Posted December 11, 2014 For me some of the things: I know where alot of restrooms are in alot of hotels now. I now know where alot of hotels are. I know never to schedule an appt. in DTC around rush hour. I know half my contacts on my phone are providers numbers. I know when the best times are to schedule with a touring provider. What are some things you have learned. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2014 Things I have learned: How to activate a hobby phone using no personal information.How to get tested periodically for STDs discretely.Some ASPs experience deep loneliness and isolation. The ones that do respond to sincere gestures of kindness and respect with a joy and vigor that is rather surprising.Backpage is filled with gold, and fool's gold.I've gotten pretty good at guessing whether a "legit" CMT is really a UTR provider of additional services (testing each guess in a non-asshole, consensual way, of course). 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2014 Mostly I have learned that I am incredibly good looking the very best lover and I have a huge pecker. At least that's what the girls tell me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2014 What I saw on CSI Las Vegas was actually real, for example, the different fetishes like used panties, buying them and smelling them... sniffing them really gets a man off, I would have never believed until it actually happened, and it did. Such a turn on to see what my scent did to him. I learned that there isn't a "type" of guy or woman that participates in the hobby. You really can't judge a book by it's cover, and this has really opened my eyes to believing that. I have learned that it really does matter where you post your ad, it matters if you have reviews, it matters where you're located, it doesn't matter what size you are, everyone has a type, and you are someone's. I have learned that the more you see someone, the more you find yourself doing things you have never done before. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2014 I have learned: * The worst session of lovemaking with my wife is better than the best with a provider. Why? I guess it's that undeniable "into it" factor. She won't do it but once a month, but when she does, she really does. There's also that "love" factor (ridiculous, I know), but there is nothing like her purring in my ear, "I love you so much, baby," while we're in the heat of passion. * I have learned that these ladies are wonderful, and truly "angels of mercy" for providing the service they do. Just the thought of them, knowing they are out there, has saved my marriage. Without a doubt. * If something is important to you, you CAN afford it -- somehow. * FBSM is often just as good or better than FS. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2014 What are some things you have learned. Every woman is completely different, and a totally unique blend of likes, dislikes, turn-ons, gross-outs, and joys. Women in this industry, are no different than someone who works at any other job. They are all different, and unique. Most "civilian" people think the "hobby" is full of perverted, drug-using, crazy losers. Most hobbyists and escorts know that, mostly, we are just everyday people, like anyone else. We just do one thing that they don't do. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2014 ~ I know if a lady tells me to park in a certain hardware store on I-25& Arapahoe, I know my next question will be 'which building number' ~ I know there are two Hyatt's downtown and room numbers are different ~ That most people are into hobbying for the fun of it vs the loud mouth asshats that love to stir shit up ~ If you truly want to see someone, reach out to them and see them before they retire or move on. This works for ladies too! ~ The most important is if something doesn't feel right about an intro email or phone call, it's best to walk away! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2014 ... ~ If you truly want to see someone, reach out to them and see them before they retire or move on. This works for ladies too! ... There are two schools of thought about ladies reaching out to specific clients: 1) How indiscreet! 😡 2) How flattering 😎 The very few times it has happened to me, they have been discreet(PM) and I felt quite flattered. They were indeed good fits and have remained friends over the years. The take away from this is, "It's not always about the $s." 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2014 Every woman is completely different, and a totally unique blend of likes, dislikes, turn-ons, gross-outs, and joys. Women in this industry, are no different than someone who works at any other job. They are all different, and unique. Most "civilian" people think the "hobby" is full of perverted, drug-using, crazy losers. Most hobbyists and escorts know that, mostly, we are just everyday people, like anyone else. We just do one thing that they don't do. All of this and: I do not have a "type", I have seen ladies of varying size, ethnicity, hair color and age. The ones I tend to see again and again are the ones I click with beyond the sex. Personal Hygiene, respect, kindness and a quick wit go a long way. Patience is a virtue, better to take the time to read reviews and allow quality ladies to screen you to be comfortable seeing you than to go after the "quick hit" on BP. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2014 I've learned that escorting is much like any other profession. There are those that perform wonderfully every time and there are those that have given 1000 blowjobs (or tax returns or whatever) and still don't know how to do it right. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2014 I definately learned that if you got it in you.... it will definately show.... I also learned that if it's going to be a hobby treat it like a hobby not a lifestyle... hobbies are things you enjoy. Just some words of wisdom to keep us all successful in what we proclaim. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2014 I have learned some of the screening techniques used by the ladies to verify clients, and some of them are pretty impressive. I've had to modify some previously held opinions. I've learned that, just like the girls did in high school, providers belong to cliques. And you never know for sure which providers are in which clique. The most dangerous question for men used to be when the SO asked "Is my ass too fat?" Now, if in session, a provider innocently asks what you think of another provider: IT'S A TRAP! Best thing to do when asked this is fake a heart-attack. