Posted August 26, 2021 Who knew!. In the past month and a half I have been introduced to a side of Assisted living facilities I had no idea existed! In May a long time friend moved into a nice Assisted Living facility. Everything about the facility met his expectations. About a month after moving in he began to regal me with stories about the avalibility of sexual partners. The flirting, the open invitations for sex. I would smile and listen with a heavy dose of doubt. Then, he invited me to lunch. I was blown away! The flirting, the come on's! I am not a rock star !, but the ladies in the facility had no hesitation or inhabitations letting him or me or practically any male who could walk know what they wanted, liked and needed. Now, a couple of lunches later, a couple of dinner invites later and Trivial pursuit contests later I have been invited, as a guest, for dinner Thursday by a pretty, spry 70 year old. She said to me, just after after I accepted her invitation, "I promise you, if you hold your toungue just right, I can get as wet today as I did when I was 18. She told me she had a ready supply of 100mg Viagra. She looked me in the eyes and said to me " After dinner you take me anyway you want but I expect at least two rounds. I love a challange. Who knew. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 26, 2021 1 hour ago, oldertruckguy-9225 said: She told me she had a ready supply of 100mg Viagra. She looked me in the eyes and said to me " After dinner you take me anyway you want but I expect at least two rounds. Honestly, at 64, I'm starting to be slightly afraid of this kind of future. I'm not much of a stud! 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 26, 2021 Honestly I am not either. But as I said I do lile a challange. 1 hour ago, pfunk said: Honestly, at 64, I'm starting to be slightly afraid of this kind of future. I'm not much of a stud! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 26, 2021 Wow! Something to look forward to in the not too distant future! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 26, 2021 14 hours ago, oldertruckguy-9225 said: Who knew!. In the past month and a half I have been introduced to a side of Assisted living facilities I had no idea existed! In May a long time friend moved into a nice Assisted Living facility. Everything about the facility met his expectations. About a month after moving in he began to regal me with stories about the avalibility of sexual partners. The flirting, the open invitations for sex. I would smile and listen with a heavy dose of doubt. Then, he invited me to lunch. I was blown away! The flirting, the come on's! I am not a rock star !, but the ladies in the facility had no hesitation or inhabitations letting him or me or practically any male who could walk know what they wanted, liked and needed. Now, a couple of lunches later, a couple of dinner invites later and Trivial pursuit contests later I have been invited, as a guest, for dinner Thursday by a pretty, spry 70 year old. She said to me, just after after I accepted her invitation, "I promise you, if you hold your toungue just right, I can get as wet today as I did when I was 18. She told me she had a ready supply of 100mg Viagra. She looked me in the eyes and said to me " After dinner you take me anyway you want but I expect at least two rounds. I love a challange. Who knew. Great to see she was very open and straightforward with her desires and wants. Have a wonderful time !! I'm glad to know that folks older than me are still sexually active. Gives me hope for my future...and I am already an old guy. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 27, 2021 Scary topic! I know that Stuff of this nature does happen!-which makes it even more scary! While my dad was in a nursing home, there was a lady who made the rounds and she had a thing for kissing my dad. Even, when my mom was around. Not even sure if my dad knew what was up?! Just very odd! Hmmm, yes, I think I will have my kids put something in my coffee instead, before I need to go to assisted living. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 27, 2021 Spry in a nursing home sounds like MAYHEM! Dementia gone wildly wrong! Oh my! 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 27, 2021 A few years back (perhaps even today) there was a wave of STDs going through The Villages, a retirement development in central FL. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 27, 2021 I find absolutely nothing about this attractive. Unfortunately, I have a good deal of unwanted, unavoidable experience with those services euphemistically referred to as "assisted living." There is no way I would voluntarily participate. Not even for all the 80 year old nookie on the planet. Hopefully, I've installed enough trip wires to prevent my involuntary participation. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 27, 2021 Il never meant to cast dispersion on the choices 60, 70, 80 year old adults make concerning their sexual activities. From what I have seen first hand no one is coerced, no one is mislead or taken advantage of. While the ladies certainly appear to be the initiator of almost all advances I feel pretty certain that NO means no. No matter who says it. Declines are always respected. I was surprised, I would even say pleasantly so, that individuals in their later years could still enjoy an active sex life. I would have to say that I can appreciate the more forward approach. A 70 year old has probably seen and hear it all, played all the games that often come with sexual liaisons. This ladie's approach, while straightforward and no nonsense, was, fun, respectful and had a nice mix of tease and flirt. And at 70 she can still tease and flirt. And, best of all, we both had a whole lot of fun together. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 27, 2021 26 minutes ago, Happymon said: I find absolutely nothing about this attractive. Unfortunately, I have a good deal of unwanted, unavoidable experience with those services euphemistically referred to as "assisted living." There is no way I would voluntarily participate. Not even for all the 80 year old nookie on the planet. Hopefully, I've installed enough trip wires to prevent my involuntary participation. Curious...Are you saying that when you reach 70-80 you wouldn't still want to have sex? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 27, 2021 1 hour ago, ilovewomen said: Curious...Are you saying that when you reach 70-80 you wouldn't still want to have sex? Ive reached it. I don't wish to have sex today with any 70-80 year old woman I know. Sorry if that offends. I'm Shallow Hal. But it's in large measure what brought me to and keeps me on TOB. I also have no desire to cruise an Assisted Living Facility looking for sex. Lastly I hope I've installed enough fail-safe trips such that I do not end up in an Assisted Living Facility. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 28, 2021 10 hours ago, ilovewomen said: Curious...Are you saying that when you reach 70-80 you wouldn't still want to have sex? Heck, yes, WITH BEAUTIFUL YOUNG WOMEN !!! WTF do you think I'm here in the first place. * "Young" includes some gorgeous women in their 50s. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 28, 2021 Variety is the spice of life. I did not go looking for this. I was presented with an opportunity and experience I've never had. I took it and had fun. Don't know if it will be repeated. I know I would have missed out on a unique, fun, playtime with a lady full of surprises despite being 70 years old. She obviously can't match the physical beauty of a twenty something. She did not feel a need to even try. She brought herself, her energy and personality. She offered to share it all with me. I am glad I was smart enough to accept. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 28, 2021 (edited) @oldertruckguy-9225 Good on you for spending time with a sexy attractive woman in your own age group. I don't appreciate men putting some made up "expiration date" on when women stop being beautiful , desirable, sexual beings. It is such a double standard. Men get better with age, and women just get old. I don't think so.There is nothing wrong with 80 year old nookie, it is in your mind conditioned by staring at media, photos, escorts sites that show 20 and 30 year olds as only being sexy. And guess what? You have to pay to touch that, and pay for her to pretend she finds the old fart standing in front of her good looking. The only way old farts get younger women is either buying them or being rich and marrying them. In both case, the men are deluding themselves into thinking they found a woman a third of their age that finds them sexy. Cough, cough she loves the color green. There are 14 lovely providers on P411 over 60 years old, and they are smokin hot!! I see sexy men and women well into their 70s, 80s, and yes even 90s. My 90+ year old friend is such a cougar. She dates men in their 70s because men in her age group can't keep up. She has a body that would rival women half her age. I plan on having orgasms until I take my last breath! No matter how old I am! Certainly would be sad if no men joined me sniff sniff Edited August 28, 2021 by Caressa Duval word 10 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 28, 2021 This seems like a very good idea, and is a lot better than drueling @ Costco + + + its a very good physical and mental win win for both parties talk about health benefits 😇 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 29, 2021 On 8/27/2021 at 9:22 AM, Happymon said: Ive reached it. I don't wish to have sex today with any 70-80 year old woman I know. Sorry if that offends. I'm Shallow Hal. But it's in large measure what brought me to and keeps me on TOB. I also have no desire to cruise an Assisted Living Facility looking for sex. Lastly I hope I've installed enough fail-safe trips such that I do not end up in an Assisted Living Facility. No offense taken 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 22, 2021 Jeez how does a guy go about finding these women I love the variety! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 23, 2021 15 hours ago, Redvines1 said: Jeez how does a guy go about finding these women I love the variety! You just gotta want it enough to go out and find it. Go get it! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 25, 2021 Best thing I’ve read in a long time. Good for you!! I hope I keep that sense of adventure when I get older. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 5, 2021 Old guys tend to have it easy finding partners their own age because women tend to out live men. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
