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Hello Everyone, As you can see by my stats under my avatar on the left, been around for a long time but rarely post. Not too into "+1" or "me too" replies and just about everything has been said on a topic by the time I actually log in every month or so to get my fix. I should do it more often since many threads are hilarious and/or informative. Anyway, got a weird one I would like some input on from the experts here I've grown to trust. I usually stick with a small group of providers and only move on when one retires or moves, etc. I've been visiting one YL for years, Bianca. Well known and reviewed on here for a long time, and she used to work with Alley K, also well known. Since I'd visited her dozens of times, she gave me a direct number so I could reach out when I'm in town, just in case she wasn't posting at the time, etc. That number went dead. I figured she retired. I was sad but decided to move on. I then saw some posts over the last couple weeks on EB for her with her same email but a strange number. No reply on email. I looked up the number (760-615-5165) and it was out of Apple Valley, CA and registered to some dude. I decided what the hell, I have a burner phone so might as well txt. I did, and then got this txt back: "Check out textPlus, free calling and texting to any number. http://www.textPlus.com" OK, no way in hell I'm going to that URL unless I go to some public computer or fire up TOR. I've decided to just bail and move on, but I thought it was so strange, I thought I'd better give the community a heads up in case something nefarious was going on here. Thanks for your time. clear

Picture is similar to mascot for my old job. Handle is my hip hop name.

Yes, twice with two different ladies. I had seen both of them many times over a couple years so not too difficult to work out. One trip was excellent but the other just average. Hard to fully know someone when you are just with them a few hours here and there, instead of being with them for 24 hours every day for a week Generally worth it IMO but not cheap. As another poster said, you both have to be ok with real names since that will be made clear at the airport, car rental counter, etc.

Just be careful, and don't run for public office unless you want to spend your days running a sleazy TV show! :-) http://www.daveandthomas.net/2008/11/17/jerry-springer-paid-a-hooker-with-a-check/

Would be easy for me. Since I'm on the road most of the year and not able to hobby while gone, I've spent some great times with wonderful ladies on here for some of the brief times I'm back home. Made some good friendships and even traveled for a week each with a couple ATFs so got to see them both for 24x7, not just the fantasy hour or two. Alas, it is just a fantasy and any time I may have thoughts to the contrary, I snap back to reality and remember it is just business. Not always easy, but I can't be in a relationship anyway which is why I hobby. Tried telling SO that I have to cancel our plans because I have to leave for a month or two. Doesn't fly, let me tell you.

Yep I have some fav providers that like it, some favs that don't. All about the experience for both of us, for me. One of my favs that likes it says she has big orgasms that way. Always have a good time either way. One of my favs that isn't into it brought it up in conversation before a trip we took together. She was saying she'd only do it again if a bit drunk and with a lot of lube. Of course being a guy, my first thought was to get a bunch of good wine and a big bottle of lube for our trip. :-) I decided against that. We have a great time regardless. If she was interested she would mention it, which is really my rule of thumb.

My job sends me on the road about 7 months out of the year. "Normal" relationships don't fly, tried many times. For some reason women don't like to hear, "see you in 6-7 weeks!" Certainly in it for the sex but making a connection with a regular or ATF makes it more enjoyable for both of us I think.