When the condom doesn't fit

[Guest]

I believe there used to be an escort that had something to the effect of "you have to be at least 3 inches to get on this ride" under their avatar.

Some things are in the hands of nature, and not in human control. I get that, and I understand that.

Now many men brag they need a large, when really they don't. Sorry guys.

I always bring 3 sizes to visits: snug fit, regular, and large.

Now I have had both ends of the spectrum with this dilemma. Men that have micro-penis, and men that are packing a third arm.

It is not often enough for me to special order the ultra small condoms or the car covers.

If a man knows he is unusually small or unusually large, should it be his responsibility to bring condoms that fit?

Or since this is our profession, is it our responsibility to be fully stocked?

I will also add, that in many of these situations I feel the man knows he is hard to fit prior to the visit. On several occasions they have tried to use this as a reason for bareback.

http://learn.condomdepot.com/2014/08/01/what-constitutes-a-micropenis/

 

 

 

 

[Heidi the Housewife aka The Maui Muse]

Which is why my go to, first choice will always be the Female Condom. Sure, I also provide various sizes in non latex if desired. 

Yet, to answer your question,  I've only encountered 1 "micro penis", he supplied his own as he was fully aware anything above a snuggler would slip off. Even the "snuggler" was a tad loose.

Never encountered a third arm though only very girthy, they've greatly appreciated introduction to Female Condom thus far.

[Guest]

4 minutes ago, Heidi the Housewife aka The Maui Muse said:

Which is why my go to, first choice will always be the Female Condom. Sure, I also provide various sizes in non latex if desired. 

Yet, to answer your question,  I've only encountered 1 "micro penis", he supplied his own as he was fully aware anything above a snuggler would slip off. Even the "snuggler" was a tad loose.

Never encountered a third arm though only very girthy, they've greatly appreciated introduction to Female Condom thus far.

Yes, to the female condom. I keep those. However, many men find them visually unattractive, and they are. Female condoms also do not work for Greek.

[fishndude57]

I supply my own and keep FC2's in stock too. Safety 1st.

[Guest]

Oh the problems of the extreme ends of the spectrum. Happy to be average w/o these fitting issues. However, to answer your question, it should be the gent's responsibility if he falls outside of the spectrum on either end or make arrangements with the YL ahead of time with a simple heads up. 

[Lawyer]

Having a micro-penis is a lame excuse to request bareback. I agree with you, he should research the best brand and size for him and go to the appointment with his pockets full of his own special condoms.

BTW this is my first post so hi to everyone!

Edited April 19, 2016 by Lawyer

[mrbreeze]

2 hours ago, Kashmir said:

I always bring 3 sizes to visits: snug fit, regular, and large.

I adore the women who are this organized and find that to be enough for you. Some guys might be trying to get away with something if they know of an issue and don't prepare before hand. 

Are providers ok with bringing our own? Didn't know that and never asked. I thought that would make them uncomfortable because something very very important is out of their control.  I think snugness and comfort might be subjective too... I'm kinda between two sizes and find brands vary greatly! Kinda would prefer my own brand I know works for me. 

[Guest]

5 hours ago, mrbreeze said:

Are providers ok with bringing our own? Didn't know that and never asked. I thought that would make them uncomfortable because something very very important is out of their control.  I think snugness and comfort might be subjective too... I'm kinda between two sizes and find brands vary greatly! Kinda would prefer my own brand I know works for me. 

Great points, some providers may not be uncomfortable with you bringing your own condoms. Men have been known to sabotage condoms. You don't know if they have been stored correctly. Some just have a nasty taste.

It may come down to communication before hand. If you require a special size, then give the escort enough time to go buy them. If they are okay with you bringing your own, leave them in the original unopened box. 

Still it makes for an awkward moment, when the client arrives knowing he has an unusual size penis and says nothing prior. FS is not an option if the condom does not fit.

 

[BenThere]

I tend to to bring my own  raincoats with me.  In most cases the lady supplies them, but in some cases they are uncomfortble

 and I exchange them with a a better fit. They also work well to cover a toy that the lady is unsure as. To where it been .

