Lawyer

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  1. I'm wondering what's everybody's experience about clients over 50 years old cumming 2 times in a 1 hour appointment. When I was 21 I got recharged and ready to go again in 10 minutes! Both, ladies and gentlemen are welcome to vote!
  2. Please remove your piercings

    The problem is not an aesthetic thing. And I know I can screen them out, which is what I've been doing. OK, this is might sound gross. I have a sensitive sense of smell so I'm very aware of good and bad aromas. Including body parts, the smell of the place, clothes, towels, dirty dishes in the sink, etc, etc. About piercings my only concern has been the smell related to them. It's not necessarily poor hygiene. Sometimes the jewel itself has a strong metallic or weird smell. And sometimes there can be a funky smell, especially in the nipples where the hole made across the nipple is like a big tunnel. Maybe there's irritation inside? who knows... Again, Yes I know I can chose other ladies. I was looking for a way to see the "piercing girls"... but it seems it's not possible according to everybody's opinion.
  3. Some people like piercings and some not, I think it's just a matter of taste. I belong to the species that doesn't really like them, but I respect those who like them! I'm talking specifically about nipple, tongue and clit piercings. I don't care about them in any other body part. Would it be okay to ask a provider to remove her piercings during our time together? Even better, before I arrive? I don't want to offend anybody if this could be interpreted as imposing, judging or bad manners. It's just that I'd love to meet with some of the beautiful ladies I see here... if they would remove their piercings for one hour.
  4. Help about losing the erection

    Thank you guys. My question is not about the medical part. I don't think I have an issue yet. It happened to me last week and that was the first time. I know I should go to the doctor if this keeps happening and I know there are many options and treatments. It's more on eatu55 and pfunk's reply, and how to react in the moment. I'm just curious about the ladies point of view and their experience when this happens, what they recommend us to do, what they think and feel, etc.
  5. Last week I was having sex with one of the ladies in the hobby, everything was going well, there was connection and passion, but out of nothing I lost my erection. So a little help please: Ladies (and/or gents) do you see this happening frequently during your appointments? What's the best way to react to this situation? What would you recommend me to do/say? Of course I know this is common among men my age, viagra, treatments, psychologist, etc. I'm not too worried about that part. My question is about the very moment when it happens and the action has to stop (if it ever happens again). Thanks in advance for your suggestions.
  6. What constitutes a bad review nowadays?

    Maybe I didn't explain enough. A review with Pictures Not Accurate is different than a Recommend = No With pictures you can put yes, no, old, fake. But a No Recommend is a pretty tough statement. I was talking about reviews with NO Recommend.
  7. What constitutes a bad review nowadays?

    I'd never do a NO review, unless I've been robbed or something like that. No chemistry, no accurate pictures, NCNS, not the cleanest place, ugly dog watching us having sex, poor hygiene down there, etc... are just normal risks of the hobby.
  8. How your mood effects your day.

    Like some already said, if I'm on a bad mood I won't play, unless I've already scheduled. I never cancel a scheduled appointment, so I would put myself in the right mood thinking about the fun things that are about to come soon when I see her.
  9. Favorite Time to Hobby

    After work. I would visit a lady, borrow her shower to freshen up, and then I'm ready!
  10. A Screening Conundrum

    I live about 1/2 of the year in the US and 1/2 of the year in a country where the hobby is not illegal, or at least, nobody is afraid of LE. Man! what a blessing! LOL
  11. Ultra-high-end

    I've had an appointment like that only one time, a few years ago. It was fun, beautiful lady, normal range of activities. But the next day I decided never to do it again since I didn't have significantly more fun than with normal 250/300 ladies.
  12. I've compiled some ideas to help the ladies provide a better Full Body Sensual Massage sessions. I'm not criticizing anybody. I'm just sharing my wishes, combining techniques I've seen from several providers and what other people have mentioned here and in other places. Assumptions in this post - I'll just use the term massage in general [snip] including body rubs. - Standard 1 hour session - The client is respectful, not looking for FS but for FBSM. - The client is clean. - The provider is serious about her work, I'm not talking here about providers that just give lousy rubs and quick HJ. - Mutual touching, fully nude, body to body, tits massage, Nuru, BJ or similar options don't affect the following recommendations. In general - Besides the massage in the large body parts like the back or shoulders also massage hands and fingers, face, ears, and scalp. You don't have to be a licensed masseuse to massage those areas. It feels very good and is very relaxing. Avoid scalp massage with oily hands. If you are not sure, ask the client. - Include the feet and toes, if you are not sure if he would like it, just ask. It's easier for you to ask if he likes it or not than for the client to request it. Most people like foot massage. While he is facing down - Massage the whole back side, from head to toes, no only back and shoulders. - Tease the balls, inner thighs and crotch once in a while during the massage. Your oily hands on that area feel awesome. The teasing should not be only for the happy ending. - If he is really clean, as for example freshly showered at your place, include the crack and anus during the butt massage. No need to go inside him, just outside, which should be clean. Obviously, some men don't like this so if you are not sure you can insinuate it with an exploratory massage or just asking. Again, it's easier for you to ask if he likes it than for him to request that massage. Once he is facing up - Once the client has flipped over, massage the full front side of his body. Don't go directly to the HJ. Massage legs, thighs, arms, chest, neck, face, etc, etc. From head to toes again. You should calculate your time on the back in order to have time for the front. - Tease the fun parts once in a while during the front side massage as well, don't wait for the actual HJ to do this. - Tease/rub/pinch / (kiss/bite) the client's nipples. Men's nipples are similarly sensitive as women's. For the final fireworks - Do some penis massage, before the HJ or as a replacement for the traditional HJ. There are plenty of video clips in porn sites that show what a penis massage is. This is different than the traditional up and down handjob. For example: Massage for the Male Penis or Penis Massage. - Massage the balls and surrounding area. If you've massaged his crack and anus (look above), do it again at this moment. - "Edge" at least one time. Edging means take him more or less near to the climax and then stop and give attention to other areas of the body while he relaxes. You can "edge" as many times as you want. You should calculate your time for at least one edging. - This one is very important and a common error: once the client starts cumming don't stop right away doing what you were doing. The first shot of cum is not the signal to stop! Continue doing what you were doing until he becomes too sensitive to resist it, that should be obvious and that's the time to stop. Or when he tells you to stop. (Optional: once the overwhelming sensitivity has gone, softly HJ him a little bit more, even if it's already soft. Feels very good) - Clean him up with warm towels, or whatever you use. This is a nice touch and very much appreciated. - Do some post-cum body massage. It's awesome to calm and relax for a few minutes after the orgasm while receiving a soft massage, instead of getting dressed immediately. I know a provider that saves the feet massage for this moment. Some trial and error for the distribution of your time probably would be needed but everything should fit in the 1-hour session. Everybody, please feel free to contribute, add or criticize my suggestions. Ladies, if you can please give some feedback about this, maybe you see things from a different point of view that I have not taken into account.
  13. fetishes

    Beautiful feet
  14. I've never tried one but looks uncomfortable to me.
  15. Travel, hobby or stupid shit

    I finished remodeling my summer deck. Not a trip or hobby but I enjoyed it.