FBSM or Tantric

[gb0138]

I’ve hobbied for 10 years or so but never have I experience  FBSM or Tantric. I’ve read reviews others have done but I’m not sure I get it. What am I missing? I’m open to new experiences, bar a few I won’t mention, but what is the allure? Whats to be expected? Let’s call me ignorant in this domain. That’s fair. 

[Strange_Ice]

2 minutes ago, gb0138 said:

I’ve hobbied for 10 years or so but never have I experience  FBSM or Tantric. I’ve read reviews others have done but I’m not sure I get it. What am I missing? I’m open to new experiences, bar a few I won’t mention, but what is the allure? Whats to be expected? Let’s call me ignorant in this domain. That’s fair. 

For me I like fbsm because if done right (and with the right lady) there is an allure to it that is relaxing but yet arousing at the same time... the only thing is, in my experience at least, you are rolling the dice of what kind of finish you recieve at the end of it. Of course if you do your research good enough you'll get the finish your looking for, but for me it's more about if the lady in question does a good job helping relax and relieve stress and the happy ending is secondary. As long as there is some form of a happy ending I'm happy, doesn't matter if its fs or not as long as it's not self service

[pfunk]

3 hours ago, gb0138 said:

I’ve hobbied for 10 years or so but never have I experience  FBSM or Tantric. I’ve read reviews others have done but I’m not sure I get it. What am I missing? I’m open to new experiences, bar a few I won’t mention, but what is the allure? Whats to be expected? Let’s call me ignorant in this domain. That’s fair. 

FBSM should be a full body sensual massage. If it's done well, it really is a great massage with a sensual handy at the end. Usually a lower price than a full service appointment.

Tantra can mean anything, in my limited experience. If you are interested in someone specific, check their reviews, and website.

Best of luck! 

[Bit Banger]

Just be wary when they get out the kitchen gloves and Crisco 😜

[hornyoldtoad]

i LOVE fbsm - and as said, if done right is an amazing experience - but you have to find a masseuse that will tick all your boxes - fbsm has a variety of interpretations that can culminate in just about every imaginable service here - so find a provider that meets your wants and needs.

tantra is he same - a little more spiritual and when right a whole lot more erotic - on the boards you have to do your research to make sure you can find someone who has had even a little tantric education - i have visited tantric temples in AZ and CA and both times the goddesses were spot on and and the experience left me VERY relieved and looking forward to next time...e

[hornyoldtoad]

14 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

Just be wary when they get out the kitchen gloves and Crisco 😜

especially when they 'say' they have male 'p-spot' training as they put on the gloves....

[Marilyn Desire]

So I am guessing with most FS appointments you just get right to it, but with FBSM there is a lot of sensuality involved and it builds up a lot of excitement, so when you do get to the end its very intense. You walk away almost "high" from the experience. If done right that is...

[tide32]

On 8/11/2020 at 8:30 PM, Bit Banger said:

Just be wary when they get out the kitchen gloves and the WD-40 😜

Fixed it!🤫

[Bit Banger]

5 hours ago, tide32 said:

Fixed it!🤫

O right, folks might not even know what Crisco is 🥴
 

Of course for Greeks, Windex 😜

 

 

 

 

Remember the father in “My Big Fat Greek Wedding”

Edited August 13, 2020 by Bit Banger

[sb1212]

8 hours ago, Marilyn Desire said:

So I am guessing with most FS appointments you just get right to it, but with FBSM there is a lot of sensuality involved and it builds up a lot of excitement, so when you do get to the end its very intense. You walk away almost "high" from the experience. If done right that is...

My typical 90.min FS appointment involves a lot of mutual build up, including FBSM, shower play and lots of other foreplay oriented activities. Eventually we "get to it", and the whole experience results in a very intense and, hopefully, mutually rewarding conclusion. Or two.   I have also enjoyed a few FBSM stand- alone experiences.  Have never had a Tantric session, so I cant intelligently compare. 