[Erin_CO]

15 hours ago, Kashmir said:

It may come down to communication before hand. If you require a special size, then give the escort enough time to go buy them.

I agree with Kashmir but we also have to acknowledge that for most men with that particular characteristic having that conversation beforehand could be very difficult if not impossible:  "Hey... I just wanted you to know that I have micro penis, uuhhh could you go to this website and buy micro-condoms for me? "

Fortunately having 2 or 3 different brand/sizes at hand is usually enough

[BigBaldBlk]

This whole link is interesting about condoms in general, but this slide seems to stand out from others!  No doubt some are more comfortable than others, but not by leaps and bounds!

[StanTheMan]

I always set up my appointments through P411 and I mention my special condom requirements on my profile there. I ask the providers I contact to check out my profile, so they'll know. That's been working out fine for many years, but I always carry my own just in case. Most providers I've seen like this setup, but a few refuse to check out my profile for some weird reason. In those cases I just move on.

[daaacz]

Well, since we're posting links, I found this article on the best condom--the best bang for your buck (sorry, couldn't resist).

http://thesweethome.com/reviews/best-condoms/?utm_source=feedly&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=RSS%20Feed

 

[Old_Timer]

When the condom doesn't fit, you must (ac)quit.

 

[Happymon]

I have exclusively used Skyn Lifetyle non-latex since I first discovered them years ago.  I carry my own, as few girls stock them. 

[Heidi the Housewife aka The Maui Muse]

18 minutes ago, Happymon said:

I have exclusively used Skyn Lifetyle non-latex since I first discovered them years ago.  I carry my own, as few girls stock them. 

Besides the FC, Skyn Lifestyle are fabulous!  Non latex and are available in different sizes. Nice to see someone else appreciates them too.

[2Big]

I always bring Trojan XL to the party. The only ones that fit me.

[Guest]

9 minutes ago, 2Big said:

I always bring Trojan XL to the party. The only ones that fit me.

I think they can treat delusional disorders now 2Big, you might want to check into that

Trojan gold and XL are so dang thick. I would think it is like being wrapped in bubble wrap. Trojan Ecstasy (silver) is much thinner and is roomy.

Any one have suggestions for the extra smalls? 

[Juanmotai]

1 minute ago, Kashmir said:

I think they can treat delusional disorders now 2Big, you might want to check into that

Trojan gold and XL are so dang thick. I would think it is like being wrapped in bubble wrap. Trojan Ecstasy (silver) is much thinner and is roomy.

Any one have suggestions for the extra smalls? 

Finger cots?? Lol. 

[amcbl1]

I've preferred to bring my own, making sure that they haven't gone past the expiration date. Beyond Seven has been my favorite. Although in the heat of the moment, if the provider uses her own, I don't mind. As far as the non-latex varieties, I've had difficulties having them fit correctly and with some, they seem to lack sensation though they claim to be thinner and add sensation.

There was one provider from way back who preferred to double glove hobbyists who visited her. Needless to say the sensation was less than pleasurable and I never saw her again.

[SultryKitten]

I am allergic to latex, and spermicide so I buy different sizes of the lifestyles that are made with polyurethane. They are so much nicer, and I haven't heard a complaint. For the really small tools, I use snugger fit, or finger cots. For the ones that think they can make an excuse to go BBFS, they get Female condoms, my UTF, or a Hawaiian wave(this, of course, depends on various situations, or implications). ;-) I even provide dams for gents who want to go downtown, but won't due to scares. As a professional, you gotta have the right equipment.

I don't mind with guys bringing their own, but usually it is the ribbed which are NOT fun, or covered in spermicide, or it looks like it has been in his wallet since HS. I would be cool to a new box that hasn't been opened, and without all the cool gadgets.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

[Kaos]

37 minutes ago, SultryKitten said:

. . .or a Hawaiian wave . . .

wat?

[SultryKitten]

LOL! You know, the middle finger for "f" off?! I was being nice...  :-)

Xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

[Jez UaBriain]

When it is so small that the condom doesn't fit- use the finger tip  rubbers. ;-D