Posted April 13, 2023 Seems like that's what the majority of the 411s are for that site. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 13, 2023 It seems to be one of, if not the most popular site for the ladies... Not sure why. I like it's search feature, it lets me filter on exactly what I'm looking for and the results are formatted in a great way. It doesn't have reviews or forums, so they could improve in those areas. I prefer TOB for a lot of reasons, but it's Colorado primarily. 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 13, 2023 1 hour ago, Mr.Pink said: Seems like that's what the majority of the 411s are for that site. I would have to say NO, TRYST is not taking over. I see PROVIDERS on both sites and TOB is still THE KING. The majority of 411s you never hear the results LOL. One should ask themselves, WHY are they on TOB asking about women on TRYST? That should tell you a lot.............. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 13, 2023 Tryst is awesome in so many ways from my standpoint. The first 2 things I love about it, is they do not have a forum or reviews! Forums tend to get dominated by men, and many times can be emotionally draining for women. The constant complaints about how we choose to run our business is only one example. Tryst is run by a small group of sex workers, former sex workers, and sex worker friendly peeps. It is out of Australia. Tryst did so much to help sex workers in Australia during Covid. I was impressed! It works world wide. For a reasonable monthly fee, I can advertise upcoming tour dates anywhere. With that monthly fee, they also provide women with a URL that can serve as a woman's website. Soooo many women do not even want reviews. If a woman has reviews she can choose to put the links on her personal website. I choose not to. The majority of gentleman I meet, don't want to read about what I have done with other men BCD. As for 411s....Us ladies for the most part do not have references or reviews on our clients. We just need to do our homework by ourselves. We take one for the team all the time To the OP. TOB is good for Colorado advertising. Tryst is an extremely attractive advertising site, to sex workers globally. 22 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 13, 2023 Over the years I have become very comfortable with TOB and with the companions who post here. I like the fact that reviews are posted (although they lack TER level detail) and that descriptions include important details. My experiences with TOB companions have been overwhelmingly positive, occasionally spectacular. That said, I have on occasion used Tryst and EROS as a source for "something new." My unscientific observation is that most of the Tryst companions that fit the profile I like are visitors to Denver. Conclusion: I will continue to use Tryst as a resouce while leaning heavily on TOB for those occasions where I look outside of my small circle of regulars. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 13, 2023 3 hours ago, Caressa Duval said: Tryst is awesome in so many ways from my standpoint. The first 2 things I love about it, is they do not have a forum or reviews! Forums tend to get dominated by men, and many times can be emotionally draining for women. The constant complaints about how we choose to run our business is only one example. Tryst is run by a small group of sex workers, former sex workers, and sex worker friendly peeps. It is out of Australia. Tryst did so much to help sex workers in Australia during Covid. I was impressed! It works world wide. For a reasonable monthly fee, I can advertise upcoming tour dates anywhere. With that monthly fee, they also provide women with a URL that can serve as a woman's website. Soooo many women do not even want reviews. If a woman has reviews she can choose to put the links on her personal website. I choose not to. The majority of gentleman I meet, don't want to read about what I have done with other men BCD. As for 411s....Us ladies for the most part do not have references or reviews on our clients. We just need to do our homework by ourselves. We take one for the team all the time To the OP. TOB is good for Colorado advertising. Tryst is an extremely attractive advertising site, to sex workers globally. As always, Caressa knocks it out of the park! 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 13, 2023 7 hours ago, Caressa Duval said: Tryst is awesome in so many ways from my standpoint. The first 2 things I love about it, is they do not have a forum or reviews! Forums tend to get dominated by men, and many times can be emotionally draining for women. The constant complaints about how we choose to run our business is only one example. Tryst is run by a small group of sex workers, former sex workers, and sex worker friendly peeps. It is out of Australia. Tryst did so much to help sex workers in Australia during Covid. I was impressed! It works world wide. For a reasonable monthly fee, I can advertise upcoming tour dates anywhere. With that monthly fee, they also provide women with a URL that can serve as a woman's website. Soooo many women do not even want reviews. If a woman has reviews she can choose to put the links on her personal website. I choose not to. The majority of people the gentlemen I meet, don't want to read about what I have done with other men BCD. As for 411s....Us ladies for the most part do not have references or reviews on our clients. We just need to do our homework by ourselves. We take one for the team all the time To the OP. TOB is good for Colorado advertising. Tryst is an extremely attractive advertising site,for sex workers globally. TOoB has always been hod from me as a companion. I like the forum and the way it is being run for the most part. I also like Tryst too. I love that when I was hacked I had female employees that were very sympathetic to my needs for restoring my profile page with Tryst! I would enjoy to see more representation on TOB with a female moderator. Yes, possibly a former companion helping out here! I seriously think it would make the ladies feel more comfortable sharing information too and talking more publicly. I know Octavia was a moderator too for a while. Octavia is a friend of mine too. I am sure we could come up with some excellent names of ladies that would be really great at fulfilling that title too. Awww, I guess I am only dreaming lol!