Is age really just a number?

[Sweet Hannah]

I searched age and young in the search and nothing came up!!!

This is directed more towards the Providers, but I know this may apply to the guys as well.

Does age ever give you a reason to turn someone down, whether it's someone a lot younger like 21 or much older like 90?

[socutesocurvy]

I prefer 35 to 40. The 70's had some good models come out of the production line.

I searched age and young in the search and nothing came up!!!

This is directed more towards the Providers, but I know this may apply to the guys as well.

Does age ever give you a reason to turn someone down, whether it's someone a lot younger like 21 or much older like 90?

[decafnaetd]

Age is not a factor for me. I love a great pair of eyes. Eyes can be amazing at any age!

[Sweet Hannah]

Age is not a factor for me. I love a great pair of eyes. Eyes can be amazing at any age!

Noted.

[Guest]

For me, age is not ALL that important. Looks are though. BTW, I'll be 60 next month, so start your birthday present shopping now!

[parkercole]

in my experience age is reflection of experience, knowledge, and wisdom. most of my experiences with young ladies casually, dating, or pooning are usually lack luster on some level. just always seem to lack a good connection. but if your looking to just bone. well that's a different story........

[Sweet Hannah]

The younger the less experienced does seem to be true, I haven't been proven wrong yet.

[NaughtyNiceGuy]

Age only matters when the hooker lies about her age.

[Paul Pudenda]

Age usually brings experience and a sense of confidence/competence about what one is doing. Younger women, I've found, can be tentative and less than committed to providing a stellar experience. But as in all things, there are exceptions. I met a lady who was 19 when we met 7 years ago, and I still see her. However, she has gotten better with age - but perhaps that's a function of time and really getting to know each other's preferences.

As for the ladies' perspective, I do get a charge out of the ads that say "I love older men." Probably because we are less of a threat or a challenge, and tend to finish more quickly without pounding them silly for an entire hour. But age has little to do with the mindset that "I love sex, and I might as well get paid for it." Those ladies are true gems and provide the most memorable experiences, because they truly enjoy what they are doing.

[N6_in_the_village]

Just a reality check on preferred age groups of TOB reviewers:

49.4 % of reviews are for ages "legal ..." through "mid to late 20s"

80.5 % of reviews are for ages "legal ..." through "early to mid 30s"

(an objection could be made, however, that the ages claimed by escorts and believed by clients are younger than real ages, so in reality the 80.5 % probably represents ages up to early 40s)

[Boardmember]

In general, I find that I have better experiences with providers in their mid-30s or older. (I'm early 40s)

The reason is more about how I think they see me rather than how I see them -- and nothing against younger (20 something) ladies. One of my closest friends in the hobby is 26. And of the few folks I see regularly, a couple are 20 something & we seem to have very nice visits...so go figure

I imagine that the the chances of a enjoyable time seem to be greater with the aforementioned 30+ group than 20 somethings.....or they're just better a pretending.

Edited December 15, 2014 by MissingLink
typo, syntax

[BigBaldBlk]

Does age ever give you a reason to turn someone down, whether it's someone a lot younger like 21 or much older like 90?

Short answer -- YES

[snowmanmc]

My ATF is 5 years older then me and we have great sex.

[Guest century2ride]

AGE IS ALWAYS A NUMBER! But it depends how you divide it - add it - or subtract it from the person you are meeting with. It does get awkward when there is like 30 years difference! Also had a great time - but always felt weird when someone was 20 ... well you figure it out!

[Come Honor Face]

If age is just a number, why doesn't my cock reach for the sky at the mere sight of a nice pair of tits like when I was 18? For that matter, why is my hip sore after a 5 mile hike, and what are these grey hairs in my beard and on my temples? Age may be "just" a number, but numbers have value and meaning.

Edited December 18, 2014 by Kaduk
Referencing a time before adulthood...

[muckleskelpin]

I searched age and young in the search and nothing came up!!!

This is directed more towards the Providers, but I know this may apply to the guys as well.

Does age ever give you a reason to turn someone down, whether it's someone a lot younger like 21 or much older like 90?

And how about for providers?

[Jez UaBriain]

YES,I have many time apologetically turned down the young young guys. The 20- somethings. I am sorry to have to say this but Jez is not a teacher, or a mommy type. By the time you guys come to me- I hope you at least know how to pleasure a woman. I give back ten-fold in return. AND I was not raised to be a cradle-robber. Just saying.

[loudiesel-6428]

to me age doesn't matter it all depends in the providers personality and level of maturity , I'd the chance to meet very nice ASP's ladies in their 20's,30's and 40's..

[The Wise Old Owl]

I searched age and young in the search and nothing came up!!!

This is directed more towards the Providers, but I know this may apply to the guys as well.

Does age ever give you a reason to turn someone down, whether it's someone a lot younger like 21 or much older like 90?

Age is just a number, like Crown Royal is just a whiskey...

Balderdash!

Age has nothing to do with skills, personality and beauty.

As I get older, I try to see more mature ladies,

As the younger ones seem more like my granddaughters.

The more mature ladies have more compassion for us older guys,

While the younger ladies seem less patient with the geriatric set.

I'll take a beautiful, gracious, older woman any day,

Over a gorgeous, young girl with an attitude.

Just saying...you don't get to be my age without acquiring some knowledge.

The Wise Old Owl

There are Old Men,

And Bold Men,

But no Old, Bold Men

[HarleyQue]

Age is nothing but a number, honestly. Most of my friends are younger than me by 5+years, and all my female friends have had their gallbladder taken out or some other health issue or general issue...

I do prefer men older than me but where I say no, is when you are an asshole, barely can move,stinky or immobile all together. Age is not dependent on these things... So in short, lol, no age isn't an issue.

[Jez UaBriain]

Age usually brings experience -----

As for the ladies' perspective, I do get a charge out of the ads that say "I love older men." Probably because we are less of a threat or a challenge, and tend to finish more quickly without pounding them silly for an entire hour. But age has little to do with the mindset that "I love sex, and I might as well get paid for it." Those ladies are true gems and provide the most memorable experiences, because they truly enjoy what they are doing.

DITTO! Older guys have more experience in between the sheets. If I am going to get laid, I want a active participant that has a pretty damn good idea on how to pleasure a woman. It seems the younger guys have a tendency to pound away with out the finesse that maturity brings.

This is just a broad generalization, because I have also run into older guys who were-dead in bed also.

[Bit Banger]

It's topics like this which remind some YL that they are F-ing grandpa.

Some YL look at the scars on my body & pause. The more mature see them as life

I have had one YL refuse a 2nd visit because I reminded her too much of her father.

So, yes, age is more than just a number.

[fork]

Since I like the younger ladies a lot, this is something that I worry about... the day when they tell me I am too much on the grandpa side for a session to work.

So far I've only had a problem once, where a 20-something girl wanted a man at least 45 years old. I was too young for her!

Still, I'm trying to get in as much fucking as possible before the AARP mailings start to show up.

[Jerimiah]

I agree with Bit Banger. The signs of having made it this far may not be an attractive attribute, but it also shows that us older cats have made it this far and with that brings wisdom and humility (Hopefully). I prefer the more mature ladies as they have made the same journey, however sometimes young filly is worth the ride.

[Falstaff]

There's a reason that "older" and "wiser" fit together so nicely in so many sayings. As I reflect on my sexual behavior in my 20's, it's amazing I made it to my 50's. And there are darn few 20-something ladies with whom I can have a decent conversation (although every once in a while it's fun to try!). That's why I appreciate TOB; you can read a few posts and get a pretty good idea if a poster is an airhead, or is thoughtful and articulate. Give me thoughtful every time.

[inkspot]

Getting old would not be so bad if you did not get so darn ugly.

[Guest]

A friend was surprised with a 90 year-old at her door!

He introduced himself by saying:

"My dick works better than my knees!"

[muckleskelpin]

A friend was surprised with a 90 year-old at her door!

He introduced himself by saying:

"My dick works better than my knees!"

What I said was my back not my knees. 😁

[Sweet Hannah]

Since I like the younger ladies a lot, this is something that I worry about... the day when they tell me I am too much on the grandpa side for a session to work.

So far I've only had a problem once, where a 20-something girl wanted a man at least 45 years old. I was too young for her!

Still, I'm trying to get in as much fucking as possible before the AARP mailings start to show up.

I have met a few that made me feel like I was with a grandparent, I am too nice to turn them down, same with young guys. I would tell a young guy he had to go before I told an older gentleman to go, I know I'll have an O for sure with the older one. I was messaged by a man older than 80 and I didn't feel comfortable setting up an apt with him because of his age. So, I guess there is a limit

[Sweet Hannah]

Men and Women are like a box of assorted chocolates, you never know what you're going to get! (hopefully there is something you can read and get an idea)