Posted September 3, 2018 I am to please, and I've not done this enough for it to not be awkward for me. Could you walk me through what makes a client more enjoyable, and pleasant to deal with; how to approach someone you're interested in, and maybe also what to watch out for. Sorry to be such a newb... Curious and trying to improve 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 Many things can be said about this. Here are a few just to begin with. Be a gentleman. Be clean Be respectful of her as a person, of her times, rules and ways Follow the instructions she has published on her website, if any. Don't talk about "illegal activities" until she allows you to. Never negotiate the donation Don't ask for more pictures than the ones she already made public Be respectful of her boundaries, even if you don't like them. 23 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 What Bora said... I’d also add always remember that even though the sessions are very intimate, this is a professional relationship. Outside the session treat her the same as the woman who cuts your hair, your dentist, therapist, etc. Do not call just to chat, get upset that she has other clients, demand preferential treatment, fall in love, harass or do anything else that would be unacceptable when dealing with any other professional woman. The same goes for them too. Do not accept chronic lateness, rudeness, unreasonable rules, shortened sessions, upselling, intoxication, bait and switch, or any other actions that would be unacceptable from a professional in your real life. If you meet one who can’t be professional, cut them loose and move on. There are too many great women here to spend any time with the ones who aren’t! 13 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 ...and wash your a$$ & nether regions multiple times 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 I would think it would be common sense to know you should treat a lady with respect and don't be rude to her? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 34 minutes ago, stevie-2249 said: I would think it would be common sense to know you should treat a lady with respect and don't be rude to her? ‘Common sense’ is not so common. 😕 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 4 hours ago, JungleGeorge said: ...and wash your a$$ & nether regions multiple times 8 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 (edited) When First contacting her. Have your Stuff together. If you have References That are NOT attached to your profile. HAVE the links and How they would remember you Handy for the first Contact.. Read HOW she prefers First contact.. Leave her "Gift" with out word in plain sight. (Sorry guys Envelopes are getting scary these days, I have had 2 Empty ones so far in 2018 ..) DO NOT get offended if she counts and puts away before you begin. This ALONE causes great comfort to the lady.. Start with A drink, Conversation, A Great Hooker Joke 😂 Any are pretty Good ice breakers other than Just getting Nekid immediately.. Let HER LEAD! Ask subtle questions about what she may like to do And what she like to receive IF you can... If not then, Go slow if You do not know her limitS, BUT KNOW, if You do your research, you can easily find before hand.. Be Clean, BE CLEAN, Be Clean!! Nobody is perfect , But Cleanliness is EASILY spotted and smelled 😆 Then the rest takes care of itself. But if she is still acting like a fish out of water 15 min in. Cut your Line and Politely move on. Your Opinion is For the REVIEW board. Not for her to hear Verbally. Happy Hobbying !!! Edited September 3, 2018 by Chrissy 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 8 minutes ago, Chrissy said: Leave her "Gift" with out word in plain sight. (Sorry guys Envelopes are getting scary these days, I have had 2 Empty ones so far in 2018 ..) DO NOT get offended if she counts and puts away before you begin. This ALONE causes great comfort to the lady. TWO EMPTY ENVELOPES !!!!!!!! What the hell ? No wonder the ladies get upset with the guys. I've known for decades that rip offs happen from some of the girls and some of guys,but can't some people just grow up and do the right thing . 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 14 minutes ago, Chrissy said: When First contacting her. Have your Stuff together. If you have References That are NOT attached to your profile. HAVE the links and How they would remember you Handy for the first Contact.. Read HOW she prefers First contact.. Leave her "Gift" with out word in plain sight. (Sorry guys Envelopes are getting scary these days, I have had 2 Empty ones so far in 2018 ..) DO NOT get offended if she counts and puts away before you begin. This ALONE causes great comfort to the lady.. Start with A drink, Conversation, A Great Hooker Joke 😂 Any are pretty Good ice breakers other than Just getting Nekid immediately.. Let HER LEAD! Ask subtle questions about what she may like to do And what she like to receive IF you can... If not then, Go slow if You do not know her limitS, BUT KNOW, if You do your research, you can easily find before hand.. Be Clean, BE CLEAN, Be Clean!! Nobody is perfect , But Cleanliness is EASILY spotted and smelled 😆 Then the rest takes care of itself. But if she is still acting like a fish out of water 15 min in. Cut your Line and Politely move on. Your Opinion is For the REVIEW board. Not for her to hear Verbally. Happy Hobbying !!! Thank you Chrissy. And from reading the comments, it is scary out there. I get the human decency. Obviously taking the proactive course to ask ettiquitte. I am still learning the ropes, the hard way. Had two good, and two bad experiences... