How often do you see your ATF?

[Guest]

• 1 to 2 times a week
  
• 2 to 3 times a month
  
• Once a month
  
• Every other month
  
• Every 3 month
  
• Every 6 month
  
• Once a year
  

[dj278]

I was close to paying off my house and then she appeared a couple months ago. Saw her 6 times within a 2 week period. When she told me she was returning for 12 days I immediately made 5 appointments (3 down 2 to go now). Got a serious problem developing here!

[MAG]

I was close to paying off my house and then she appeared a couple months ago. Saw her 6 times within a 2 week period. When she told me she was returning for 12 days I immediately made 5 appointments (3 down 2 to go now). Got a serious problem developing here!

I think your problem has fully developed

[dj278]

I think your problem has fully developed

Agreed. Woe is me.

[geecue2]

Have seen some ATFs up to twice a week. At one time used to have a weekday ATF and a weekend ATF.

[Bit Banger]

It has long been my practice to see favorites 1-2 times/year, year after year. (Keep in mind that I tended to see escorts monthly.) I used this practice to avoid crossing boundaries.

Since I have started hiring travelling companions, those boundaries have become more flexible. Some of these ladies have become true friends, while retaining a business relationship. We recognize that there are still boundaries; they're just different.

Edited May 26, 2015 by Bit Banger
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[Archetype]

Once a month, usually. More often when I get the itch, or I get a little windfall from work....or if she emails me with a particularly exciting proposition.

[Guest]

• 1 to 2 times a week
  
• 2 to 3 times a month
  
• Once a month
  
• Every other month
  
• Every 3 month
  
• Every 6 month
  
• Once a year
  

I usually see my ATF at least twice a month, sometimes more, depending on my workload at the salt mine and the cashflow in my hobby account.

[Ghost_Rider]

Once a month but usually more often if she emails me about a particularly exciting position. .

OK, I fixed it for you

[mj76]

I don't have an ATF at the moment but when I did I saw her once a month. Looking for a new ATF now and not having much success but it's fun looking.

[crazyb]

I wish I could see her more often, The problem is not lack of funds on my end, it more a lack of having help to cover me when I am out of the shop.

I have two guys that tell me its time for me to go see some one because they are sick of me being crabby with them.

[inkspot]

I saw mine once every 1-2 weeks for years. I have not had an ATF in a while.

[pfunk]

• 1 to 2 times a week
  
• 2 to 3 times a month
  
• Once a month
  
• Every other month
  
• Every 3 month
  
• Every 6 month
  
• Once a year
  

Well, it's not one of the choices, but...everyday!

[2Big]

Years ago, I used to have a favorite. When she came to town, I saw her three times a day.

[pitbull]

Once a month for FBSM, but that has been limited by the ebbs and flows of my business. Have not seen an FS lady for at least a year.

[Guest]

• 1 to 2 times a week
  
• 2 to 3 times a month
  
• Once a month
  
• Every other month
  
• Every 3 month
  
• Every 6 month
  
• Once a year
  

I haven't seen the ATFing-love-of-my-life in a long while because of an expensive "habit" that she had. She was a wonderful lady in many, many ways. I just had to stop seeing her because it was breaking my heart to she her self-destruct. She is now living in squalor. She keeps telling me she'll quit but...

Not to hijack this thread, but has this happened to many others out there? Maybe a topic for another poll.

[Guest]

Well, it's not one of the choices, but...everyday!

This is so sweet, I'm slipping into a diabetic coma.

I see one ATF once a month, and the other two quarterly. It's hard to choose sometimes. They're all so wonderful.

[Guest]

Well, it's not one of the choices, but...everyday!

I was thinking about saying this.