💕 I also love the blog stories on Tryst! Truly inspiring to read them. Everyone has their personal perspective! I just adore reading from others and learning their own stories on a global level of what it means to be an Escort! Call it what you wish. We are here to stay!🥰 globally too! 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 13, 2023 (edited) I would like to have a female moderator on here maybe a former companion (like Octavia) she is a personal friend of mine. I love both websites and I feel that both websites have very excellent business savory! I think the reviews on TOB are very tastefully done. Some are a little graphic, but nothing like TER for sure. When I was hacked back in August I loved the female moderators that reached out to me with great compassion! I was never made to feel like I was wasting their time or stupid! Same with TOB. I love the blogs on Tryst. I feel as though I am able to learn so much from the people who share from their own perspectives the stories on how they got into the business, you name it. May I suggest you read the blogs on Tryst. So much good on both Tryst and TOB websites from my perspective. Nobody is taking over anything-we need all our great supportive platforms for educating, advertising, as well as sharing with each other, and problem-solving. 🥰 Edited April 13, 2023 by Kali Sensual Reiki 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 14, 2023 On 4/12/2023 at 6:49 PM, Mr.Pink said: Seems like that's what the majority of the 411s are for that site. I like the optics on Tryst. TOB provider listings seem to be confined to a recurring handful of ladies - it would be great if more ASP's used the "hook" of photos to peak client's interest. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 14, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, lintlizard said: I like the optics on Tryst. TOB provider listings seem to be confined to a recurring handful of ladies - it would be great if more ASP's used the "hook" of photos to peak client's interest. The reason you are only seeing the same ladies, is that we stand the chance of getting kicked off of TOB if a new lady misbehaves or goes against the rules of this website. In other words, the Companions that are established are the ones who are responsible for adding new companions. Our names are on the line when we agree to ad new companions. It is an awesome responsibility! I thought for sure by now everyone would know about this. Personally, I have added 4 ladies and I feel that the ladies I added are fairly respectful. Not sure if I will be taking any more risks! I need to keep working and I am not wanting to lose my position here! Professional photos are costly too Edited April 14, 2023 by Kali Sensual Reiki 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15, 2023 (edited) I had no idea! So, you as an established provider get booted if someone you "refer" f-s up??? That's kinda f-ed up! Edited April 15, 2023 by lintlizard poor f-ing grammar 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15, 2023 1 hour ago, lintlizard said: I had no idea! So, you as an established provider get booted if someone you "refer" f-s up??? That's kinda f-ed up! 100% true @lintlizard! When I vouch for another companion yes ( I now have vouched for 4 ladies).What I am doing is putting my name on the line. I wish TOB would use another method of verifying ladies. It is really difficult for me to tell ladies I am sorry I don’t know you and I can’t vouch for you! I I have been offered money and other really nice stuff and still I will need to turn down offers. I feel that there are very few problems coming from any of the new ladies that have been added. However, ask any well-established lady this question,” will you be willing to vouch for another lady”? and you will get the same response I on't share, or at least something similar. Yes, I would hope that you now understand. Tob considers me established. I am a regular on the forum. I now have many reviews 71. I also have been consistly paying for ads for 7 years +. I started doing this bussness back in 2002 and stopped in 2012. Then I returned again in 2016 and have been here ever since. One of my recent reviews claim I am a regular fixture on here also!😳😂😂 I guess that is true too! 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15, 2023 No Tryst is not taking over TOB. Most of the ladies on Tryst aren’t on TOB so you get the guys looking at Tryst, not seeing any reviews for them, so they come here looking for info on a Tryst lady. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15, 2023 5 hours ago, ilovewomen said: No Tryst is not taking over TOB. Most of the ladies on Tryst aren’t on TOB so you get the guys looking at Tryst, not seeing any reviews for them, so they come here looking for info on a Tryst lady. They all have their advantages, but Tryst is taking over the search market by a long shot. Significantly more ladies are on Tryst than any other board and their search function and results layout obliterates the competition. What I think is happening, is people use Tryst to search for availabilities then turn to PD, P411, TOB and to a lesser degree TER, Twitter, and IG for additional research to confirm their choice. I agree that most of the ladies on Tryst are not also on TOB, I tend to think that mostly stems from the regional nature of TOB. On the other hand, it seems like the majority of the ladies on TOB are also on Tryst. 