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 (edited) 27 minutes ago, Chrissy said: Leave her "Gift" with out word in plain sight. (Sorry guys Envelopes are getting scary these days, I have had 2 Empty ones so far in 2018 ..) DO NOT get offended if she counts and puts away before you begin. This ALONE causes great comfort to the lady.. Happy Hobbying !!! It is funny when you get a text 3 hours later thanking you for what you have left in an envelope. When you have a rapport with someone and they forget all about "the envelope". Only to find it propped up by the hair spray in the bathroom. Edited September 3, 2018 by frankenthaler91 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 10 minutes ago, JRWolfe said: TWO EMPTY ENVELOPES !!!!!!!! What the hell ? No wonder the ladies get upset with the guys. I've known for decades that rip offs happen from some of the girls and some of guys,but can't some people just grow up and do the right thing . Unfortunately Some do get over on us. I do not know if its because they think we won't go to the proper authorities or what, But yes! I used to just see the envelope and Start having fun with out looking!! Theft is Soooo common in Texas I NEVER let my walls down... I guess being back home, I let my guard down as Many do when they return to their own Stomping grounds 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 5 hours ago, Sexy Francesca said: Hey there leave my ass alone! You sound just like all the women from the club I was in last night. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 1 minute ago, frankenthaler91 said: It is funny when you get a text 3 hours later thanking you for what you have left in an envelope. When you have a rapport with someone and they forget all about "the envelope". Only to find it propped up by the hair spray in the bathroom. And gents Like You are why I do not Flip My lid Over it I bet You kindly Direct the lady in the First few minutes to the bathroom?? That's ok when It goes down that way LOL.. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 I have always used an envelope, and place it in plain sight or if there where directions stated during the research process then excuse my self to the restroom to wash my hands with the understanding the envelope will be checked, and then every one is on the same page, and off to a drink convo etc. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 I would not use an envelope unless a provider's website instructs you to do so. Fan out the donation in plain site on the nearest dresser or countertop unless otherwise requested. In some cases the client is expected to wash his hands after handling the donation. Set down the donation before engaging in conversation. Say nothing about the donation. When making initial contact, povide two recent references with contact information. If at all possible, if you are still in the workforce, consider providing your business telephone that has your voicemail greeting and the contact number for your employer or business. A savvy provider may easily call to verify your employment as any potential creditor might. This is common practice and usually will not compromise discretion. If retired or being contacted at work makes you uneasy, then provide your mobile phone number and request text communication initially if you wish to maintain discretion. Follow the rules and do not overstay your welcome. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2018 2 hours ago, Chrissy said: Leave her "Gift" with out word in plain sight. (Sorry guys Envelopes are getting scary these days, I have had 2 Empty ones so far in 2018 ..) DO NOT get offended if she counts and puts away before you begin. This ALONE causes great comfort to the lady.. Shoot! I like to use envelopes!! Somehow leaving the dirty bills there in the open looks less than elegant to me 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 4, 2018 2 hours ago, Bora Bora said: Shoot! I like to use envelopes!! Somehow leaving the dirty bills there in the open looks less than elegant to me It does But as I mentioned YOU Bring up the envelope And Encourage the lady To it with in the first few minutes. That approach is Better Than Just seeing it there. And yes We are nervous to Grab it 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 4, 2018 4 hours ago, Robert Johnson said: I would not use an envelope unless a provider's website instructs you to do so. Fan out the donation in plain site on the nearest dresser or countertop unless otherwise requested. In some cases the client is expected to wash his hands after handling the donation. Set down the donation before engaging in conversation. Say nothing about the donation. Lightly thump the fanned out bills is cool way of easing the mind for the provider. Especially if it is our first encounter. Feel free to wash your hands after handling the donation. My faucet lights up when you turn on the water. Kind of a kool Kali trick!😉😊 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 4, 2018 13 hours ago, Robert Johnson said: I would not use an envelope unless a provider's website instructs you to do so. Fan out the donation in plain site on the nearest dresser or countertop unless otherwise requested. In some cases the client is expected to wash his hands after handling the donation. Set down the donation before engaging in conversation. Say nothing about the donation. This has always been my preferred method. Unless her website/ad specifies different, I place the cash in plain sight, and visit the bathroom. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 4, 2018 12 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: ... My faucet lights up when you turn on the water. Kind of a kool Kali trick!😉😊 Does it go “Row, row, row your boat. ...” 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 4, 2018 55 minutes ago, Bit Banger said: Does it go “Row, row, row your boat. ...” No Bit my water facet is NOT THAT damn cool dammit! I wish I had yours! I am so envious of you! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 4, 2018 6 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: No Bit my water facet is NOT THAT damn cool dammit! I wish I had yours! I am so envious of you! It’s not mine. It’s in the DAM(*) washroom! 🤪 (*) Denver Art Museum, North Bldg., ground floor 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 6, 2018 Okay WAIT...Who really knows the OP? He as nothing to vouch for himself (not saying anything bad about you personally), but here we all are just talking away, and giving out information that if LE didn't know NOW they do! Now don't get me wrong I have been a person to do exactly that, but here lately the way things have been going, I've been trying to be "extra" careful here! It doesn't take much for a "nosey" person to join in the community. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 6, 2018 I’m sure LE has learned every thing they need to know from this website, this website isn’t discrete 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 6, 2018 True Stevie! I have to finally agree with you on this 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites