Posted September 8, 2018 So I don’t know where to share information on some un savory clients. Not just for TOB providers but for other girls as well? also don’t know how to on TOB either. any help would be great. Lady's and lady's only please PM me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 18, 2018 Ladies, message @Laci French 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 18, 2018 8 minutes ago, AmberLynn720 said: Ladies, message @Laci French 😂😂 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 18, 2018 Pm’s sent to both of you ladies. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2018 (edited) Hi Im not brand new..but I am still figuring all of this out... I guess im naive but I thought the term blacklist just ment I blocked u in my phone ..for whatever reason..ie..missed appointment..vulger language... Disrespectful..but theres an actual site I can go on? Can someone please fill me in...lol..but not really lol..😐 Edited October 19, 2018 by Lexxx 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2018 On 10/18/2018 at 8:39 AM, SabrinaLynn aka KatieCreme said: Why is it that the girls get to set a site to Blacklist gentleman but only get to choose and pick which ladies they want in that group that's not right or professional!?? I am literally biting my tongue and the mother fucker is bleeding. 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2018 (edited) Are we really about to go this on the forum? anybody....I repeat ANYBODY can make a group....invite people.....remove people....like people.....hate people.... at the end of the day EVERYBODY has/had a problem with somebody. All I'm gonna say is.... the people who were initially invited.....and later removed.... FROM ANY GROUP Were removed for a reason. Edited October 19, 2018 by MeganMarie4u 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2018 For instance if one provider owes other providers money...PAY IT BACK. Why in the world this is getting aired in public is beyond me. Do better. Be better. 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2018 This is the exact same drama as the last post about provider drama that was shut down. Exactly the same issue. Nothing is going to change about this situation. Everyone feels the same way. Posting about it does nothing, but furthur piss people off and alienate yourself more. We tried to work it out between the ladies, and no one has budged on any side. You've been so fortunate many times to even be on this site. I have no idea why you are willing to jeapordize that yet again. It's a privilege to be on TOB. I hope this one gets shut down too. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2018 2 hours ago, Lexxx said: Hi Im not brand new..but I am still figuring all of this out... I guess im naive but I thought the term blacklist just ment I blocked u in my phone ..for whatever reason..ie..missed appointment..vulger language... Disrespectful..but theres an actual site I can go on? Can someone please fill me in...lol..but not really lol..😐 Feel free to PM me. I'll give you any info I have that can help. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2018 Be careful out there just had a very weird situation happen at an apt complex in Aurora. Dodged a bullet. Screen carefully if you do not require refrences from TOB 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2018 2 hours ago, Lexxx said: Hi Im not brand new..but I am still figuring all of this out... I guess im naive but I thought the term blacklist just ment I blocked u in my phone ..for whatever reason..ie..missed appointment..vulger language... Disrespectful..but theres an actual site I can go on? Can someone please fill me in...lol..but not really lol..😐 There are - or used to be - several websites that allow ladies to post information about ripoffs, thieves, violent asshats, etc. Some refer in name to "blacklist". Some are for just escorting, some are open to any dating situation. Usually they claim at least to require membership to see the posts, etc. My understanding is that some are total trash and some are fairly useful. If you are a member (usually "requires" you are a lady and provide working "handle") you can search for phone number, handle, etc. It would be best if other ladies told you via pm what sites if any are worth the effort, correct anything I stated wrong, etc. I just know they exist. In addition there are informal groups of ladies here and on other boards that share information back channel with trusted (especially lady) members. Guys have such info exchange groups as well. My concern with the informal groups is total anonymity opens door to revenge bullshit and no knowledge or control over where the info goes from there - who safe guards from hacking, etc. especially the ones that set up specific sites. All just IMHO. Be safe all. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2018 I been needing to report guys. I travel to Denver 2-3 times a month. Just didn't see nowhere on here to do it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2018 1 hour ago, E.J.England said: I been needing to report guys. I travel to Denver 2-3 times a month. Just didn't see nowhere on here to do it. Send a PM to Frwncesca, me or Laci from this thread. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2018 (edited) 4 hours ago, gr8owl said: ... My concern with the informal groups is total anonymity opens door to revenge bullshit and no knowledge or control over where the info goes from there - who safe guards from hacking, etc. especially the ones that set up specific sites. All just IMHO. Be safe all. I concur! There were moderated “blacklist” sites, with rules similar to moderated review sites. This helped reduce the BSC reports. Edited October 19, 2018 by Bit Banger 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 20, 2018 Ive been a member since forever and i dont even know what ya all are talking aboutl? Lol there are sites out there to put comments on. Im sure just sending a pm and asking where to go , to anyone will get you where you need to be. No need to feel left out just be pro active. Be safe girls👍 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 20, 2018 (edited) ^^^^ Girl really?!? 😂😂😂😂 Stop 😂😂😂 VH sure got workout 😂😂 Edited October 20, 2018 by Hailey Of Denver 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 22, 2018 On 10/19/2018 at 0:23 PM, gr8owl said: Guys have such info exchange groups as well. My concern with the informal groups is total anonymity opens door to revenge bullshit and no knowledge or control over where the info goes from there. I don't know if it's the same in your mens group, but alot of us providers know how to weed through the weird, or revenge posts on blacklists, and do our own due diligence, and make our own decisions whether we think the guy is safe, and we'll be a good fit with him or not. I hope you guys do the same. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 22, 2018 9 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said: I don't know if it's the same in your mens group, but alot of us providers know how to weed through the weird, or revenge posts on blacklists, and do our own due diligence, and make our own decisions whether we think the guy is safe, and we'll be a good fit with him or not. I hope you guys do the same. I am not in any group or clique. Just know they exist. I do exchange info individually on occasion with a handful of trusted members, but no group. I would definitely say most experienced members can see through most bullshit - exceptions of course. 😎 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 22, 2018 Im having a bad issue with a guy right now asking about animal stuff its so gross and i went off hes now talking crazy threatnin me he dosnt speak english good but its hard to do anything to protect myself from a bad review threat hes gross 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 23, 2018 I prefer national blacklist sites as opposed to a local one. The more women who know about it and are using it the more successful it will be. I don’t use VH or this local site some of y’all are referring to but if you’re interested in a useful national blacklist site please pm me and I’ll send you that way. I am loving it for all of its useful information about hotels, photographers, clients, etc. it is truly a safe place for us women. It holds no space for excluding people you “just don’t like” so perhaps it’s not for everyone 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 27, 2018 Now I'm I being blacklisted ???? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2018 17 hours ago, Rolf said: Now I'm I being blacklisted ???? This is your first post? Why would you want to draw this type of attention to yourself? 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2018 Just now, Laci French said: This is your first post? Why would you want to draw this type of attention to yourself? At least hes weeding himself out early 😂😂😂 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2018 I was just asking even though I don't ever want to be from anyone on her I've only be on this site for 3 to 4 months and I've never had to have ref,s to see someone at all I'm from the old school from backpage So do you see where I'm coming from and I don't want to be a target thanks for asking why I did it 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2018 20 hours ago, Rolf said: Now I'm I being blacklisted ???? If the shoe fits 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2018 Hey I was just asking a question no harm no fowl so I'm ok with it and if it's bugging people it's no big deal with me at least I know we're I stand thanks 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2018 21 hours ago, Rolf said: Now I'm I being blacklisted ???? How would he know that? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2018 44 minutes ago, LightningP said: How would he know that? I would suppose he recognized one of the ladies he has spoken too, or recognized something that he has discussed, or has threatened bad reviews on one of the ladies that are inquiring about the black list. 1 hour ago, ilovewomen said: If the shoe fits I agree. Be a gentleman and treat the ladies like the ladies that they are, and you don't have anything to worry about. Act like a douche, asshat, or fucktard and risk being put on the blacklist. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 28, 2018 Hi which I agree 100% I have nevered act like an asshole I want just want to start good friendships and take it from there but I've haven't been on here a long time but you know who's friendly and who's not that's all I'm saying 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites