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About daaacz

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  • Birthday 10/31/1973
  1. References

    I understand your skepticism and it seems reasonable at first, but keep in mind these providers must take on far more risk than you do. For us, it's just once every week, month, or year depending on our habits, budgets, etc. but they must take the same risk for every client they meet. If providing references feels too risky, this might not be the right "hobby" for you. Consequently, I've been using P411 much more in the last few months. I've found that many P411 members will give OKs on P411, but won't provide references beyond that. Now when I request time with a provider who is not a P411 member, I'm stuck in the same situation as the new guys with no references to speak of. There's one who I would really love to meet, but I probably won't pass her screening because of this little issue. It's inconvenient for me, but I can't blame providers for wanting to ensure their own safety. I just have to live with it until I have a good mix of P411 and non-P411 refs. Good luck out there.
  2. Married guys and outcalls

    I thin Megan is the only one who really answered your question about feeling guilty. Logically speaking, doing incall is just as "wrong" as doing outcall. It all really comes to how it affects you. Risks and consequences aside, do you feel as guilty doing an incall at the provider's place as you would doing an outcall to your home? If not then your best bet is an incall. Why cause yourself angst when you don't need to? As a bonus, you will be mitigating some risks of getting caught. Also, if this stuff makes you feel guilty, you might want to look into another "hobby." Good luck and stay safe.
  3. Protected Texts

    Looks pretty cool. I already have a (more complicated) solution, but this looks like it could be handy.
  4. Generations

    I had to Google it, so here it is for those of you who don't want to take that step. It's really amazing that we have the same complaints they had 2500 years ago. The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers.
  5. Sex doll brothels legal in North America

    Nope. I watched the show Humans. When they rebel, the jerks will be torn to shreds.
  6. Generations

    It seems every generation thinks the new group is not as good as they were. I was called lazy and entitled. Millennials are called lazy and entitled. So will the next bunch. I remember watching the show All in the Family in which Archie Bunker complained about the new generation on nearly every episode. It's a trend that seems destined to continue forever. Sometimes I catch myself having similar thoughts because, darnit, Gen X rocks! Then I remember I raised a few millennials and their generation is filled with some of the kindest and most thoughtful people I've ever met.
  7. Guilty as charged

    Change it. I'm stealing that pic, BTW. I'll insert it into my post whenever I defend someone.
  8. What's for dinner

    Osso Buco. My mouth is watering just thinking about it.
  9. Picking and choosing

    This behavior is why I've seen posts on other boards complaining that TOB is a clique filled with bullies. It would be easy enough to fix if the mods would follow the same rules they set for the rest of us. For the most part, this is a really good little community, but this board has a tendency to pile on when attacking or defending other members and the mods support the behavior. Don't get me wrong. I've IM'd them a few times and they seem like good, reasonable folks. There are just some conversations they can't seem to keep their fingers out of.
  10. Vent...blow off that steam of negativity

    Gawd! Don't get me started on the zipper merge!! It's so simple and it works. What really pisses me off are those assholes who think they are helping by blocking the incoming lane so nobody can merge properly. C'mon. Thanks for giving me this thread to vent, Lacy.
  11. Nervous but Excited

    If you know your stuff, then don't worry about it. I don't know where you are in the process but if you can seek out a mentor, do it. If you've made it this far then chances are you are are right where you should be. A relationship with a professional can give you that confidence you might be missing. Good luck.
  12. TER is back up and running

    I got in for a while, then was blocked again. Must have been a mistake. That's OK. I'd rather not support them anyway.
  13. Tongue or No Tongue?

    Just the tip grazing mine. mmmmmmm.
  14. New here

    Welcome to the fold. You can search postings and I think you can search the forums for the locations you're looking for. Good luck and stay safe.
  15. Do you see it?

    I didn't see it at first. Once you see it, you can't unsee it.