Posted October 8, 2020 Ladies, would you see a man who is or was in a relationship (married or whatever) to a good friend of yours? Gentlemen, would you visit a lady provider who is/was a good friend of your wife/girlfriend, or ex? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 8, 2020 Anything is possible. I think it all depends on the circumstances. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 8, 2020 Hmmmm if she were part of the action, and they are stable in the mind, I would. It’s not something I would do on the DL. In the end I have to be able to sleep at night. There are enough untrustworthy people in the world, and GENUINE friends are a blessing. I’m not the betrayal type. 8 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 8, 2020 (edited) I have, in the past, seen friends of my SO (who was a provider). Everyone was fine with it. As long as everyone knows what is happening, and no one has any concern, I think it's fine. I wouldn't betray a friend, or SO, if they requested I NOT see someone. Edited October 8, 2020 by pfunk 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 8, 2020 IMO, mixing RW life and HW life can be a recipe for disaster... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 9, 2020 If one is utterly ok and all is above board, then caveat emptor. My limited experience with these sorts of things is that boundaries are difficult to maintain despite the best of intentions. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 9, 2020 For me that would be a no 👎🏼 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 9, 2020 Nope. It wouldn't be fair to her to try and keep that from my wife, and even if my wife ok'd it our marriage couldn't survive it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 10, 2020 On 10/8/2020 at 9:07 AM, Prayforrain said: Ladies, would you see a man who is or was in a relationship (married or whatever) to a good friend of yours? Gentlemen, would you visit a lady provider who is/was a good friend of your wife/girlfriend, or ex? No. You make the most jaded posts. There are therapists out there to help you through your travels. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11, 2020 I think it would be incredibly tempting to do as a hobbyist, especially if you had a good vibe with the provider in real life as your wife's friend. She's not gonna go running to tell your wife she's a provider so I think it would all depend on what kind of friendship you had with her beforehand. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15, 2020 Only ninny’s get themselves in stupid situations... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15, 2020 16 minutes ago, Bootsce said: Only ninny’s get themselves in stupid situations... Some people are just asking for trouble 😂 This sounds soooo naughty 😈 When I see those whiny posts blaming the wife or SW for the bad decisions a client makes...this is how I imagine it all started. 🤣🤣🤣 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16, 2020 On 10/8/2020 at 8:07 PM, Prayforrain said: Ladies, would you see a man who is or was in a relationship (married or whatever) to a good friend of yours? Gentlemen, would you visit a lady provider who is/was a good friend of your wife/girlfriend, or ex? No I never would like to see a women like this 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16, 2020 Maybe a friend of ex. Never a friend of wife/GF. Too much risk, too much potential drama and damage. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