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 19, 2023 At least in my neck of the woods, Tryst is completely useless. Majority for ads aren't for providers, but for OnlyFans. Can't filter out "visiting" ladies that are also visiting several different cities on the same dates. Have identified several fake ads that were posted using pics stolen off a known porn star's website. Alerted Tryst management to this, the reply is always the same... "We could find no violation of..." Let's see, ads to join OnlyFans, ads for providers who can be in several different states at the same time, and ads using fake pictures... really not worth my time. If a useful Blog feature is on the site, it's well hidden. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 16, 2023 On 4/13/2023 at 9:59 AM, Caressa Duval said: Tryst is awesome in so many ways from my standpoint. The first 2 things I love about it, is they do not have a forum or reviews! Forums tend to get dominated by men, and many times can be emotionally draining for women. The constant complaints about how we choose to run our business is only one example. Tryst is run by a small group of sex workers, former sex workers, and sex worker friendly peeps. It is out of Australia. Tryst did so much to help sex workers in Australia during Covid. I was impressed! It works world wide. For a reasonable monthly fee, I can advertise upcoming tour dates anywhere. With that monthly fee, they also provide women with a URL that can serve as a woman's website. Soooo many women do not even want reviews. If a woman has reviews she can choose to put the links on her personal website. I choose not to. The majority of gentleman I meet, don't want to read about what I have done with other men BCD. As for 411s....Us ladies for the most part do not have references or reviews on our clients. We just need to do our homework by ourselves. We take one for the team all the time To the OP. TOB is good for Colorado advertising. Tryst is an extremely attractive advertising site, to sex workers globally. All this!!!!! 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 18, 2023 From my objective experience on Tryst and TOB on a recent week long trip to the Denver area: Tryst sourced dates showed 100% / TOB sourced dates showed 0. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 18, 2023 On 4/13/2023 at 9:06 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said: The reason you are only seeing the same ladies, is that we stand the chance of getting kicked off of TOB if a new lady misbehaves or goes against the rules of this website. In other words, the Companions that are established are the ones who are responsible for adding new companions. Our names are on the line when we agree to ad new companions. It is an awesome responsibility! I thought for sure by now everyone would know about this. Personally, I have added 4 ladies and I feel that the ladies I added are fairly respectful. Not sure if I will be taking any more risks! I need to keep working and I am not wanting to lose my position here! Professional photos are costly too That is an interesting system. It feels like it guarantees exclusively, but crushes inclusiveness. I guess that like most services, the market will sort it out. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 18, 2023 3 hours ago, Maclovin said: That is an interesting system. It feels like it guarantees exclusively, but crushes inclusiveness. I guess that like most services, the market will sort it out. I so wish there were more alternatives for new ladies can join. When your name is on the line? It certainly doesn’t make things feel very safe! 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 18, 2023 7 hours ago, Maclovin said: From my objective experience on Tryst and TOB on a recent week long trip to the Denver area: Tryst sourced dates showed 100% / TOB sourced dates showed 0. So are we going to see a REVIEW? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 18, 2023 8 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: I so wish there were more alternatives for new ladies can join. When your name is on the line? It certainly doesn’t make things feel very safe! From my end as a user, and as someone who has experience in the realm of data and tech (one of my companies sold to YAHOO), that is so unfair to you, and so limiting to users. You cannot be held responsible because someone flaked some time after you recommended them. Yes you are judged by the company that you keep. However people change. If there were a huge supply of inventory (providers) I could see that working as a business model. However our region doesn't have the population of say, Shanghai. As a user, TOB is analogous to a retail store (and I am only using this analogy to establish reference - absolutely no disrespect to any provider) with very limited inventory. In my case, I have tried to make appointments, or seen, everyone that I care to. The very few that I have had long term relationships with, and have booked for multiple hours, over multiple days, when I am in Denver, have moved on. Knowing how the system works now - and thanks for sharing - why would I use the product again if the barrier to entry for new providers (and consequences for those who recommend them) is so high? ? Like every product, like every service, like every association, TOB has to fight for relevance in the marketplace. If it doesn't provide that robust product positioning, the market will take care of it. I am finding that, as a user, a paid subscription to TER is a far better value than free TOB. As I have probably said in past posts, it is never not about cost, it is about value. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 18, 2023 5 hours ago, Savoir Faire said: So are we going to see a REVIEW? As I have said in previous posts... I can always make more money. I can't make more time. If a provider flakes on me they simply do not see any more of my time, so I simply would not take the time to review. Let me say that they are established providers, and at least one you have provided with a glowing review. The provider on Tryst... Total find. They don't want reviews. They are selective and very low volume. They are not on TOB. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 18, 2023 2 hours ago, Maclovin said: As I have said in previous posts... I can always make more money. I can't make more time. If a provider flakes on me they simply do not see any more of my time, so I simply would not take the time to review. Let me say that they are established providers, and at least one you have provided with a glowing review. The provider on Tryst... Total find. They don't want reviews. They are selective and very low volume. They are not on TOB. If the definition of "flakes on me" means a NCNS after date, time and location are confirmed, then your review acts as a service to all of us other clients, not to the provider. Also - there are many providers who post both on Tryst an TOB. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 19, 2023 17 hours ago, Maclovin said: As I have said in previous posts... I can always make more money. I can't make more time. If a provider flakes on me they simply do not see any more of my time, so I simply would not take the time to review. Let me say that they are established providers, and at least one you have provided with a glowing review. The provider on Tryst... Total find. They don't want reviews. They are selective and very low volume. They are not on TOB. Mac Love I get it and I understand how you roll. LOL @ they don't want reviews......................Shit I was trying to see if I had seen them before to be honest with you. I have a nice non public list as well that didn't want me to review them as well. Now you got me thinking about this SEXY FINE hottie that told me not to REVIEW her.....................I have no problem KEEPING SECRETS................ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 21, 2023 (edited) THE SKY IS FALLING! TRYST IS TAKING OVER!!!!! Come on Pink. Tryst is just another source for us guys to use. Lots of scared and lazy guys put out P411's on TOB hoping something sticks. I suppose I shouldn't be too critical. Just put in a little bit of effort and do some research. If not much to little comes out of it. It'll be an adventure if one moves forward. Not rocket science involved with the choices we make. I travel a lot and Tryst is a site that I use often when traveling. If a lady on Tryst has links to their website, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, and an OnlyFans account. I feel pretty safe with her being legit. I will interact with them on one of their social medias on some level before setting something up with them. I'm a big fan of OnlyFans. If I'm really interested, I will subscribe to their OF page. Most my meet ups have been good experiences. Chemistry is a whole other thing. Edited May 21, 2023 by parkercole 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 23, 2023 (edited) On 5/18/2023 at 1:17 PM, Maclovin said: As I have said in previous posts... I can always make more money. I can't make more time. If a provider flakes on me they simply do not see any more of my time, so I simply would not take the time to review. Let me say that they are established providers, and at least one you have provided with a glowing review. The provider on Tryst... Total find. They don't want reviews. They are selective and very low volume. They are not on TOB. Just one? Monsieur Faire stopped doing bad reviews shortly after finding himself reciting voulez-vous couchez avec moi - in his sleep! Or was it after learning most glowing reviews stroke the writer's egos AND ensure their continued ability to pay I mean, play? Surely limited in comparison, sometimes by their choice, others mine because 99 problems, my experiences have taught me to read between the lines of the endless, glowing reviews, ads, and such...bullshit. Edited May 23, 2023 by Hobby Hobbit 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 26, 2023 Being back I’m learning so much from these types of convos. Please keep them coming 👏🏾👏🏾 XxKae Marie 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 13, 2023 I find Tryst is better as a whole when traveling and touring. If you’re local to Colorado area then TOB is perfectly fine. But since I’m no longer a local I stick to Tryst for advertising even when in the CO area🙏 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 13, 2023 On 4/13/2023 at 8:59 AM, Caressa Duval said: Tryst is awesome in so many ways from my standpoint. The first 2 things I love about it, is they do not have a forum or reviews! Forums tend to get dominated by men, and many times can be emotionally draining for women. The constant complaints about how we choose to run our business is only one example. Tryst is run by a small group of sex workers, former sex workers, and sex worker friendly peeps. It is out of Australia. Tryst did so much to help sex workers in Australia during Covid. I was impressed! It works world wide. For a reasonable monthly fee, I can advertise upcoming tour dates anywhere. With that monthly fee, they also provide women with a URL that can serve as a woman's website. Soooo many women do not even want reviews. If a woman has reviews she can choose to put the links on her personal website. I choose not to. The majority of gentleman I meet, don't want to read about what I have done with other men BCD. As for 411s....Us ladies for the most part do not have references or reviews on our clients. We just need to do our homework by ourselves. We take one for the team all the time To the OP. TOB is good for Colorado advertising. Tryst is an extremely attractive advertising site, to sex workers globally. Kudos!!! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 14, 2023 CLARIFICATION ON NEW PROVIDERS- If a new provider has no or limited history, no or limited reviews we may ask them to obtain a Reference from an established TOB Provider. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
