Posted December 5, 2012 She says, "whats the fasination all you guys have with anal?" Hasn't been my thing so I couldn't answer. (subject to change) I told her that I would find out. What say you. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 5, 2012 She says, "whats the fasination all you guys have with anal?" Hasn't been my thing so I couldn't answer. (subject to change) I told her that I would find out. What say you. Having experienced it now exactly 4 times with 4 different providers.... Honestly for me it is not the feel - In truth I think the pussy feels much better. But every now and again, there is some inner voice urging me to try it once again... And I have had fun 2 of the 4 times I have played in the alternative entry. So I think it is more about the taboo and even to some extent the fact that I am able to do something that is fairly rare in the rest of my experiences. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 5, 2012 I was in a relasonship a couple years ago where she loved anal. So what's a guy to do. I can give it or leave it. But if she want it...... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 5, 2012 I was in one of those relationships as well, can't say why but there is something about it that is exciting, but if a lady is not in to it, it is not like I would miss it. Well......maybe a tiny bit. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2012 Not all guys like anal it seems. I've had to basically beg guys to fuck my ass before in my personal life. Depends on the person I guess. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2012 I can't really explain it. Pussy feels better to fuck, but there is just something nasty about fucking an ass. It isn't something I pay extra for to would want every time, but it I am with a girl who offers it for no upcharge I usually partake and enjoy it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2012 either you enjoy it or ya don't. sorry to put out a blanket statement but it kinda holds true for both ladies and gents. there is a taboo associated with it. it's naughty or a dirty activity to engage in and it elevates the kink level. i think it feel different good! maybe because it's more snug? my first love introduced me to it. i was completely grossed out by it until her. she was completely mad about it.... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2012 I've had to basically beg guys to fuck my ass before in my personal life. I'd enjoy hearing that in person LOL. Kind of like that scene in "Dusk 'Til Dawn" when Juilet Lewis' character asks "Ritchie, would you please eat my pussy?" On the flip side, sometimes I've had to beg girls to do my ass. It's just another erogenous zone. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2012 I can't really explain it. Pussy feels better to fuck, but there is just something nasty about fucking an ass. It isn't something I pay extra for to would want every time, but it I am with a girl who offers it for no upcharge I usually partake and enjoy it. I agree with you. I was excited to try this when I started in the hobby, as I had never been there before. After several "travels to the isles", I think a tight pussy does feel better. Saying the obvious, pussy was designed for the dick and gives a firm sensation over the length of the penis. While doing anal gives a tight sensation thru the anus, I'm impressed how the rectum is more spacious and doesn't feel as good as pussy. Nonetheless, I agree it is fun to be there sometimes because it does have the kink factor and is a nice change. I don't particularly seek it out, but will go there if offered for no extra charge, which is more unusual, as most providers do charge extra for a "trip to the isles". 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2012 Not all guys like anal it seems. I've had to basically beg guys to fuck my ass before in my personal life. Depends on the person I guess. For me, my anus is a one-way valve only, and I feel the same about a ladies'. Probe a bit with fingers and explore around with tongue maybe, but no unwarranted intrusions are ever on my agenda. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2012 I was watching a documentary on sexuality this past weekend. A group decided to update the Kinsey study since it was done 40 years ago. The current study interviewed over 5,500 people and it concluded that taboos like anal sex and oral sex have risen dramatically over the last 40 years. I can't quote the exact numbers because they broke it down by how old a person was. However, the number 40% of women 18 - 29 have experimented with anal sex. 40 years ago the number was something like 10% of women 18 - 29. My point to this is that we as a culture have so much more access to sexual content due to the internet then any previous generation. Besides very easy access to porn, which I would assume most of us watch either by ourselves or with a lover, in addition to the invention of the birth control pill were the studies two main contributing factors to the increase of less traditional forms of sex. It was a fascinating show to watch! It also discussed the rising numbers of people who participate in our little hobby......which isn't so little according to the study! Okay, back to the topic at hand. IMHO, anal sex is more muscular feeling than a typical vaginal sex (my experience) and it is a taboo and is erotic. I think I've participated in this activity a total of 4 times and it tends to really trip my trigger. However, it is by no means necessary. There is no substitute for a well tuned set of Kegel muscles. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 7, 2012 The documentary was "Sex in America" came on DOC channel in case documentary recasts (ref:CTgiver post). Regarding Anal sex, study found that "20% to 25% females in age group of 20-40 had received anal sex within the LAST ONE year" "20%+ males in age group of 25-49 had engaged in insertive anal sex" I was really surprised by above findings. If you want, you can buy documentary at amazon http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00A65H4OY/ref=atv_dp_gtv_hd_sib 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 7, 2012 Thx iCool, I thought it was a fascinating show and like you, I was very surprised by some of the data. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 10, 2012 I think it's the taboo. When watching porn, I rely on it almost exclusively. I really like the idea of it, but each time I do it, it's slightly disappointing. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 10, 2012 Yep I have some fav providers that like it, some favs that don't. All about the experience for both of us, for me. One of my favs that likes it says she has big orgasms that way. Always have a good time either way. One of my favs that isn't into it brought it up in conversation before a trip we took together. She was saying she'd only do it again if a bit drunk and with a lot of lube. Of course being a guy, my first thought was to get a bunch of good wine and a big bottle of lube for our trip. :-) I decided against that. We have a great time regardless. If she was interested she would mention it, which is really my rule of thumb. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
