defendingbluelines-5503

I am in Central Oregon these days - relocated from Denver CO.

Interestingly, my wife of 30 years, who for nearly 2 decades had little or no sex drive at all, seems to have come around and now at least we are intimate 1-2 times a week, have been for the last several years. Hence my absence here. Now if only I could interest her in some of the more adventurous intimate pursuits.

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Wow! Sweet Ashley what a terrific blast from the past. One of my all time favorite folks as well, I sure did enjoy spending time with you, and l cherish the memories. I too have been away for some time and when I popped back in, look at all the changes best wishes to you

I have traded a few times with several different providers. Services for services. "Man Skills" is what one lovely lady called it. As she did not have a man around to take care of certain things. I hung a pot rack I assembled a new bed I installed new wood base and door casing on the second floor of her town home I have done some auto repairs as well and I have moved large/heavy objects for them All in trade. Nothing specific was ever promised, just the promise that I would be taken care of and boy was I ever! Each time I felt like I came out well ahead in the deal. Ms. Sterling, if you still need that bumper installed, just let me know!

In a stairwell at the old Stapleton Airport standing with a MILF I met on a flight home. She had a short layover in Denver so I bought her a drink in the bar and she suggested we find someplace a bit more private and the stairwell was nearby... Obviously pre-TSA

Damn I wish I was your lover Sophie B. Hawkins That old dog has chained you up alright Give you everything you need To live inside a twisted cage Sleep beside an empty rage I had a dream I was your hero Chorus Damn I wish I was your lover I'll rock you till the daylight comes Make sure you are smiling and warm I am everything Tonight I'll be your mother I will Do such things to ease your pain Free your mind and you won't feel ashamed This monkey can't stand to see you black and blue Give you something sweet each time you Come inside my jungle book What is it just too good Don't say you'll stay 'Cause then you go away Chorus Shucks for me there is no other You're the only shoe that fits I can't imagine I'll grow out of it Damn I wish I was your lover If I was your girl believe me I'd turn on the Rolling Stones We could groove along and feel much better I could do it forever and ever Give me an hour to kiss you Walk through heaven's door I'm sure We don't need no doctor to feel much better Let me in Forever and ever and ever and ever I sat on the mountainside with peace of mind I lay by the ocean making love to her with visions clear Walked for days with no one near And I return as chained and bound to you Chorus

Maybe for you it is out of the way but for me.... It's right next door! All a matter of perspective I suppose. But due mostly to the diligence of those on this board, I will never meet someone for the first time in Lakewood. Now once I have met her a few times and know her, I have no problem meeting in Lakewood or anywhere else that she might want to book a room.

On darker skin tones - White looks amazing, reminding me of tan lines that I absolutely love! On the lighter skin tones - colors from red, teal, green etc all look wonderful... Black. Well it is almost always exquisite.

Sundress with cowboy boots. Because it just looks natural, casual and oh so sexy!

Amen brother - Amen.

I mentioned both sexual and emotional needs and the ASP's potential ability to understand her mates needs in both areas.

I abstain from answering the poll. Will her past as an ASP improve her sexual skills and experience? Probably. Will she be inclined to use those improved skills? That is another question. Think about it from the other side. If a man is a carpenter, learns the ins and outs of construction and many of the trades. Excellent with his hands and later becomes a banker. Will that make him a better husband? Maybe. But I know many men who are in the building trades who do not work on their own houses unless they have something broken. After doing something all day long - having to come home and work on the same thing as a hobby... Not all that often. Same goes for auto mechanics etc. Is the potential there for a former ASP to keep her husband happy at home, not straying and understanding how important the physical and intimate aspects are to a happy marriage by using the skills, both physical and emotional, that she gained by being a successful ASP? Absolutely. But as many others have said, there is so much more about a person that "makes" them than their job that it is just one small part. Just because she used to work at Subway doesn't mean she will always make good sandwiches. But she might. Just as the woman who is an ASP might also make good sandwiches. But the former Subway worker might know some little things that make hers just a bit better. Anyway - that is my .02, I think this is a pretty good poll and thread. Thanks. DBL out

Ok - here is my .02 and the fact is nobody really cares except myself and the lovely lady I am spending my time with. I have never paid any attention to the clock - one way or the other. I just don't. I show up on time or I let her know I am running behind. And we spend our time together. Every time I have always known when it was time to leave. Sometimes I have been pleasantly surprised when I get back into the truck and find I was there for significantly more than the advertized time. And on rare occasion I have gotten in the truck, drove off and noticed that I seem to be running a bit early. Never have I felt cheated, nor have I felt as though I was taking advantage. IF the vibe is time to get your boots on and get gone - then I do exactly that. DBL out

I'm not single but I have taken a favorite provider to lunch and dinner several times. If I had been asked or approached about it, I would have explained that she was a client is all. I entertain clients from time to time so it works out just fine that way. We enjoyed a nice meal and conversation then returned to their place for private time. Was lots of fun. DBL out