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As someone who had a grandmother who was a Holocaust survivor, this topic is disgusting and the writer and anybody peddling this ignorant nonsense should be ashamed of themselves. If believing in science and wanting the world to be rid of deadly diseases makes you a "Nazi" these days, then I guess you can start calling me the Jewish Hitler.

Another reason not to get ink, you're releasing toxic contaminants into your body: https://phys.org/news/2017-09-nanoparticles-tattoos-circulate-body.html

Somewhere in Mississippi tonight, Hugh Freeze is vehemently disagreeing with your assessment on the allocation of who has what to lose in this situation. Plenty of stories of local johns being outed and having their lives ruined. If you give out your real full name or real phone number, you're a complete idiot and not thinking with the right head. As the Hugh Freeze story shows.

Whoa, good catch. Sweet Krissy certainly is smokin' hot. Doesn't do us any good with Amanda Love, though.

It's really good to have a clock around so that we know when our time is up and we need to get back to work...there may have even been a thread about this recently . An offer of a glass of wine is nice, although I'll probably only need a few sips. I'll decline a bottled water as I try to be environmentally conscious, but I might take a glass from the tap if I get worn out over the course of the hour. Any music is better than tv, and I'll agree with the consensus that it's much better if it's not too loud and distracting, just something in the background for mood. I definitely dig candles and soft lighting if those are options at an incall.

Screw Elvis, Chuck Berry was the real king of rock n roll.

Au contraire, you need to turn off Faux News for a minute and do some homework. Evidence shows that Mrs. Trump in fact came to the US a year before she now claims she did, and didn't have the proper visa to work, and was therefore an "illegal" committing an immigration crime. But she's a hot white chick, so she doesn't get tarred as a "criminal and rapist." Funny how that works.

Right, and Mrs Trump is probably an illegal immigrant, which goes to show the rampant hypocrisy of the Czar in Chief. Most of the "illegals" in this country are people like Melania, people who came here on travel or student or work visas and then just stayed around. Which shows that building a wall will do nothing but waste our taxpayer money and further divide us against each other. But it stokes the fear and hatred of a large segment of the more ignorant and ill-informed in our society, so it works for him. I didn't watch the Oscars, but I'm guessing that was closer to Mrs. Streep's point.

That's fine if you're using your real phone. I'd think most on here use a separate hobby phone, which will usually be of the cheap and disposable variety, and not come with timer/alarm functions.

My point is that having a time measuring device at the incall location tends to make things run smoother and better for both parties, and avoid potential hurt feelings and broke down communications. Ladies on these boards complain all the time about clients overstaying their time, and complain about clients not staying the full time, yet many fail to take such a basic and simple step that would avoid that negativity and lead to happier sessions for all.

Some people leave phone and wallet in the car to avoid robbery. And if you do bring it along, surely you don't keep it in your hand the entire time. So, as I said in the first post, interrupting whatever post-deed activities are happening like massages, cuddling, conversation, etc... by stopping to pick pants off the ground or a hung up jacket and dig through the pockets has to be super annoying for both parties. And I personally think constantly checking a phone in the presence of others is kind of rude. Maybe that's just me and social customs have moved on in this modern world.

For outcall sessions, sure. For in calls, the client has no control of the setting. If there's no clock, he's not going to know what time it is so he can't possibly know when the time is up. That's. My. Point.

Flowing out of the 45 minute session and staying too long discussion, I didn't want to hijack that so here we go. Let me just say that it can be a problem when there isn't a clock near the bed or in the room that the action takes place. Ladies, we DON'T have pinpoint accuracy when keeping time in our heads. Especially when there's nervousness and activities that result in adrenaline and heightened heart rates, measuring time can become difficult. Picking up pants/jackets off the ground and digging in pockets to check our phone for the time comes off as awkward, and borderline rude. No doubt that staying over the time you paid for is not cool. We could just pack up and leave as soon as the deed is done, but some providers will then go on the boards and rant about how rude it is when a client pays for an hour but only stays for 40 minutes or whatever, that they clearly only view the provider as a piece of meat and don't care to get to know them. Do you see that if there's no clearly viewable clock, we're getting put into a no win situation. Most of the time this is handled by subtle hints that time is up. But I have to imagine that most ladies hate having to give these hints, especially when the hints are missed and they have to come out and say "Time is up, leave now!" And further, science has shown that women are much better in general than men at understanding non-verbal communication and social cues, so there are going to be lots of times when guys, especially those new to the game, are going to have those hints fly right over their heads. I feel like all this could be mostly avoided by just having a $10 clock in the bedroom, but that seems to be the exception rather than the rule, and I don't quite get it.

Sorry about that, consider it a post for the visually impaired.

Big fan of the 45 minute time length. I even started a thread advocating for them last year (and got clowned on by the usual board bullies/alpha males...although I appreciate the few like Melissa Sterling and Bora I think that got what I was asking). I'm a 1 shot guy, I don't ever NEED a full hour. Especially for first meetings, where I have to determine if she's physically what I'm looking for, and figure out her personality and if we "click." If it's all good and I genuinely enjoy getting to know her and spending time with her and it seems reciprocal, I can do hour sessions later. But for the first meeting I'll do 45 minutes if it's offered. If it's not offered, I'll do 30 minutes instead. If neither 45 or 30 are offered, there probably won't be a first meeting. I don't see any rational reason why 45 minute sessions are any more subject to staying over the limit than other time allotments. Guys who book 30 will try to stay for 40 minutes, guys who book an hour are gonna try to stay for 70 minutes. The type of clients who try to stay long are gonna do that no matter what time measurement they book, and the good clients are gonna try to stay only for what they paid for no matter how long they booked. I also think some of the staying over problem is just ignorance of exactly what time it is, and not actively trying to take advantage and get more than they paid for. But that's drifting into a different discussion, maybe I'll start a new topic for that.