Posted June 13, 2020 To me – TOB is a place to pop by occasionally and read comments and opinions from consenting non-judgmental people. The postings are very often amusing, educational, thought provoking, inane, and sometimes - just pretty damn funny. It is a small glimpse into many peoples lives and minds - many who I have grown to like and respect but will never meet. It’s a great place to lurk and share with mostly intelligent adults who occasionally get together an squish their naughty bits together for fun and profit. And it is also research tool to find those girl type people whom I would like to meet and fall madly in love with for an hour or five… Some I have met here because of their posts – some I have merely researched here in order to not waste their time or mine. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2020 Beyond the obvious; There's great ideas and information on any of the wide ranging topics discussions from the Tech savvy user-group-members to the Street Smart members..... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2020 TOB is one of the small villages where I reside. It’s a collection of friends, a source of entertaining discussions, and fount of knowledge on diverse subjects. Of course, we do have a few village idiots, but they’re easy to ignore. 8 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 14, 2020 It is a place where I am desperately tryin to get more than 2 dots. Actually, since I am not a frequent hobbyist, I enjoy the ladies comments to assist me in deciding who I see next time around. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 14, 2020 You want more dots...post, comment and participate in the community. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 14, 2020 Hmmm, only been here since Sept of 2019, zero reviews and 26 posts and you have 2 dots??? That's 1 more than I'd give you! Just my 2cents 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 14, 2020 Its the Best dating site in the world WEEEEEEEEEEEE !! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 14, 2020 TOB for me is my home base. It helped jumpstart my provider career after a 15yr hiatus. It's introduced me to some truly amazing client and provider friends. It's been here for me through some really dark and challenging times in my personal life, as well as to share some of my best moments. TOB has taught me through all the tough and uncertain times like fosta/sesta and a pandemic, we're a community of strength, and for a SW that's basically out here on my own, that means something to me. It's a place where I can speak my mind, and give input on topics from a provider perespective. It's a place where I can publically put my foot in my mouth and embarrass myself, have regret and you all still seem to put up with me, and keep me around. Lol. Glad to still be here. 13 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 15, 2020 To me, it has been a good resource in keeping up with a lot of friends and a lot of new friends that I care about very much. Male and female alike. I have a lot of people on here I would very much call out a friend and do anything for them if they asked. Anything at all. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 15, 2020 I started here as a lurker. Then, a couple of years ago, tried to be more active. The folks on this board have been a fantastic group to get to know. The ladies I've met have been awesome. The gents I've met have been great. This board fills a need (or a want) in my life. I'm older, divorced after being with my now ex-wife for many years. I'm not looking for a relationship, but still enjoy some fun between the sheets. It has worked out well for me and for that I am grateful. So to the folks here, a big "THANKS !!" 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 15, 2020 Aside from the obvious, I essentially live each day hoping Laci will dispense some wisdom, or a verbal beat down. Seriously tho.... I enjoy the magazine not just for the pictures... but also the forum. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 16, 2020 (edited) TOB gave me a new place to travel to , and to meet a lot of grateful men and a few woman who I love chatting with with and gave me a place to feel safe and happy . Lenard a lot from every one and I keep learning new things . I like how there is little drama , I mean there can be some but it's seems small to what I'v seen in my 17years being on other sites . I can show my real self ... Whit out judgment .. I Just Like Be At A Happy Place . Edited June 16, 2020 by lustybustygina 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 16, 2020 On 6/13/2020 at 8:28 PM, ilovewomen said: You want more dots...post, comment and participate in the community. Agreed. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 17, 2020 On 6/13/2020 at 7:39 PM, Dwayne said: It is a place where I am desperately tryin to get more than 2 dots. Actually, since I am not a frequent hobbyist, I enjoy the ladies comments to assist me in deciding who I see next time around. I think the gentlemen failed to “get” my understated humor. The dots are meaningless to me and nothing more than a thinly veiled reference to another thread that I thought was humorous due to all the confusion it created. The second sentence is my response to the question, what is TOB to me. That’s my story and I’m stickin to it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 20, 2020 Don't take it personal Dwayne. I too am a very infrequent but still remember the dot dilemma in another post. I think I just have five from popping for many years cause it's mostly a good crowd. Glad you and other regulars tossed in their 2 cents. Hope other lurkers recognize the benefits of hanging out here and chime in once and a while. It seems as though the community has been understandably repressed, depressed, and oppressed for a little while now. I am looking forward to seeing new and old friends here... if we ever freaking get back to normal! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 20, 2020 TOB is a therapeutic escape from the crazy of the RW. Where i can leave the RW interactions behind and enjoy the pleasurable HW interactions... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 21, 2020 Simply put............ TOB is the best! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 21, 2020 A place to go where there is a mutual understanding. Not always in agreement. However, for the most part we all can relate to each other and I Am liking to believe we all try to be friends/allies/lover’s...why not? Maybe after all of this we can have another gathering with 10 or more people and not call it riot! TOB is also my biggest source for advertising besides Twitter. I have tried other websites. Yet, TOB by far is the greatest form of advertisement for me. ❤️ 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
