Posted April 12, 2022 Similar to the title, is there something that distinguishes a hobbyist from "Oh they were a pleasure to see" to "I really hope to see him/her/them again"? Obviously the criteria would vary from provider/companion, I'm just curious does it ever happen on the other side? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 12, 2022 I am sure some of the ladies have their favorites. Hobby well and prosper newbie. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 12, 2022 It has happened and there are stories out there about that. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 13, 2022 So many wonderful clients, but we do have our favorites. It's usually more than one, and they don't last forever, but damn it's great while it lasts. The thing with ATFs is not to let things get to your head, and when it's time to let go and move on, whether the client or the provider, let go and cherish the memories. You can really see a person's true colors when things come to an end. Don't be the psycho. I've seen people get really nuts when the other party moves on. I think providers typically have more experience with ATFs than clients actually. It's pretty awesome not going to lie. A lot of providers don't like to date irl because there's so many wonderful people on the client side. We get spoiled and not just financially either. We're treated really well by a lot of clients. 💕💕💕 13 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 13, 2022 I am sure both the guys and the ladies here some people we click with more than others. It's the nature of being human. That doesn't mean both sides can't enjoy and have genuinely good times with a variety of folks. For me, that is what makes this hobby so much fun. 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 13, 2022 ATF's are cool. this hobby connects clients and proviers in so many ways. hard not to have a slew of atf's.... 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 13, 2022 Oh ya, we definitely have our ATFs. That doesn’t mean dating or off clock time to me. As @Hunter VanDyke mentioned, I have enough fun here, that I don’t date irl. Most of the guys are super nice, great conversationist, and have great BCD skills. 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 2, 2022 It honestly would be based not just on chemistry between myself and the hobbyist but also for me an ATF would have be respectful, not a client that when given the do's and don'ts either disregards or becomes absent minded of the conversation we had prior to meeting. They would have great hygiene, consinious to the intimacy that meeting anyone on or off the site would entail. Attractive to be honest, you can be "blessed" with some horsepower under the hood (if you know what I mean, lol) but look like you rolled out of bed and thought I am going to log on and expect the provider to look like this, provide this for this length, etc. etc. and not even try to meet the expectations you placed on the provider you wish to schedule or engage with. Conversation that is other than provocative is a plus, because a large majority of providers also want to enjoy the time you spend with them as well. With that all being said I have 2 ATF Hobbyist I have seen and would amicably engage with them outside of the nature of this hobby as friends, enjoying a baseball game or casual dinner. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 4, 2022 On 4/12/2022 at 11:02 AM, StudentofPassion said: Similar to the title, is there something that distinguishes a hobbyist from "Oh they were a pleasure to see" to "I really hope to see him/her/them again"? Obviously the criteria would vary from provider/companion, I'm just curious does it ever happen on the other side? ABSOLUTELY 🔥I have several friends I’ve seen that have ROCKED MY WORLD💦And then I end up sleeping on my couch for a few days so my bed can dry out😂🤣😂 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2022 I've definitely met a few that I'd label ATFs for sure. Those are usually the ones who spoil me with gifts, take me out to dinner, offer up massages and leave me in a state of orgasmic bliss....these are the ones that I in turn spoil back to show my own gratitude. I love catering to a gent who enjoys seeing me truly happy and pleased💜😘 Those guys are special and deserve to be treated as such😍🤤 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2022 On 6/2/2022 at 0:44 AM, Calisurfgirl said: It honestly would be based not just on chemistry between myself and the hobbyist but also for me an ATF would have be respectful, not a client that when given the do's and don'ts either disregards or becomes absent minded of the conversation we had prior to meeting. They would have great hygiene, consinious to the intimacy that meeting anyone on or off the site would entail. Attractive to be honest, you can be "blessed" with some horsepower under the hood (if you know what I mean, lol) but look like you rolled out of bed and thought I am going to log on and expect the provider to look like this, provide this for this length, etc. etc. and not even try to meet the expectations you placed on the provider you wish to schedule or engage with. Conversation that is other than provocative is a plus, because a large majority of providers also want to enjoy the time you spend with them as well. With that all being said I have 2 ATF Hobbyist I have seen and would amicably engage with them outside of the nature of this hobby as friends, enjoying a baseball game or casual dinner. I love the "down time" when we can sit, talk, joke, cuddle, smile, spoon, laugh, and in general just connect. Makes the whole experience better for both of us, at least I hope so. My goal is that when I contact her for the 2nd, 3rd, or 10th date, her day becomes even the slightest bit brighter. Therein lies the seed that will become a mutual ATF relationship. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2022 I have had some of the greatest conversations while I am with someone I totally connect with! You know those valuable moments where it totally makes absolute sense and we are laying on the bed or enjoying a beautiful meal together and he will give me that silly look and we both burst out in giggles! Because it is just that strong of a connection! And we so understand each other! The feelings are always mutual—secret inside jokes! The support for each other beyond compare! It is always about up lifting each other. Quite moments when nothing spoken and we lay together giving each other full passionate kisses. ATF’s are the icing on our cake! 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 23, 2022 On 4/12/2022 at 5:59 PM, lustybustygina said: I love all my ATF's What happened to "there can be only one". I like hamburgers and my atf is Good Times! Either it is or it isn't. I'm totally confused now!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 23, 2022 47 minutes ago, tide32 said: What happened to "there can be only one". I like hamburgers and my atf is Good Times! Either it is or it isn't. I'm totally confused now!! You must be ordering off of the budget menu @tide32? Live a little and enjoy!! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 23, 2022 5 hours ago, tide32 said: What happened to "there can be only one". I like hamburgers and my atf is Good Times! Either it is or it isn't. I'm totally confused now!! Whataburger 😜 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 23, 2022 9 hours ago, tide32 said: What happened to "there can be only one". I like hamburgers and my atf is Good Times! Either it is or it isn't. I'm totally confused now!! Well you see…. I bet we have more friends in the hobby than you. We can’t possibly pick one, so we get a few. 🤭 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 23, 2022 The more the ATF's the better always enjoy them and love when they/me go out of the way to make our time together better each time 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 24, 2022 I'll never forget my ATF. we've had adventures in 9 states! Hes the sweetest man! But don't be fooled. I have a lot of atf clients in different cities and states! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 24, 2022 23 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: You must be ordering off of the budget menu @tide32? Live a little and enjoy!! Can't help myself, I'm addicted to grease!!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 24, 2022 2 hours ago, tide32 said: Can't help myself, I'm addicted to grease!!! Grease is the word! 🎶🍟🍔 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 26, 2022 (edited) No offense but, really? Synonymous with GOAT, peel back the layers and there SHOULD only be one but, see, cash is king? Kudos to the ladies, whatchamacallits, and mostly, @geecue2, for keeping it 100. Edited November 26, 2022 by Hobby Hobbit 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 4, 2022 On 4/12/2022 at 11:02 AM, StudentofPassion said: Similar to the title, is there something that distinguishes a hobbyist from "Oh they were a pleasure to see" to "I really hope to see him/her/them again"? Obviously the criteria would vary from provider/companion, I'm just curious does it ever happen on the other side? Simply not possible, it always gets fucked up… Always! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 4, 2022 On 11/26/2022 at 9:27 AM, Hobby Hobbit said: No offense but, really? Synonymous with GOAT, peel back the layers and there SHOULD only be one but, see, cash is king? Kudos to the ladies, whatchamacallits, and mostly, @geecue2, for keeping it 100. This gif got me fucked up!!! Lollllllllll 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