No kidding, every encounter I've had with a provider has been amazing. But every time, I seem to get closer to thinking "It's not that much better than I'm getting at home." I started this because I wasn't getting anything at home. I'm really happy that's changed. This will be a thing I do for a year or two, then it will become a very "once in a while" treat. There's no putting this genie back in the bottle. You show a guy how to sleep with a bunch of hot women in relative safety, and that's a thing he's gonna do. And somehow, doing this helped me find the path to domestic tranquility. No way it's just a coincidence. I'm unspeakably happy that I learned how to do this, and I thank everyone here who showed me the way.

Damn I love women. All kinds of women. All shapes, descriptions, and sizes. But I sure do have a great one here at home. One of these days I'll realize how good I have it. Just hope that day comes before I do something stupid.

I've noticed a change in my thinking. I'm getting older, like a lot of you. It used to make me frustrated when I saw a really beautiful woman. I was angry that there was no way I'd ever experience that. This morning I saw an exceptionally beautiful woman at a coffee shop. Early 20s, African American, incredible, model like features. Very petite. I tried very hard not to get caught leering at her. Incredible body. Cute dimples, surrounding a smile that would melt a glacier. More than any man could ask for. That kind of girl would have had me pissed at the world a year ago. Today, I just enjoyed seeing her and ordering coffee from her. That world of sex with amazing women is no longer a thing that is being kept from me. It's a thing I do. And that makes all the difference.

Oh, look. I posted an anecdote. What a shocker.

[pitbull]

Yep. The "genie back in the bottle" cliche applies when pondering the sheer number of times you see an ATF. You see her because YOU CAN. I too was getting, and continue to get, NOTHING at home beyond quarterly sex. And that is the way it is. And if it changes, I often think: Gee, I'll sure save a lot of money, but then I think of the genie. He's still swirling around out of his bottle, and I can't catch him. He is free to grant wishes, and that's what he does.

[Guest]

I'm not spending any more than I can easily afford. I set a budget for this year and so far sticking to it. And already the memories I've made are worth many fold what I've spent. I can keep this up for a while. But I'll throttle back at some point.

Honestly, I just feel very fortunate. I had a bad situation that pushed me to figure something out. And now I have a great situation and the understanding of how to have a lot of fun without hurting anyone. #LifeIsGood

[MrFister]

Didn't have an ATF for several years until recently. About every 6 to 8 weeks now. I'd be wary of visiting more than that.

[Archetype]

OK, I fixed it for you

Yep, sounds about right.

[UTF4ME]

I need a ATF. That should have been an option.

[rocketmanco901]

As often as possible. But usually 3 times a month.

[bikentats-9753]

Around once a month. All depending on work schedule, and funds.... sure is nice to be able to call her up and meet.... But it all might change soon as work conditions change for me.

[auldguy]

On average every other month. Money can be a factor at times as well as the desire to add variety as often as possible. As I look back all of my ATFs have had very similar characteristics in personality and skill.

[Mustang87]

I've settled into a nice routine of about once a month, although occasionally I'll break down and go twice a month.

[Wannabebad]

I never found an ATF till very recently and been seeing her at least every week for the last two three months. Her and I clicked in bed and it's AWESOME! Unfortunately it's moving toward a level that I'm not comfortable with so don't know what I'm going to do. She told me the other day as I laid my donation down after the session to take it back. I didn't of course because that redefines our relationship and I have had many a good romp partner lost because we started "dating" I'm to old and tired for that stuff and just want to have fun. She is fun, holy crap she's fun. However might be looking for that ATF again soon.

Edited November 19, 2015 by Wannabebad

[Guest]

51 minutes ago, Wannabebad said:

 She told me the other day as I laid my donation down after the session to take it back.

Bummer man! I'm so sorry. I hate when that happens. Watch out, next thing you know she will be buying you gifts, offering to take you out to dinner, stuff like that.You're smart to kick her to the curb before she gets too clingy.

[Hvnaball2]

I personally don't see the point of an "ATF". Seems a lot like a wife/SO/whatever. I thrive on the variety this hobby offers. Don't misunderstand me, I've met some incredible women in this pursuit. Unfortunately, subsequent visits never seem to live up to the thrill of the first and it becomes routine after that.