Posted February 4, 2021 Just wondering, an old time friend told me her gal was blocked from joining TOB. If you tell a gal to join this website is it OK or is it closed? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2021 From what I understand, membership is not closed. However there is a system in place to ensure that a prospective member is who she says she is and as a result, prospective members have to be screened and vetted. Much like you need to pass a lady’s screening in order to be able to spend some time with her. And much like some guys who refuse to submit to a lady’s screening , I’m sure some prospective members refuse to submit to the screening and instead say that TOB blocks them or that membership is closed. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2021 From what I heard a big issue is that for a new lady to join they need 2 current LADIES (not any gentlemen) to vouch for them and if the new lady does anything wrong then the established ladies take a hit and possibly banned for something someone else did.... 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2021 it sounds very unfair if you ask me, and I dont blame any of the ladies for not wanting to take that risk. So in a sense you COULD say new membership for the ladies is being blocked in a degree due to that little detail and maybe not as extreme as using a blanket statement by someone else that they are "like some guys who refuse to go through screening". It might be a combination of a few things with that as a main issue if what I've heard from a few ladies is true. But I think you hear it once it could be questioned, twice a coincidence, but more people then that and it's more of a habit and more possible to be true... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2021 No need to speculate. Click the "join" button at upper right corner, select "female" and this is the message that comes up: "Sorry at this time we are no longer allowing new sign ups by female users." Certainly seems to limit the life expectancy of the site, but their site their rules, not up to me. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 8, 2021 First the clergy and now TOB. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 8, 2021 I’m sure over the years there have been a lot of scammers and fake pictures and fake accounts on TOB. Not to mention providers that have probably caused trouble on the forums and with the admins. That’s why TOB is now requiring 2 other providers to vouch for a new lady coming on. Fair or unfair, that’s their protocol and put into place for good reason. They’re doing their best to keep everyone safe and ensure the legitimacy of any new ladies joining. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 8, 2021 I don't understand why you made a post on this subject? Hopefully, they will make a public post now that the question has been made public. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 8, 2021 On 2/4/2021 at 3:51 PM, gr8owl said: No need to speculate. Click the "join" button at upper right corner, select "female" and this is the message that comes up: "Sorry at this time we are no longer allowing new sign ups by female users." Certainly seems to limit the life expectancy of the site, but their site their rules, not up to me. Its an interesting change. I have no idea how long this policy has been in effect. Does make me wonder if there were too many "iffy" folk wanting to join? Anyway, would never have thought there were be limits to who joins. I certainly appreciate when a spammer crawls in and is quickly booted. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 On 2/7/2021 at 11:28 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said: I don't understand why you made a post on this subject? Hopefully, they will make a public post now that the question has been made public. Because the rampant rumor is two references from existing provider members are required in order for a new lady to become a member. Yet the "join" button leads to a clear statement that NO new ladies are being accepted. This has been discussed before and the uncertainty and confusion in the published rules; and the owner/moderators remain silent on the subject. Ignoring a question does not make it go away. This is far from the first time the question has been publicly asked. Their board their rules, but it would be nice if they would share what the rules are. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 9 hours ago, gr8owl said: Because the rampant rumor is two references from existing provider members are required in order for a new lady to become a member. Yet the "join" button leads to a clear statement that NO new ladies are being accepted. This has been discussed before and the uncertainty and confusion in the published rules; and the owner/moderators remain silent on the subject. Ignoring a question does not make it go away. This is far from the first time the question has been publicly asked. Their board their rules, but it would be nice if they would share what the rules are. I will admit that clicking that button does state no new members at this time. As far as the owners not saying anything about this subject, I would think that in their opinion, they do not need to comment on that subject as the rules are stated. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 23 minutes ago, ilovewomen said: I will admit that clicking that button does state no new members at this time. As far as the owners not saying anything about this subject, I would think that in their opinion, they do not need to comment on that subject as the rules are stated. where? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 That explains why all the ladies have dozens and dozens of reviews and ladies with 1, 2 or a handful are as rare as hen's teeth. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 4 hours ago, gr8owl said: where? Well, there you go! We got an answer. It is their website and their rules. Sorry you are not seeing new companions added. Hopefully, the other websites are accepting new Companions? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 30 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: Well, there you go! We got an answer. It is their website and their rules. Sorry you are not seeing new companions added. Hopefully, the other websites are accepting new Companions? My asking "where?" as in where are the rules stated, is not an answer!! It is a question that is thus far without an answer. Not arguing the rules, trying to change them, simply asking what they are and where they are stated. And for everybody that claims to understand what the rules are, it should be easy to point me and others to them. To paraphrase a great commercial in years gone by "Where's the rules?" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 2 hours ago, gr8owl said: My asking "where?" as in where are the rules stated, is not an answer!! It is a question that is thus far without an answer. Not arguing the rules, trying to change them, simply asking what they are and where they are stated. And for everybody that claims to understand what the rules are, it should be easy to point me and others to them. To paraphrase a great commercial in years gone by "Where's the rules?" You are trying very hard to be obstinate. As you pointed out, when clicking the button, it says no new signups. That is the RULE. Can you understand this now? The owners/mods do not owe you an explanation as to why no new sign ups. SMH. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2021 48 minutes ago, ilovewomen said: You are trying very hard to be obstinate. As you pointed out, when clicking the button, it says no new signups. That is the RULE. Can you understand this now? The owners/mods do not owe you an explanation as to why no new sign ups. SMH. Can I understand? Yes, I am the one that posted what you repeated!! And both before and after I posted that, members chime in that it can be done but requires two provider references - so, can you understand? The owners/mods do not owe an explanation of WHY for the rules they enact - which I have stated repeatedly - but if they want to keep members they DO owe everyone a clear statement of the rules that govern the place. So while you got your undies in a bundle for no apparent reason, you tell me - what is the RULE? Or better yet, please don't because it needs answered officially, which does not include you. Why does it matter? Many reasons including that i used to encourage non-members that I saw and that were legit and good to join, become members. Now I have no idea how to do that or if it is futile. I am done with this. And the OP asked a very good question although by now I would guess he may be sorry he did. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 11, 2021 (edited) 2 hours ago, gr8owl said: what is the RULE? ... Why does it matter? Many reasons including that i used to encourage non-members that I saw and that were legit and good to join, become members. Now I have no idea how to do that. I've done this with ladies not on TOB for different reasons. 1. Just like some ladies trust this site, I too trust this site and it's verification process. 2. There are lots of other local women on other sites (namely Tryst) where they don't do reviews and I encourage them to join TOB so they can get reviewed, therefore making it better (safer) for both her and us fellas. It would be nice to know if new women can join (seems like they can't) and/or why they can't. We all have our favorite locals, but as mentioned in another forum ($0 vs. $150, I think) there is plenty of demand for services (that's us fellas!). So one more lovely lady on the site shouldn't hurt pockets... maybe some feelings though Edited February 11, 2021 by kitty_licker Spelling, and bolding 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 11, 2021 16 hours ago, Fritzie said: That explains why all the ladies have dozens and dozens of reviews and ladies with 1, 2 or a handful are as rare as hen's teeth. Can't comment any further other than this previous thread worth noting---> non-member-profile-question 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 12, 2021 It is a bummer, but not much to do about it. I have two lady friends out of state that have/do visit Denver. Them getting on TOB was/is impossible. One lady from Las Vegas has been in the adult film industry for a few years now. She has her own website. Is on Twitter. Is on Tryst. Is on Slixa. Is on Onlyfans. Is on Pornhub. Does a ton of footage with many other know media women. Can find her pretty much everywhere but TOB when she is in town. She was just here this past weekend. She does have enough guys that book her. So she does make it without TOB. But I'm quite certain it would be beneficial and rewarding if she had it as a source! I had tried to write a review of my experience with her once before. As I do longer 12 hour dates with her. But with my review I was told to kick rocks..... The other is a Portland gal. Same thing. On most media platforms as the Vegas lady. Known on TNA. She even knew two ladies here on TOB that once lived or do live in Portland that tried to vouch for her. She got the stiff arm from TOB and was denied. She didn't have the outcome as the Vegas lady. And chooses to be in cities where there is an opportunity for locals to be aware of her touring. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 12, 2021 Beating a dead horse here. -2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 16, 2021 On 2/11/2021 at 9:10 PM, parkercole said: It is a bummer, but not much to do about it. I have two lady friends out of state that have/do visit Denver. Them getting on TOB was/is impossible. One lady from Las Vegas has been in the adult film industry for a few years now. She has her own website. Is on Twitter. Is on Tryst. Is on Slixa. Is on Onlyfans. Is on Pornhub. Does a ton of footage with many other know media women. Can find her pretty much everywhere but TOB when she is in town. She was just here this past weekend. She does have enough guys that book her. So she does make it without TOB. But I'm quite certain it would be beneficial and rewarding if she had it as a source! I had tried to write a review of my experience with her once before. As I do longer 12 hour dates with her. But with my review I was told to kick rocks..... The other is a Portland gal. Same thing. On most media platforms as the Vegas lady. Known on TNA. She even knew two ladies here on TOB that once lived or do live in Portland that tried to vouch for her. She got the stiff arm from TOB and was denied. She didn't have the outcome as the Vegas lady. And chooses to be in cities where there is an opportunity for locals to be aware of her touring. I just had a text from a lady from Texas I had exchanged PMS with on P411. She has TOB profile with a positive review, as well as a website and positive reviews on other sites, but still has to get a provider reference and before she can post a listing. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 18, 2021 No wonder why no new talent around here. A lot of southern ladies used to visit and bring new talent here with them now all we have os all we have ... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 18, 2021 18 minutes ago, skinnydud said: No wonder why no new talent around here. A lot of southern ladies used to visit and bring new talent here with them now all we have os all we have ... I wish that TOB would allow new ladies. I like to see new faces around here. 9 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 18, 2021 1 hour ago, skinnydud said: No wonder why no new talent around here. A lot of southern ladies used to visit and bring new talent here with them now all we have os all we have ... If I see 1 provider from my Favotites (TOB Superstore shopping list) each month it will take me 6.5 years and about $32,000. I will be broke, smiling, and really old. 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 23, 2021 On 2/4/2021 at 6:10 AM, Womanlover-3464 said: Just wondering, an old time friend told me her gal was blocked from joining TOB. If you tell a gal to join this website is it OK or is it closed? I think it is ok because my friend is also joined recently and he did not get blocked.. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 23, 2021 2 hours ago, John335 said: I think it is ok because my friend is also joined recently and he did not get blocked.. Is he a lady ? A girl? I think we are talking about ladies unless i am wrong and we need new boys to just post once in 6 months ...🙄 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 2, 2021 On 2/24/2021 at 3:22 AM, skinnydud said: Is he a lady ? A girl? I think we are talking about ladies unless i am wrong and we need new boys to just post once in 6 months ...🙄 Surprisingly he is a ladyboy from Thailand 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 5, 2021 Just got an email from a gorgeous lady who I referred to tob saying tob is not accepting any new ladies ... I wonder why? Afraid of competition? Monopoly? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
