The Provider Paradox

[lustybustygina]

On 5/9/2020 at 4:25 PM, Laci French said:

I'll suck your tongue😋

This will be a great read😂

 

I'm enjoying it and I suck a mean tongue 

[2Big]

On 9.5.2020 at 7:34 PM, Prayforrain said:

Another strange contradiction: Escorts are very independent-minded business owners who don’t want to get into relationships, yet they have a large number of male “friends” that like to “help them out” and care for them despite knowing they’re not going to get much or anything in return.  Is it the economics of multiple streams (no pun intended) of income?

Many hookers have boyfriends/husbands/pimps or some other assorted array of dead beats hanging around them. Sort of like strippers. You rarely see a stripper without an entourage of (male) losers surrounding her, trying to wiggle out sexual favors. Occasionally, these guys will provide some sort of support service: driving her to and from appointments, picking her up at the strip club, helping her move her shit when she gets evicted from her apartment for non-payment of rent or because her landlord found out that she was seeing clients out of her crib. One thing these guys usually don't have is money or a steady job. 

Many working girls actively try to recruit these men from their circles of Johns. When I was a more active whore monger, not a month would go by where I didn't get some kind of offer of an "extended relationship". But this was, is, and will be a no go area for me. 

In short, the idea that escorts are "independent-minded business owners" is a myth. 

[pfunk]

The trolls are working extra hard in this thread. Just look at the lengths of their posts!

Geez! Go throw a frisbee with your dog, or take a walk! Enjoy the sunshine! LOL! 

[Hunter VanDyke]

2 hours ago, 2Big said:

Many hookers have boyfriends/husbands/pimps or some other assorted array of dead beats hanging around them. Sort of like strippers. You rarely see a stripper without an entourage of (male) losers surrounding her, trying to wiggle out sexual favors. Occasionally, these guys will provide some sort of support service: driving her to and from appointments, picking her up at the strip club, helping her move her shit when she gets evicted from her apartment for non-payment of rent or because her landlord found out that she was seeing clients out of her crib. One thing these guys usually don't have is money or a steady job. 

Many working girls actively try to recruit these men from their circles of Johns. When I was a more active whore monger, not a month would go by where I didn't get some kind of offer of an "extended relationship". But this was, is, and will be a no go area for me. 

In short, the idea that escorts are "independent-minded business owners" is a myth. 

Actually everything you stated above is more of the myth. I have interectactions with a lot of providers, maybe 5%-10%  fit into this category. 

However I can see you swimming around in that 5-10% pool because you post craigslist ads in search of providers. So it could seem like most providers are this way to someone like you. 

If clients find themsleves only coming across ladies where this is a constant issue, try setting the bar a little higher. Join the other 90-95% and stop putting down providers and assigning us these dated stereotypes, and take responsibility for your own poor choices. 

[Vassago]

4 hours ago, pfunk said:

The trolls are working extra hard in this thread. Just look at the lengths of their posts!

Geez! Go throw a frisbee with your dog, or take a walk! Enjoy the sunshine! LOL! 

Some topics are just .... Girl Poops in Hot Tub.

[Kaduk]

On 5/9/2020 at 5:25 PM, Laci French said:

I'll suck your tongue😋

[Milos Vesely]

Wow, I post my opinions that are way more tame than a lot of the posts here.  And I get dinged.  #SomethingStinksHere.

[Laci French]

This thread really highlights our dysfunctional fam and it makes me laugh. 

Do we need to do group counseling?

[lustybustygina]

On 5/17/2020 at 11:26 AM, Hunter VanDyke said:

Actually everything you stated above is more of the myth. I have interectactions with a lot of providers, maybe 5%-10%  fit into this category. 

However I can see you swimming around in that 5-10% pool because you post craigslist ads in search of providers. So it could seem like most providers are this way to someone like you. 

If clients find themsleves only coming across ladies where this is a constant issue, try setting the bar a little higher. Join the other 90-95% and stop putting down providers and assigning us these dated stereotypes, and take responsibility for your own poor choices. 

Well said .... We are not all the same , 

[Bigguy]

The bottom line is that providers are just like anyone else. Some are smart and manage their money and their lives well while some don't. Why are there professional athletes and entertainers who have made millions who are broke? 

[Old_Timer]

2 hours ago, Bigguy said:

The bottom line is that providers are just like anyone else. Some are smart and manage their money and their lives well while some don't. Why are there professional athletes and entertainers who have made millions who are broke? 

Don't get me started. Sometimes, you just can't fix stupid.

But I believe that everyone deserves a chance, and that requires education to succeed. I can't blame the ignorant, and so many are these days. It is unfortunate that knowledge has gone out of style, but no one said that we have to be stylish. 

enjoy your summer, folks. Be kind to one another.

[JRWolfe]

On 5/10/2020 at 5:16 PM, Prayforrain said:

Why the heck should a sex worker get paid any more than any other unskilled job?

 

 

        What is with the attitude ?    Of course the ladies have skills. Good skills. Fun skills.Delicious skills.Its why we return.

[VirgilBliss]

On 5/17/2020 at 0:26 PM, Hunter VanDyke said:

Actually everything you stated above is more of the myth. I have interectactions with a lot of providers, maybe 5%-10%  fit into this category. 

 

False, the respective guy in that dynamic is called a "beta orbiter". 

[pfunk]

5 hours ago, virgilbliss said:

False, the respective guy in that dynamic is called a "beta orbiter". 

Wow! You actually think you understand relationships between men and women? Even less likely, men and escorts? Even less likely than that, escorts and regulars?

Bwahahahahahaha! 

[2Big]

20 hours ago, virgilbliss said:

False, the respective guy in that dynamic is called a "beta orbiter". 

Find the beta orbiter in this clip:

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1576104022

[VirgilBliss]

On 5/28/2020 at 9:38 AM, 2Big said:

Find the beta orbiter in this clip:

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1576104022

That was hilarious!!! That dude in the pattered white shorts was more interested than the chick! 

But I'll counter your link, with mine!:

When jizzin' is not a defense mechanism!

[Bit Banger]

2 hours ago, virgilbliss said:

That was hilarious!!! That dude in the pattered white shorts was more interested than the chick! 

But I'll counter your link, with mine!:

When jizzin' is not a defense mechanism!

I haven’t cum like that since they took the squirt bottle out of my hand 🥴

[Mike940370]

On 5/9/2020 at 11:34 AM, Prayforrain said:

Providers charge as much per hour as some lawyers and other highly paid professionals. And they seem pretty busy! So then why are so many providers so broke and always needing help with fixing cars, paying rent or house payments, medical costs, groceries, etc.? 
 

Another strange contradiction: Escorts are very independent-minded business owners who don’t want to get into relationships, yet they have a large number of male “friends” that like to “help them out” and care for them despite knowing they’re not going to get much or anything in return.  Is it the economics of multiple streams (no pun intended) of income?

You posted this just to entertain the choir boys?

Seems like posts like this is one of the only things that keeps this forum active.

But maybe they are not good money managers.

However none have asked me to fix their car , most just call an Uber