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I just spent half an hour going through the member list and looking at last log on dates. We have lost a ton of providers.....is this my imagination or are others thinking that as well? I wish there was something we could do about this. I know it's the nature of the business, however, many of these folk made great contributions to the board.

I would take the massage and then playtime. It just kind of makes sense in that order.

+1 Wendy. I've had this happen to me before and it would be appropriate to communicate stature at booking and if she is not able to receive you then she should refund the money.

I think for your face shape I wouldn't recommend anything shorter than chin length....just saying. I enjoy both, women with long and short hair. My $.02

I'm with lewd, it's part of my morning showering routine and has been since the late 80's.....not that I want to date myself. Never had problems with burns or ingrown hairs. Lol, last week, to save time my SO and I showered together and I think I had gone three days. So, what the heck, I'll groom in front of her. She loved it.....I don't think I have the courage to hand my razor over to her though.

Yes geecue, I was encouraged by the log in as well. Sorely missed!

When I lived in Connecticut I use to boat, I had a boat with two cabins and it was big enough to live aboard for maybe a couple of weeks. Long story short, my all time favorite ASP would meet me there from time to time. Our best session ever was during a mild thunderstorm with the sound of rain hitting the hull above. We finished our session and just laid there looking out a hatch and port hole for over an hour.......great memories!

I would have to vote for Elaine as best new ASP in the Denver area. She combines so many of the attributes I look for in a session. Just a super nice person and enjoyable to spend time with. Megan Rae hasn't logged on since October. Her humor is missed!

I saw her and her friend back in either June or July, PM me for details.

Ironically, when I came here in 2008, one of my first posts was about good provider recommendations. I ended up meeting swapping several emails with a long term area ASP. As we emailed back and forth we realized we had a ton in common and began to date. We would see each other every couple of weeks and really got a long well. She would always say, "never fall in love with a hooker". Love no, but I certainly really enjoyed her company both in and out of the bedroom. The moral to the story is it's always best to tell the truth. This alternative world we live in here can not represent reality, however, there is a lot to learned about human beings here. There is a basic need in life and that is to love the be loved. We all want this unless you are a small majority. I must fall into the 10% category since I would be okay dating and opening up emotionally to a provider. However, I believe the majority of men would not fall into this category. As long as you are truthful to who ever you are talking with then you can have a clear conscious. Agreed with Sphinx on this one. If feelings are starting to develop then it's important to share the details to see where the other person is.

I found out from one of my references that the girls never made contact with her and she's been in the Denver scene for a long time and is very well known here on the board. Yes, I did contact them for a same day appointment, however, to my defense, they posted a special rate related to that day only. So, who knows......just kind of odd in my opinion. In their defense they could have booked a bunch of regulars for that day. It's a hobby, I don't take this too personally. I am sure who ever the lucky customers were they had a great day!

+1 Pfunk, I try to bring a gift and or a single fresh flower if it's someone I have never been with before. I read reviews (if any) to make sure I understand what her limits are. I did this for one women over the summer and when I repeated in the fall she still had the glass vase I brought the flower with but the vase had a fresh flowers in it. I think if more guys shifted their thoughts to this being a date rather than time with an ASP it would benefit both sides of this awkward situation. Think about it....."Hi! Let's have sex!" Not a social norm by any means.

Do you only see women from P411 or will you see providers from other sources as well? I feel like if you make them aware of your P411 account and preferences then they should make an effort to emulate your preferences. There is one ASP that I got to know in 2009 and she floats in and out of the hobby to this day. I never looked at her P411 account until this past week and was a bit shocked as to some of the things she was into sexually. I guess the moral to the story is to read as much as you can when it comes to being with a new ASP. It shows respect and a sincere interest in making a session work for both involved.

Thx iCool, I thought it was a fascinating show and like you, I was very surprised by some of the data.

I honestly think thigh highs with a garter belt is about the sexiest look a women can have.....in black. Thanks Mikey!