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2014 I have learned that it is just a small but accurate representation of life in general: There are snakes a plenty lurking in the grass but if you look hard enough there are some absolutely delightful creatures to be found as well. If all you want is a hard fucking there will always be someone at the ready, but you may have to bend over. If you want a memorable experience and worthwhile connection, that takes a little more work but is well worth the effort. Whoever said pictures don't lie knows nothing about geometry and camera angles. You can hide, clean or perfume a stinky ass, but a stinky mind is forever. Be they ceo's, nurses, secretaries or escorts all people, especially ladies, have feelings and needs. If you pay attention to both the rewards are outstanding! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2014 For me some of the things: I know where alot of restrooms are in alot of hotels now. I now know where alot of hotels are. I know never to schedule an appt. in DTC around rush hour. I know half my contacts on my phone are providers numbers. I know when the best times are to schedule with a touring provider. What are some things you have learned. As a client I have learned to wash my ass. as an escort I have learned I need to keep my day job. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 13, 2014 What many of the most expensive suites in Denver and DC look like. How to throw shade at passerby who throw shade at you for holding hands with a man twice your age (or more). How to argue with sex work exclusionary radical feminists. How to do my make up and hair passably well. That many men don't seem to notice or care how well done your make up or hair is. How to open and LLC and pay taxes as independent business owner. How to pose sexy for photos (believe me, I'm still learning this one). 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 13, 2014 Learned some ladies have a very strict verifying system, almost to the point of SS # and back account #. Not saying its bad, but passed of course. Learned alot of okays on 411 can sometimes be a bad thing. Learned as someone posted, this is supposed to be fun, I never try to be to serious. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 13, 2014 I have developed built-in Google Image Search. At a glance I can spot a fake or stolen photo. I have learned that I will never be married, because I can never go back to sex with civilians after all the amazing professionals I have had. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 13, 2014 1. Reviews are so very objective. I really cannot stress this enough to clients. I change my mind daily depending on the situation and the client 2. This is so much fun if you just go with the flow of it. Everyone has fantasies and this can be perfect for fulfilling them if you have an open mind 3. Love and real life have no place in hobbying. 4. Learn from others misadventures. The board is awesome for research in this 5. Remember that every person you meet actually is special. We all have lives away from this adventure. But we can make the most wonderful connections inside of this business. Never take that for granted 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 13, 2014 For me some of the things: I know where alot of restrooms are in alot of hotels now. I now know where alot of hotels are. I know never to schedule an appt. in DTC around rush hour. I know half my contacts on my phone are providers numbers. I know when the best times are to schedule with a touring provider. What are some things you have learned. I have learned that hell hath no fury like a BBW scorned. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 13, 2014 I have learned that the line from the Pulitzer prize winning novel, Lonesome Dove, is true: "Even whores have hearts." -- Augustus McCrae 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 13, 2014 I've learned that many hobbyist have really great dicks, fuck well, kiss well, and give awesome DATY! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 14, 2014 That I am most in my element when meeting someone and that I like variety. Have learned that this is a good fit for me as a social life as well. Didn't know how much men enjoyed daty before I learned that men enjoy daty. Didn't know that I had a dirty side before someone brought it out in me. Didn't know that I would make lifelong friends. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 14, 2014 "It's not personal. Sonny. It's strictly business." 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 14, 2014 Don't look a provider straight in the eye. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 14, 2014 Only believe half of what you read in reviews or ads. And then be sceptical of the half you believe. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 15, 2014 * Trust in your hoe- dar. It won't steer you wrong. * Ugly guys are usually better lovers then pretty guys. * Trolls are indeed a fact of life. * You can kiss it all you want, but it still won't wake it up. * I have realized that "Jez" has always been a part of the real me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 15, 2014 As a client I have learned to wash my ass. as an escort I have learned I need to keep my day job. I'm so proud of you Boink!!! I've learned that many hobbyist have really great dicks, fuck well, kiss well, and give awesome DATY! YES YES YES!!! *When going through TSA limit the amount of condoms you have in your purse. It just gets awkward when you have to throw away your lube. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 15, 2014 I have learned: ~To always confirm hours b4. ~How to login to p411 with one hand, on my mobile phone, while driving. ~That seeing a stack of fresh towels makes me happy. ~That Google Voice isn't a perfect product. ~That intimidation over stunning women is something you can permanently get over. ~When ur atf asks if you want to grab lunch after, u cancel your afternoon plans and go. ~Pierced nipples are better to look at then suck on. (Great thread geecue!) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2014 1. Reviews are so very objective. I really cannot stress this enough to clients. I change my mind daily depending on the situation and the client 2. This is so much fun if you just go with the flow of it. Everyone has fantasies and this can be perfect for fulfilling them if you have an open mind 3. Love and real life have no place in hobbying. 4. Learn from others misadventures. The board is awesome for research in this 5. Remember that every person you meet actually is special. We all have lives away from this adventure. But we can make the most wonderful connections inside of this business. Never take that for granted #5 is right on!😀 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 16, 2014 1) Smoking a cigar in your car with windows up will deaden any smell you can imagine. 2) 24 hour fitness locker rooms have soap, shampoo and full body dryers if you forgot your towel. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
