that can go south, and I chose to pass. Hope some of my reasons help.Why I only Cater To you. 1) If busted on Residential Incall, it becomes VERY hard for a lady to Rent again 2) Never Shit where You lay. Its 2017. There is NO telling if that "regular" may flip out in Many different ways. 3) I live in a culdesac , Kinda hard to be discrete 4) DND signs for hotels (Strictly followed) if Room is paid for days ahead of time, getting hurt and THAT sign on the door = Delayed help-Knowledge. 5) I Love being in Some one else's space. Seeing their atmosphere, Making them CONTINUOUSLY comfortable in their own dwelling. 6) Its easier for ME to leave on time then Asking Him to. 7) Maintaining Incall Cleanliness And Supplies during a slow season Stinks!! 8) Hotels have cameras, some audio. This is MY business Not the overlapping recorder 😎 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 17, 2017 I would never incall out of my residence for many reasons. The biggest reason for me is that work/personal boundary. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 18, 2017 12 hours ago, Bit Banger said: On the few occasions I have hosted someone I've not met in person, I have had ongoing board conversations with the for several years. Bit I can't agree more, most women I've actually seen I've been fans of for some time. I sit back and watch their ads and history for a while to get a decent feel for how they conduct business, and then I make moves. However, several years is quite some time. Id be afraid the lady might have retired by then. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 18, 2017 1 hour ago, BadLeroyBrown said: ... However, several years is quite some time. Id be afraid the lady might have retired by then. It's happened a few times. I'll be interested in a YL, but she moves on before I actually book a session. Less painful than having a favorite who suddenly disappears. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 18, 2017 I have an incall, and love that I have one. Gives me the comfort to decorate strictly to cater to my clients so that they feel comfortable walking in. I don't use my home for various reasons and it is very smart not to do so unless you are a single person that doesn't have to worry about the normal reasons us family types have to contend with. If you own the place, it is probably not wise just in case you do get outed and then you are stuck in one place. I will say that I will be moving to a new location once my lease is up as I don't like to get too comfortable to one place. Outcalls can be iffy sometimes, and I feel, a lot more dangerous. You are walking into their home and you really don't know what you are walking into. Cops rarely walk into your residence unless they get a call about strange things or disturbances, but they set up regular stings which make you more likely to get set up in one. Also, it is harder to bring necessary equipment for specific requests, you have to dress a certain way, and you have to drive to said location which wastes time and money that you could have had sitting in one place in a lesser time frame. I do know that all ladies have certain preferences, and these are mine. Every provider has their reasons for how they conduct their business and why they do things a certain way. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 18, 2017 It would be awesome if I had the funds to rent a second apartment just for incalls, but I'm not sure if I would be making enough in incalls to make more than the cost of rent, so there would be no point. I've done outcalls from day one, and while I love being a hostess, I've also had many stalkers in the past which makes me rather cautious of people and what they know about me. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2017 4 hours ago, Gemma Chang said: It would be awesome if I had the funds to rent a second apartment just for incalls, but I'm not sure if I would be making enough in incalls to make more than the cost of rent, so there would be no point. I've done outcalls from day one, and while I love being a hostess, I've also had many stalkers in the past which makes me rather cautious of people and what they know about me. I guess I wondered if that was an issue, guys getting clingy and then causing issues because of it. I guess that could just as easily happen at am incall as it could someones personal home. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2017 I love my studio. Have been to a few hotels with only other providers and in the past on my own. I used to do a few outcalls in the past and saw some incredible homes. However for me and my own comfort levels of need especial with my lack of vision? Yes I love my in call and keeping it tidy, well stocked, and comfortable is easy for me. Not my place.to say anything against or for. Because we all do our thing within the business. What makes me comfortable...might make another squirm. Hell that's just how life is.😀😀 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2017 I LOVE having a lady over and will book outcall MUCH more quickly than anything else. I live alone and do not care what any neighbors might see or think. For the most part, that has worked out well, with only a couple of hiccups. In one case, the lady showed up at 1:30 a.m....5 hours late, drunk, pregnant and demanding in. This was an unfortunate suprise as I had seen her a few time before...but people' change.One other time, a girl stole something. If hosting a girl you know very little about, I suggest not having small things of value laying about, just in case. If you host a girl you don't know much about who has a driver, don't give her the money to take to the car.....though I have never experienced a cash and dash, reading tells us thats how it happens. Just common sense. It's nice to relax at home with the home court ( bed) advantage and not have driving bracketing your fun time.Besides...you can make it into a fantasy....sexy pizza delivery girl. If she actually brings a pizza, you share that after ravaging. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2017 40 minutes ago, Admiral C said: In one case, the lady showed up at 1:30 a.m....5 hours late, drunk, pregnant and demanding in. Awwww, Hell No, Maury! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2017 55 minutes ago, Admiral C said: I LOVE having a lady over and will book outcall MUCH more quickly than anything else. I live alone and do not care what any neighbors might see or think. For the most part, that has worked out well, with only a couple of hiccups. In one case, the lady showed up at 1:30 a.m....5 hours late, drunk, pregnant and demanding in. This was an unfortunate suprise as I had seen her a few time before...but people' change.One other time, a girl stole something. If hosting a girl you know very little about, I suggest not having small things of value laying about, just in case. If you host a girl you don't know much about who has a driver, don't give her the money to take to the car.....though I have never experienced a cash and dash, reading tells us thats how it happens. Just common sense. It's nice to relax at home with the home court ( bed) advantage and not have driving bracketing your fun time.Besides...you can make it into a fantasy....sexy pizza delivery girl. If she actually brings a pizza, you share that after ravaging. "Oh hey, you're awfully cute for a pizza delivery driver... come on it... oh wait, that smells great... yeah lets eat first!" 20 minutes later "buuuurrrrrrrpppp" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2017 This is probably not going to fly well with the ladies, but I keep hearing 'thousands' of times that this is a/their business, and they run it as they seem fit. If they can't make a suitable incall (whether it's their personal residence, shared space, hotel etc), I think many are going to be behind the eight ball in being successful. I've only incalled once with a lady at MY hotel (out of state), but like Bit said, I was in communication with her for years. As for using my own residence ... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 20, 2017 I vastly prefer to host if I feel I can trust the lady, which is case by case determination. I hate hotels and apartment buildings and REALLY hate showing up on time only to be told "a couple more minutes" by the lady and be kept hanging out in the parking lot or on the street for half an hour with thumb up my ass and feeling like everyone there knows what I am doing there. If she is late coming to me, oh well, plenty of things to relax with and do while I wait. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 20, 2017 5 hours ago, Mackonit said: ^^ That ^^ is rofl. Lame until the last word. 👌👍 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 20, 2017 Yes I utilize hotel for my Incall and live elsewhere. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2017 I prefer 2 separate dwellings. Hotels can be sketchy for me, just because I feel like I am being watched. It's also a pain to transport drinks, extra linens, toiletries for guys etc. My favorite is a discrete place dedicated to the hobby. Everything is there, it is comfy, and lots of guys have told me that they appreciate the amenities, and tucked away atmosphere. Different things work for different people though. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2017 Simply my perspective: I don't care at all - hotel, home, incall, heck, even your office. The last 4-5 ladies I have visited have all worked out of their home, which seems like it would be kinda scary for them, but they all screen pretty carefully and said that they haven't had any problems. Fine with me, home sweet home. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