[ilovewomen]

3 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

O right, folks might not even know what Crisco is 🥴
 

Of course for Greeks, Windex 😜

 

 

 

 

Remember the father in “My Big Fat Greek Wedding”

I guess there might be a few youngun's who don't don't know what Crisco is, or lard for that matter.

They probably don't know the joy of eating eggs fried in bacon grease either.

[Bit Banger]

1 hour ago, ilovewomen said:

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They probably don't know the joy of eating eggs fried in bacon grease either.

With lacy edges 😁

[gb0138]

1 hour ago, ilovewomen said:

I guess there might be a few youngun's who don't don't know what Crisco is, or lard for that matter.

They probably don't know the joy of eating eggs fried in bacon grease either.

I used to be the king of bacon grease fried eggs. I had bacon and eggs down to a science..... until I went whole foods plant based 8 years ago. Lost 40 pounds and got my cholesterol down to 110 and within a month my inflamed joints quit aching. Helped with raising the flag too.  Tried to convince my brother in law to change his diet. Unfortunately he died from the widow maker just about 2 years ago. Damn shame. Totally preventable. You youngsters be smarter. My 2 cents. 

[geecue2]

On 8/11/2020 at 3:50 PM, gb0138 said:

I’ve hobbied for 10 years or so but never have I experience  FBSM or Tantric. I’ve read reviews others have done but I’m not sure I get it. What am I missing? I’m open to new experiences, bar a few I won’t mention, but what is the allure? Whats to be expected? Let’s call me ignorant in this domain. That’s fair. 

Have done both prefer FBSM. 

[tide32]

5 hours ago, ilovewomen said:

I guess there might be a few youngun's who don't don't know what Crisco is, or lard for that matter.

They probably don't know the joy of eating eggs fried in bacon grease either.

And forget about them knowing how to make gravy and biscuits.

😕

[ilovewomen]

2 hours ago, tide32 said:

And forget about them knowing how to make gravy and biscuits.

😕

They’re probably saying what are gravy and biscuits or saying gravy and biscuits..ewww.

[parkercole]

I tried Tantric once when I first started. I had no clue what it was? I'm not spiritual, nor religious. I was just really attracted to the lady. It was hard for me not to laugh during the appointment. As this lady started breathing heavy and chanting? So I came out knowing I'd never do that again.  

FBSM is exciting! And it's nice to have a break to relax and unwind! The best experience for me was with a gal who offered Nuru. HOLY CRAP! She was awesome, and her Nuru experience was awesome! As she use to put in the work with her slippery body. I was so sad when she moved!!!

[tide32]

2 hours ago, parkercole said:

I tried Tantric once when I first started. I had no clue what it was? I'm not spiritual, nor religious. I was just really attracted to the lady. It was hard for me not to laugh during the appointment. As this lady started breathing heavy and chanting? So I came out knowing I'd never do that again.  

FBSM is exciting! And it's nice to have a break to relax and unwind! The best experience for me was with a gal who offered Nuru. HOLY CRAP! She was awesome, and her Nuru experience was awesome! As she use to put in the work with her slippery body. I was so sad when she moved!!!

I thought moving would be the best part. Just laying there all slimy would suck! 🤨

[Winston_Smith]

hey i don't post much anymore but this tripped my post trigger...

I've never had a tantric experience...seems interesting but maybe not for me, others can way in on this. 

However, FBSM is something special when done right.   I see it as all about me being able to relax and receive.    The lady i see for  FBSM is my ATF without a doubt.   She provides an unbelievable experience...highly erotic and about as close as you can get to GFE without the VIP part. 

I enjoy the full GFE but with FBSM...it is really a different experience of just relaxing and receiving attention.     I guess it is just me as it takes the pressure off of performance with a partner so i can really just relax and be in the moment without worrying "am i doing it right and is she enjoying my attention"?

That's all i have to say about that...

[Bit Banger]

Years ago I had a tantric session with a YL I knew well.  Since I’m familiar with Eastern philosophies and had some yoga experience it was quite interesting.  Long slow buildup with a finish that was more mental than physical.

[ilovewomen]

10 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

Years ago I had a tantric session with a YL I knew well.  Since I’m familiar with Eastern philosophies and had some yoga experience it was quite interesting.  Long slow buildup with a finish that was more mental than physical.

From the few tantric experiences I've had, it is all about the mental and less about the physical. 

One lady I visited kept saying it was my choice to experience internal orgasms or external ejaculation, with the emphasis on internal all the while she had a grip on my and was massaging my prostate at the same time.

[gb0138]

16 minutes ago, ilovewomen said:

From the few tantric experiences I've had, it is all about the mental and less about the physical. 

One lady I visited kept saying it was my choice to experience internal orgasms or external ejaculation, with the emphasis on internal all the while she had a grip on my and was massaging my prostate at the same time.

It sounds like some thing a Catholic priest should enjoy. 

[Skg]

I’ve had many fbsm and tantra massages. Tantra is a bit more spiritual with breathing exercises, chakra balancing and happy ending. It might not be for everyone but fortunately I had two great teachers. Both would oil me down and body slide front and back and encourage you to have multiple orgasms with the help of their hand. 

As far as  FBSM,  I see a massage therapist once a month so FSBM can be disappointing. A massage and flip is not worth it for me personally. I need more. However, if the provider adds Nuru full body slides and nude herself then it is well with it. I think there should always be mutual touching of all body parts. No one has pulled out the glove, but that should be part of the experience. I have two FBSM providers that do it this way and would never hesitate to see them. Love letting me touch the kitty.

[Marilyn Desire]

On 8/14/2020 at 10:30 AM, Skg said:

I think there should always be mutual touching of all body parts.  Love letting me touch the kitty.

I'm sorry but this comment just rubs me the wrong way. FBSM providers are just that FBSM. You should absolutely NEVER expect that you can touch wherever you want on any provider whether she is FBSM, or escort. Some people are not comfortable with that and you should absolutely respect their boundaries. 

[Skg]

7 hours ago, Marilyn Desire said:

I'm sorry but this comment just rubs me the wrong way. FBSM providers are just that FBSM. You should absolutely NEVER expect that you can touch wherever you want on any provider whether she is FBSM, or escort. Some people are not comfortable with that and you should absolutely respect their boundaries. 

I absolutely agree. This was more or less a “fantasy “ statement. It’s all based on consensual agreements.

[sparkey600]

On 8/14/2020 at 7:46 AM, ilovewomen said:

From the few tantric experiences I've had, it is all about the mental and less about the physical. 

One lady I visited kept saying it was my choice to experience internal orgasms or external ejaculation, with the emphasis on internal all the while she had a grip on my and was massaging my prostate at the same time.

Jesus...did you get your money back?

REMINDER to ALL This is a PROVIDER to CLIENT site.

Mod's please correct me if i'm wrong but are we now going "Massage Envy" for the sake of political correctness?  

Please tell me I'm over reacting??

[sparkey600]

On 8/13/2020 at 8:45 PM, Bit Banger said:

Years ago I had a tantric session with a YL I knew well.  Since I’m familiar with Eastern philosophies and had some yoga experience it was quite interesting.  Long slow buildup with a finish that was more mental than physical.

Finish is the key word here.

Thanks for clarifying it 

[Alex Majors]

I had one fbsm girl who used to coat me and her up with coconut oil for the finish. A long slow stripper slide.

[pfunk]

7 hours ago, sparkey600 said:

Please tell me I'm over reacting??

You're over reacting. 

I've seen everything from cars, to books, discussed here. It's all good! 

[sparkey600]

16 hours ago, pfunk said:

You're over reacting. 

I've seen everything from cars, to books, discussed here. It's all good! 

Yep.

You are probably right. It's all good indeed!