Posted February 5, 2022 It's really annoying that Ashley Madison ads have taken over tob. Especially with the pop ups saying "Say no to Escorts" I just feel like the odds are against us more than ever.... Don't mind me. I just needed to vent! 17 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 5, 2022 40 minutes ago, MeganMarie4u said: It's really annoying that Ashley Madison ads have taken over tob. Especially with the pop ups saying "Say no to Escorts" I just feel like the odds are against us more than ever.... Don't mind me. I just needed to vent! This times 100! The pop up changes too. Sometimes it says, it is dangerous and risky to meet us what a way to scare off new men to the biz. 14 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 5, 2022 3 minutes ago, Caressa Duval said: This times 100! The pop up changes too. Sometimes it says, it is dangerous and risky to meet us what a way to scare off new men to the biz. I mean I understand that tob probably did it to make money or save money or something but damn.... are you for us or against us? Can those ads really pay more than all the girls paying for ads every month? 9 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 5, 2022 ...nevermind. I'm biting my tongue on this one. 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 5, 2022 Can TOB request that they NOT put up ads telling clients not to see us? Why are we paying for that??? I've always tuned them out because they're pop ups, but I didn't realize they're telling our clients NOT to see us and that we're dangerous. Wtf? 15 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 5, 2022 TOB is an Escort website. So why is Ashley Madison on our advertising platform? It seriously is gumming everything up? Like the ladies and myself included say, please Remove the nonsense. I am sure it is bothering the clients too! 12 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 6, 2022 It is getting pretty annoying!! I'm sure it makes the ladies on this site a little irate because you pay to advertise and then when all you see is this Ashley Madison stuff discouraging clients! You have every reason to be unhappy with this. 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 6, 2022 18 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said: Can TOB request that they NOT put up ads telling clients not to see us? Why are we paying for that??? I've always tuned them out because they're pop ups, but I didn't realize they're telling our clients NOT to see us and that we're dangerous. Wtf? 22 hours ago, MeganMarie4u said: I mean I understand that tob probably did it to make money or save money or something but damn.... are you for us or against us? Can those ads really pay more than all the girls paying for ads every month? I copied this directly from the Ashley Madison Pop Up this morning, " Save your money! Prostitution is unsafe, and illegal! An unrushed GFE with a horny housewife ... might be just what you need!" How many different ways can this be against us, and scaring off clients 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 6, 2022 I though AM was Canadian based, where prostitution is legal. I have no experience, but how do AM hookups differ from escorts? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 6, 2022 (edited) 21 minutes ago, Bit Banger said: I though AM was Canadian based, where prostitution is legal. I have no experience, but how do AM hookups differ from escorts? Yes, Canadian but it is not "legal". Bill C-36 changed a few things. Remember when we had to remove all our activities off our P411 menus, this bill is the reason why. In Canada you can't advertise the services. It looks to me, for the women selling it is decriminalized, but the person buying it is still a criminal offense. https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/other-autre/c36fs_fi/ https://albertalegal.ca/is-sex-work-legal-in-canada/ As for me, I am not a "prostitute". As most of the women here are not. We are escorts or providers, and the only thing we offer is time and companionship. The Pop Up only ads insult to injury. It is implying that free sex with a housewife is fine, but if you pay for time you are with a prostitute. Edited February 6, 2022 by Caressa Duval 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 6, 2022 What the hell ... I didn't know all this I never read the pop up's This is a bad thing all the way around for US!! 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 6, 2022 4 hours ago, Caressa Duval said: I copied this directly from the Ashley Madison Pop Up this morning, " Save your money! Prostitution is unsafe, and illegal! An unrushed GFE with a horny housewife ... might be just what you need!" How many different ways can this be against us, and scaring off clients Down with Ashley Madison 😡 Booooooooo! Escorts rule. Horny housewives drool!! Lol 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 6, 2022 "SAY NO TO ESCORTS"! Or that's what the Ashley Madison pop up is telling me. I'm so confused........? 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 6, 2022 4 hours ago, Bit Banger said: I have no experience, but how do AM hookups differ from escorts? Huh????? Remember that 2015 scandal with AM? Ashley Madison hook up site for married men and women to harbor secrete extra marital affairs. Not guys wanting a pleasurable experience with an escort. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 I never read the popups, just close them and move on, Im surprised they say all of that, but it definitely will not affect my hobbying! 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 10 hours ago, Caressa Duval said: I copied this directly from the Ashley Madison Pop Up this morning, " Save your money! Prostitution is unsafe, and illegal! An unrushed GFE with a horny housewife ... might be just what you need!" How many different ways can this be against us, and scaring off clients This is awful! I see the pop ups and they are annoying. I never click on them because Im to afraid to get a virus on my computer, but seriously it makes no sense for us to pay for advertising when there are pop ups scaring clients off! 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 Im sure slixa or tryst would love all of us to pay for ads. This is a huge slap in the face. I never had a problem with tob but for the fact we have so many rules (cant say what we want, show certain things, pay with only bitcoin) and we all respect it. I think its only fair our voice be heard on this one. There is nothing ok with this. 9 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 If you look really closely, the website address is www.ashleyrnadison.com. they slipped an “R and N” where the M normally should be in Madison and someone is collecting on click thru’s. It isn’t a direct link. I also thought the advertising is quite counter to the TOB ideals. What a weird deal. 