Posted January 31, 2014 I am curious, if a menu full of acronyms makes a difference in your deciding to see a young lady. Thanks in advance. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2014 I am curious, if a menu full of acronyms makes a difference in your deciding to see a young lady. Thanks in advance. Only if she makes good on the acronyms. For example, don't advertise PSE if you don't Greek. Don't advertise GFE if you don't kiss. And don't advertise BBBJ if you don't CIM, or CIM if you don't NQNS. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2014 Yep. This way, I know going in, what to expect and what not to expect, but of course, YMMV is always in effect, has been my experience. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2014 I am curious, if a menu full of acronyms makes a difference in your deciding to see a young lady. Thanks in advance. Yes. Defines boundaries and possibilities. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2014 Definitely makes a difference. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2014 While a menu is nice, I prefer to read reviews (those that list the adult services). I trust a known reviewer over an ad. I'll look at a menu, but never expect that everything is always available. So, a menu doesn't make a difference for me, except to rule someone out (no kissing, no AA men, upsell MSOG, etc.). 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2014 I say it doesn't matter; what if your not in the same mood as yesterday! Just as in reviews some get the girls on their best days then some happen to run into their drama days!We ALL HAVE THEM! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 1, 2014 Yes it is something that I consider. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 1, 2014 The menu gives a rough idea of what she will consider. With some activities it is important; such as Greek or BBBJ; things that it is obvious some guys care about. But for some of the positions and other items I wonder whether the women think about whether to check those boxes much. It is much more important to me what the reviews say about what happened. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 1, 2014 No. In addition to possible legal ramifications, I think menus can create expectations, that in some cases could be wildly unrealistic. They(menus) also create a checklist mentality that sucks all the mystery and fun out of a session. "For my X$'s, I'm going to get X, Y, and definitely Z!" Bullshit. Besides, every time I unleash The Emperor, the first thing I hear is "No way is that coming anywhere near my ass!":eek: 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 1, 2014 Big difference between UTF and TF, so that's a consideration. Then again, if it appears as if she has literally checked every box from gang bangs to water sports, I'm thinking that she may be TOO MUCH, at least for ol' vanilla me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 1, 2014 Menus help me determine if items I am looking for or are important to me are even a possibility. YMMV is always part of the experience also. So is having a bad day and many other variables. It's a good start for me to determine if I want to invvestigate further through reviews etc to determine if I want to book an appointment. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 1, 2014 If there are a lot of reviews for a girl that is just as good. Also a list of nos is useful. I like to kiss and I like UTF and DATY. It is a real mood killer to have a girl say no when you want those kinds of things. If you know ahead of time you just don't try those things. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 1, 2014 It helps, especially the P411 activities, but I usually ask what her boundaries are and try not to cross the line. Like Katie said, it depends on the mood and some boundaries might change. I've also experienced the animalistic tear the clothes off and go to town menu as soon as I walked in the door. I never had a chance to ask about a menu or boundaries...everything was wild and sweaty. What's that menu called?..."The Buffet?" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 1, 2014 For me it's not a make or break, but it does help me decide if the lady might be my type of lady. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 1, 2014 BBBJNQNS That's where things need to start. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 1, 2014 And don't advertise BBBJ if you don't CIM, or CIM if you don't NQNS. That's a silly rule. These are three different things on a spectrum, and I want to know (via advertising or reviews or whatever) what I can hope for. BBBJ does not imply CIM, which does not imply NQNS. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 2, 2014 That's a silly rule. Depends who you talk to. IMO, CIM is ruined if she spits. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 2, 2014 Depends who you talk to. IMO, CIM is ruined if she spits. I wasn't saying your preference is silly. I was saying it's silly to not have three different words (acronyms). BBBJ, CIM, and NQNS are three different things. So there are three different words. You want NQNS, so you should go for the providers who advertise that. Perhaps the point we can agree on is that providers who do NQNS should advertise that fact, instead of advertising BBBJ. Because yes, sometimes BBBJ does mean NQNS, but certainly not always (and not usually in my experience). Anyway, YMMV. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 2, 2014 Only if she makes good on the acronyms. For example, don't advertise PSE if you don't Greek. Don't advertise GFE if you don't kiss. And don't advertise BBBJ if you don't CIM, or CIM if you don't NQNS. You're applying your preference universally. I prefer BBBJ with a facial, or cum-on-tits. So, I don't look for CIM, or NQNS; and PSE doesn't require anal. Those are specific items YOU have to look for. I have to look for facial. This is why menus are not as valuable as reviews. Different people have different ideas about what "PSE", "Full Service", or "GFE" means (both girls and guys). If reviewers list the "adult activities" in every review, we, at least, know what is possible, always keeping in mind YMMV. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 2, 2014 If I don't see a menu in the ad, I look for a link to a web site. If there is no menu, Then the provider moves down a notch or two on my "to do" list. The same for the activities section at the bottom of a P411 profile. While I may not partake of the entire menu, it opens avenues for discussion/negotiation about activities, not price. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 2, 2014 sometimes BBBJ does mean NQNS, but certainly not always All horses are animals but not all animals are horses 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 2, 2014 You're applying your preference universally. I prefer BBBJ with a facial, or cum-on-tits. So, I don't look for CIM, or NQNS; and PSE doesn't require anal. Those are specific items YOU have to look for. I have to look for facial. This is why menus are not as valuable as reviews. Different people have different ideas about what "PSE", "Full Service", or "GFE" means (both girls and guys). If reviewers list the "adult activities" in every review, we, at least, know what is possible, always keeping in mind YMMV. Point conceded. Maybe I should have elaborated more. To me, the worst possible thing is to CIM and then watch her race to the sink to spit. IMO, don't even bother doing BBBJ if my cum is going to wind up in the drain. It can go anywhere (tits, face, hair, neck) but not in the sink. So, BBBJ doesn't necessarily equal CIM, but I stand by my assertion that CIM should equal NQNS, because spit equals negative review from me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 2, 2014 interesting take, 8r. i never thought about my relationship to the ejaculate before. i know it's great and everything if it goes somewhere. but for me, once i've had THAT feeling i don't really give a shit where it ultimately ends up. i guess i've spewed enough drain yogurt that it's not an issue anymore +1 and shoutout to 2big 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 2, 2014 It can go anywhere (tits, face, hair, neck) but not in the sink. How about the trash can? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 2, 2014 How about the trash can? LOL ok good one! Man, this is a rough place. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 2, 2014 If you need a list of acronyms you aren't doing it right. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 3, 2014 If you need a list of acronyms you aren't doing it right. Menus are nice, but I prefer to order ala carte... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 3, 2014 Gonna disagree on don't advertise CIM if you don't NQNS .... Make no mistake I prefer to swallow ... no cleanup. BUT I had an experience once where a guy's cum tasted funny so I HAD to spit (taste was unbearable) and when I did there were traces of something brown in it. I'm gonna guess something was wrong with his prostate. Aside from some guys having health issues they don't always disclose well if it tastes gross I won't subject myself to swallowing it. "If it tastes like shit I'm gonna spit". I do agree on offering PSE but not doing Greek is bull. Lol THEN AGAIN I've seen a few real porn star providers who didn't offer greek to clients. Only if she makes good on the acronyms. For example, don't advertise PSE if you don't Greek. Don't advertise GFE if you don't kiss. And don't advertise BBBJ if you don't CIM, or CIM if you don't NQNS. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2014 Gonna disagree on don't advertise CIM if you don't NQNS .... Make no mistake I prefer to swallow ... no cleanup. BUT I had an experience once where a guy's cum tasted funny so I HAD to spit (taste was unbearable) and when I did there were traces of something brown in it. I'm gonna guess something was wrong with his prostate. Aside from some guys having health issues they don't always disclose well if it tastes gross I won't subject myself to swallowing it. "If it tastes like shit I'm gonna spit". I do agree on offering PSE but not doing Greek is bull. Lol THEN AGAIN I've seen a few real porn star providers who didn't offer greek to clients. Ms. Mocha, that's a seriously good post with a rhyme and everything. Welcome to the board. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