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 20 hours ago, Leyla Scott said: Down with Ashley Madison 😡 Booooooooo! Escorts rule. Horny housewives drool!! Lol Well stated!! 11 hours ago, Madison Taylor said: Im sure slixa or tryst would love all of us to pay for ads. This is a huge slap in the face. I never had a problem with tob but for the fact we have so many rules (cant say what we want, show certain things, pay with only bitcoin) and we all respect it. I think its only fair our voice be heard on this one. There is nothing ok with this. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 With TRYST can use a Credit Card / not that shit Bitcoin ... 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 For what it is worth, I never look at the pop ups and I think most guys who come to TOB know they will not find what they are looking for on those sites. A site like AM would scare the hell out of me for the data breaches alone. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 On 2/6/2022 at 7:36 AM, Caressa Duval said: I copied this directly from the Ashley Madison Pop Up this morning, " Save your money! Prostitution is unsafe, and illegal! An unrushed GFE with a horny housewife ... might be just what you need!" How many different ways can this be against us, and scaring off clients Down with Ashley Madison 😡 Booooooooo! Escorts rule. Horny housewives drool!! Lol 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 You know what though? At the end of the day, they can say whatever they want in their ads. Of course they have to say that to make it more alluring for the guys. Good luck to those fools signed up on there; being with an escort is so much easier and less complicated than horny housewives. No drama, business transaction and it doesn’t have to be dangerous if you’re selecting reputable ladies. Versus a horny house wife? Risking her husband finding out, emotional drama, possibly an attachment… oh and risking the horny, emotionally needy housewife reaching out to their wife ? No thanks! I think hobbyists will remain hobbying because there’s a reason they do it. And horny house wife F***ers will remain doing their thing and risk other things that are possibly worse! I say let’s not worry about it. I have also heard that escorts put ads up on AshMad SO maybe we gotta do a takeover? It’s free. Hahaha Lol - F U AshMad!!! The escorts are taking over your site. 😂😜🤪🤪 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 22 minutes ago, Leyla Scott said: You know what though? At the end of the day, they can say whatever they want in their ads. Of course they have to say that to make it more alluring for the guys. Good luck to those fools signed up on there; being with an escort is so much easier and less complicated than horny housewives. No drama, business transaction and it doesn’t have to be dangerous if you’re selecting reputable ladies. Versus a horny house wife? Risking her husband finding out, emotional drama, possibly an attachment… oh and risking the horny, emotionally needy housewife reaching out to their wife ? No thanks! I think hobbyists will remain hobbying because there’s a reason they do it. And horny house wife F***ers will remain doing their thing and risk other things that are possibly worse! I say let’s not worry about it. I have also heard that escorts put ads up on AshMad SO maybe we gotta do a takeover? It’s free. Hahaha Lol - F U AshMad!!! The escorts are taking over your site. 😂😜🤪🤪 All of this is true and not to mention your data could get leaked from AM. Happened before....could happen again and they leaked it ALL too. The biggest thorn over am though is it's just like all other dating sites....pure sausage fest. So the ladies probably all hold out for the brad pitt of the site (in their eye they want gold medal of men to make it worth it to cheat) and let's face it...most of us ain't him so moving on. I don't think anyone here has any risk of losing any business on that site or the sugar sites (those are even worse than AM imo, like being on tinder but also having to pay.... 🤣). 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 @zman999 💯 absolutely right! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 (edited) I also don't think many men know how the world of escorting really works. They think it is like what they see in movies. I know that was true of me for a very long time. They only turn to sites like AM because they aren't aware that much better options exist. Advertising on a site like this might actually back fire on them. Edited February 7, 2022 by Mustang87 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 2 minutes ago, Mustang87 said: I also don't think many men know how the world of escorting really works. They think it is like what they see in movies. I know that was true of me for a very long time. They only turn to sites like AM because they aren't aware that much better options exist. Them advertising on a site like this might actually back fire on them. You’re so right. A couple of weeks ago I met a guy at a social outing who was saying “I’ll never pay to see an escort”… (he doesn’t know that I am one) so I started talking to him about it and my gosh! The negative stigma and backasswards thinking! I asked him how tinder and bumble and match were going for him - he replied “dating is tough… the girls expect so much yet they don’t bring much to the table themselves”. Exactly! I said, and walked away shaking my booty in a very sexy dress! 🤣🤣🤣 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 7, 2022 BOYS! HOBBYISTS you need to invite the rest of the men in the world, and turn them on to this!!! WE are references for you ALL the time! Why can’t you do the same?? Enlighten the closed minds of AshMad, Tinder & Bumbleout there! Seriously! Hobbyists are such a small percentage of men 😢 MORE men need to be reached! Prostitution is illegal… Escorting is NOT! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 8, 2022 Love how this conversation turned. You all are awesome! (still hate the pop up. Best to hit the back button on the AM screen and kill the new window that opens with TOB. ) 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
